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LadyRian -> RE: Warnings about meeting people on this site? (3/18/2011 9:08:51 AM)
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I'm sorry you had a poor experience with someone, but you know, anyone who meets anyone, whether it's via the internet or anywhere else, is taking a risk. This is why it's essential to do whatever it is you can to protect yourself, such as taking the time to get to know someone you're corresponding with,meet in a vanilla setting ( possibly several times) before play, and the most important one- trust your instinct. Someone "wrong" usually feels wrong, somewhere.
Blacklisting isn't the way. I recently encountered a similar situation, and had to come to terms with the fact that people do what they do, and have to find out for themselves about things. If I hadn't been blindsided by the thrill of "the experience" I would have seen for myself what was going on. Eventually I did. People always do. Sadder but wiser now. But I had to see for myself.
Everything's a learning experience. Let someone earn your trust. Don't just give it away to someone who calls them selves a Dominant. Take your time.
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