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kalikshama -> RE: Warnings about meeting people on this site? (3/18/2011 5:53:55 PM)
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This is why it's essential to do whatever it is you can to protect yourself, such as taking the time to get to know someone you're corresponding with, meet in a vanilla setting ( possibly several times) before play, and the most important one- trust your instinct. Someone "wrong" usually feels wrong, somewhere.
The one bad experience I had with someone I met on CM was when I didn't do the above. I take responsibility for that. He did stop when I said stop. I take responsibility for not calling stop earlier.
Right afterwards, I felt like a victim, but now realize that this learning experience taught me to listen to my gut and saved me from getting involved with someone potentially far more dangerous. My gut is smarter than farther south.
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