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Breaking Down the Physical - 3/21/2011 5:43:03 PM   
crystalclarinet


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Status: offline 		My Dom read my recently read my started thread http://www.collarchat.com/m_3606426/tm.htm. I explained to him that no seemed to be picking up on what I was trying to say. He seemed to get it and urged me to try again. Told me I was trying to be too complex and too short about something few get to genuinely experience. He told me to start with just the physical points in our relationship and see if anyone else out there has experienced it. None of my female friends have gotten within shouting distance of our sex life. He's different, intense, indescribable, too good at times, and worst, he knows it.

Okay so can anyone pipe in if this has ever happened.

#1. During sex you've had more than a 100 orgasms, and if you have, in under an hour?
#2. Has your Dom ever kissed you and made you orgasm just from kissing you?
#3. Can your Dom grab you hungrily and make you orgasm?
#4. During sex does it feel like your floating?
#5. After sex do you continue to orgasm uncontrollably for a while afterwords?
#6. If yes to #5 can your Dom 'command' you to stop or begin climaxing with just a word?
#7. If yes to #6, can his command to you not to orgasm prevent you from reaching orgasm for days at a time, only able to orgasm after he commands you to cum?
#8. Has he trained you to orgasm while performing oral sex on him, not just little orgasms but eye rolling orgasms that make your body convulse and somehow force you to keep cumming?
#9. Has he made sex toys useless and obsolete entirely for you, even the kind that plug into the wall?

There's a lot more but I want to know if anyone has gotten to any of these. My Dom does all this with ease. I love him, he loves me, we know we have a pretty set and determined future together. We've been together for over a year and four months. Our sex life, emotional and communication parts of our relationship have only gotten deeper, stronger, and more powerful. He feels like endless promise and mystery, he makes me want to do things I don't want to do, to consider things I've never considered, to be someone I never thought I could be. I'm at a loss, I know there is no instruction guide for any of this but is there someone, something, that has any idea what I'm experiencing. He knows what he's doing to me, I know he can do so much more to me, I know it's waiting there at turn of his grin, the light of his eyes, the edge of his touch, the beginning of his hunger.
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RE: Breaking Down the Physical - 3/21/2011 6:09:49 PM   
Aileen1968


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Status: offline 		OK...so you've started another thread about how fantastic your sex life is. Great for you.
(BTW...lots of us are in love here and have kickass sex)
Would you be so enamored with him if the sex was mediocre?

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RE: Breaking Down the Physical - 3/21/2011 6:15:19 PM   
OsideGirl


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ORIGINAL: Aileen1968

OK...so you've started another thread about how fantastic your sex life is. Great for you.
(BTW...lots of us are in love here and have kickass sex)
Some of us have kick ass sex and don't post the details on a forum full of strangers....



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RE: Breaking Down the Physical - 3/21/2011 6:17:57 PM   
Aileen1968


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ORIGINAL: OsideGirl

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ORIGINAL: Aileen1968

OK...so you've started another thread about how fantastic your sex life is. Great for you.
(BTW...lots of us are in love here and have kickass sex)
Some of us have kick ass sex and don't post the details on a forum full of strangers....




Haha! If you're referring to my anal lube thread, there's a whole big long story behind that one.
Payback's a bitch sometimes.

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RE: Breaking Down the Physical - 3/21/2011 6:18:13 PM   
IrishMist


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ORIGINAL: Aileen1968

OK...so you've started another thread about how fantastic your sex life is. Great for you.
(BTW...lots of us are in love here and have kickass sex)
Would you be so enamored with him if the sex was mediocre?

*snicker*





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RE: Breaking Down the Physical - 3/21/2011 6:27:39 PM   
preytolife


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Status: offline 		#1. No, it gets unpleasant before it hits double digits.
#2. No.
#3. I'm not into cannibalism.
#4. I'm not into drug use.
#5. Yes.
#6. No. And I wouldn't really want anyone to.
#8. No. And I wouldn't really want anyone to.
#9. No. And I wouldn't really want anyone to.

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RE: Breaking Down the Physical - 3/21/2011 6:27:40 PM   
HisEvelyn


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Status: offline 		I actually understand some of what you are talking about, crystal. My Master has been training me for nearly a year to respond favorably to the phrase "Cum for me". I'm not yet at the point where I can go from 0 (doing something non-sexual, completely normal everyday mindset) to instant orgasm, but if he says those words to me in that state, I am instantly writhing and wet. If I have had a bit of warming up or stimulation, I instantly cum when he speaks them. If I were going down on him and he said them? I would definitely be cumming.

He also trains me in orgasm denial, so there are often times I am brought to the pleading, desperate edge for minutes before he finally allows me release.

I do sometimes feel like I am floating, if he fucks me very hard after cropping me for a while. Especially if I am cuffed.

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RE: Breaking Down the Physical - 3/21/2011 6:28:40 PM   
angelikaJ


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Status: offline 		If I understand you?

It is wonderful and amazing...to the point of being a little bit surreal and even overwhelming at times?

I think it not fair to ask other people to compare/contrast their experience with yours, simply because this is your experience.
It is your reality.
It is your life.
it is your wonderful.

Those of us who have different...well our different is not necessarily lacking.
It is what is right and what is likewise magical for us even if it is different from your current experience.

I think part of the reason you are perhaps reaching out is because this is new for you and because this is so vast you are feeling a little bit alone?

How can you talk about this because how will anyone possibly relate.

My vast may be different than yours, but I still know what that is like.

Your feelings aren't unique even if the experience is.





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RE: Breaking Down the Physical - 3/21/2011 6:29:46 PM   
OsideGirl


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Aileen1968


quote:

ORIGINAL: OsideGirl

quote:

ORIGINAL: Aileen1968

OK...so you've started another thread about how fantastic your sex life is. Great for you.
(BTW...lots of us are in love here and have kickass sex)
Some of us have kick ass sex and don't post the details on a forum full of strangers....




Haha! If you're referring to my anal lube thread, there's a whole big long story behind that one.
Payback's a bitch sometimes.
Actually, wasn't aimed at you at all Aileen.

Having a question is one thing. But the OP is just tacky IMO. (and far fetched)


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RE: Breaking Down the Physical - 3/21/2011 6:31:24 PM   
vegetablelamb


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Status: offline 		You're so lucky. I'm jealous. I want what you have. Yours is the stuff of legends.

Maybe you really, truly, honestly want to connect with others who share or have shared in something similar to your apparently phenomenal sexual experiences, but with another thread seeming to stress just how fan-fucking-tastic it really is (I presume no one in the last thread quite grasped the level of slap-your-grandma-spectacular?), I kind of get a sunshine-blowing vibe.

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RE: Breaking Down the Physical - 3/21/2011 6:46:55 PM   
mistoferin


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Status: offline 		Not sure what all the fuss is over here...

1 - 5 I have experienced all of those so they would
be Yes's. 6 and 7 would be I don't know's because no one as of yet has ever seemed to want me to stop. For 8 there was no training needed...I just like it that much. 9...sex toys will always be fun.



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RE: Breaking Down the Physical - 3/21/2011 7:27:35 PM   
mistressko


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quote:

ORIGINAL: crystalclarinet

My Dom read my recently read my started thread http://www.collarchat.com/m_3606426/tm.htm. I explained to him that no seemed to be picking up on what I was trying to say. He seemed to get it and urged me to try again. Told me I was trying to be too complex and too short about something few get to genuinely experience. He told me to start with just the physical points in our relationship and see if anyone else out there has experienced it. None of my female friends have gotten within shouting distance of our sex life. He's different, intense, indescribable, too good at times, and worst, he knows it.

Okay so can anyone pipe in if this has ever happened.

#1. During sex you've had more than a 100 orgasms, and if you have, in under an hour?
#2. Has your Dom ever kissed you and made you orgasm just from kissing you?
#3. Can your Dom grab you hungrily and make you orgasm?
#4. During sex does it feel like your floating?
#5. After sex do you continue to orgasm uncontrollably for a while afterwords?
#6. If yes to #5 can your Dom 'command' you to stop or begin climaxing with just a word?
#7. If yes to #6, can his command to you not to orgasm prevent you from reaching orgasm for days at a time, only able to orgasm after he commands you to cum?
#8. Has he trained you to orgasm while performing oral sex on him, not just little orgasms but eye rolling orgasms that make your body convulse and somehow force you to keep cumming?
#9. Has he made sex toys useless and obsolete entirely for you, even the kind that plug into the wall?

There's a lot more but I want to know if anyone has gotten to any of these. My Dom does all this with ease. I love him, he loves me, we know we have a pretty set and determined future together. We've been together for over a year and four months. Our sex life, emotional and communication parts of our relationship have only gotten deeper, stronger, and more powerful. He feels like endless promise and mystery, he makes me want to do things I don't want to do, to consider things I've never considered, to be someone I never thought I could be. I'm at a loss, I know there is no instruction guide for any of this but is there someone, something, that has any idea what I'm experiencing. He knows what he's doing to me, I know he can do so much more to me, I know it's waiting there at turn of his grin, the light of his eyes, the edge of his touch, the beginning of his hunger.



Sorry I was too dumb to get it. Thank you for the questions so that even my own tiny brain might comprehend at least a glimmer of the magnificence.

#1. I don't kiss and tell.
If I had a hundred orgasms, I would probably be too out of it to count the exact number past the first 75.
#2. See #1
#3. See #1
#4. See #1
#5. See #1
#6. See #1
#7. See #1
#8. See #1
#9. See #1

Actually on the little bottle of pills which this old thing must take in order to have the first 50 orgasms, it says a female erection (feeling of orgasm or arousal) lasting more than four hours should be treated by a doctor to avoid permanent damage to both the clitoris and urethrea.

-K




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RE: Breaking Down the Physical - 3/21/2011 7:36:55 PM   
sexyred1


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Status: offline 		As I said in your last thread, what is your point in starting this second thread other than needing to shout from the rooftops how hot your sex life is?

I have had earth shattering sex for most of my adult life and somehow, never needed to share the gory details with anyone but the person blowing my mind.


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RE: Breaking Down the Physical - 3/21/2011 8:04:13 PM   
littlewonder


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Status: offline 		sounds to me like you're in infatuation stage right now which is fun and mindblowing...but remember it is still just infatutation stage.

Just enjoy it and don't worry about the rest. No need to shout it from the rooftops. A lot of people experience it. It's nothing new.

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RE: Breaking Down the Physical - 3/21/2011 9:06:21 PM   
Arpig


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If I had a hundred orgasms, I would probably be too out of it to count the exact number past the first 75.
I was thinking along the same lines...if you can keep count of that many, they can't really be all that mindblowing.

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RE: Breaking Down the Physical - 3/21/2011 10:06:51 PM   
ResidentSadist


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Status: offline 		I think the speed limit is 55 orgasms per hour.

< Message edited by ResidentSadist -- 3/21/2011 10:07:09 PM >

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RE: Breaking Down the Physical - 3/22/2011 12:05:02 AM   
tazzygirl


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quote:

#1. During sex you've had more than a 100 orgasms, and if you have, in under an hour?
#2. Has your Dom ever kissed you and made you orgasm just from kissing you?
#3. Can your Dom grab you hungrily and make you orgasm?
#4. During sex does it feel like your floating?
#5. After sex do you continue to orgasm uncontrollably for a while afterwords?
#6. If yes to #5 can your Dom 'command' you to stop or begin climaxing with just a word?
#7. If yes to #6, can his command to you not to orgasm prevent you from reaching orgasm for days at a time, only able to orgasm after he commands you to cum?
#8. Has he trained you to orgasm while performing oral sex on him, not just little orgasms but eye rolling orgasms that make your body convulse and somehow force you to keep cumming?
#9. Has he made sex toys useless and obsolete entirely for you, even the kind that plug into the wall?


1) yep.
2) yep
3) yep
4) yep
5) yep
6) yep... in fact, just a look will do it.
7) yep
8) yep
9) hell no, he enjoys using those damn things way too much!

I have been trained to cum on command for many, many years. Its a delicious benefit. Honestly, all I see you doing is bragging, and im not sure why you feel the need to do so.

Im sure there are many, many women who have, or are, experiencing just what you are now. You want to crawl into his skin, get as close as you possibly can, and just stay there.

Yep, had that feeling too. Its nothing new.

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RE: Breaking Down the Physical - 3/22/2011 1:26:00 AM   
CherryNeko


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Status: offline 		Ewww, sex?!

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RE: Breaking Down the Physical - 3/22/2011 1:41:14 AM   
DeviantlyD


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ORIGINAL: CherryNeko

Ewww, sex?!



*LOL*


My question to the OP is, why do you want to know these things? They seem a tad personal.

No offense, but, I would recommend proofreading your posts prior to posting them. I found your OP very difficult to decipher.

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RE: Breaking Down the Physical - 3/22/2011 7:09:07 AM   
OsideGirl


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ORIGINAL: Arpig

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If I had a hundred orgasms, I would probably be too out of it to count the exact number past the first 75.
I was thinking along the same lines...if you can keep count of that many, they can't really be all that mindblowing.
At 100 per hour, that means she's averaging almost 2 orgasms per minute (and marking it on her scorecard).

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