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SweetDommes -> RE: Mistress is worried (5/19/2006 8:26:50 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: urantiam Proprietrix. You twist everything around to your advantage just to show how smart you are to other users. If you want to be a judge, go back to law school and stop wasting your time answering threads. This lifestyle existed before you were born and it is not you who invented it. Kinky people started this lifestyle a long time ago, because they enjoyed something different that they could not find in the vanilla world. What the hell are you talking about anyway. Do you even know how this thread started ? My Mistress said she will always be a whore in the bedroom. So she is no different from 99% of all women. Apart from that, where do you see a safety problem? Everybody having sex can get some kind of disease. The only way not to get anything is by practicing chasity. And I certainly don't think you practice it. Urantiam There are so many things wrong with this post, I'm having trouble picking where to start ... so I guess I'll go by section in order. Proprietrix actually had some very good and valid points, but because you don't want to hear them, you are acting like a child sticking his fingers in his ears and going "LALALALALA I CAN'T HEAR YOU" - that doesn't make the points any less valid. Yeah, she could probably be more polite, but then again, with your attitude, I can't possibly blame her for hers. I'm sure that she knows how this thread started because you keep bypassing everyone's concern to point it out - it's very difficult to miss how this thread got started because you keep shoving it in everyone's face. This is the one that really gets me. Do you know every woman on the planet? Do you even know 1/2 of the women on the planet? If not, then you cannot possibly state that 99% of women are whores (regardless of literal or figurative meaning). I am not a whore or tramp or slut - yet I have a high sex drive. I know many other women who do not call themselves by any of those types of names, yet they also have high sex drives. I also know many women who have almost no sex drive, so they don't have sex very often, if at all (which, I believe if you actually read more than 1 or 2 of Proprietrix's posts, you will find that she falls into that catagory). Not to mention the fact that there ARE ways to protect yourself from diseases even if you do have sex - it's called using condoms and getting tested and having any potential partners get tested - so chastity is NOT the only way to prevent getting diseases. Urantium, you are obviously unwilling to listen and/or learn ... which is why Proprietrix said that you are one of the people giving this lifestyle a bad name. It's not because you love your "mistress" - it's because you barely know her ... phone calls don't count, sorry. It's not because you plan to keep your word - it's because you don't seem to have thought it out before giving your word. It's not because you are giving up everything to be with the woman you love - it's the circumstances under which you decided that you love her and that you have no back-up plan for if it doesn't work. Please read what people (Proprietrix, myself, and multiple others) have actually said, instead of getting offended at mis-interpretations of what we have said and huffing off like an ill-tempered child. edited to add has anyone checked out her new profile??

Phoenixandnika -> RE: Mistress is worried (5/19/2006 8:53:14 PM)
I think the problem is the OP is looking for validation nothing more nothingless. So if someones advice or imput does not validate him and his relationship then he is going to simply ignore it take it as a personal attack. The problem is when you post in a public forum you will get a 101 flavors of responses.

Reflectivesoul -> RE: Mistress is worried (5/19/2006 9:45:45 PM)
quote: edited to add has anyone checked out her new profile?? omg it just keeps getting better and better lmao [sm=ofcourse.gif] Oh I love this quote.... quote: SO! Is the dominant woman supposed to become an actress? Well! She already has. But I will not become one. lol lol lol this from the sub of two weeks or so ago lol lol quote: If I have sex with a man, I love to be dominated like 99% of all women do. And like all women, I am more attracted to powerful men than submissive men. No woman gets excited by a sub. That is just a MYTH that keeps the business alive. [sm=whiteflag.gif] I give up, me and every other Dominant woman are wearing mens clothes and trying on His shoes lmao.. Ladies I dunno here, I have some pretty strong attractions to some of the sub males runnin around.... am I a gay man trapped in a womans body or something?????? Any advise here would be warmly accepted. falls outta the chair laughin

Phoenixandnika -> RE: Mistress is worried (5/19/2006 9:55:10 PM)
simply slaps my forehead speachless after reading that entire profile

Reflectivesoul -> RE: Mistress is worried (5/19/2006 9:58:08 PM)
lol lol nika take a few deep breaths and calm down from the laughter and you'll be ok I promise lmao

darq -> RE: Mistress is worried (5/19/2006 9:59:49 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: urantiam Proprietrix. You twist everything around to your advantage just to show how smart you are to other users. If you want to be a judge, go back to law school and stop wasting your time answering threads. This lifestyle existed before you were born and it is not you who invented it. Kinky people started this lifestyle a long time ago, because they enjoyed something different that they could not find in the vanilla world. What the hell are you talking about anyway. Do you even know how this thread started ? My Mistress said she will always be a whore in the bedroom. So she is no different from 99% of all women. Apart from that, where do you see a safety problem? Everybody having sex can get some kind of disease. The only way not to get anything is by practicing chasity. And I certainly don't think you practice it. Urantiam I guess I'm part of only 1% of all women everywhere ... Hot damn. I'm not a whore ... Anywhere.

Phoenixandnika -> RE: Mistress is worried (5/19/2006 10:06:01 PM)
I blame you! You made me go read it.

Reflectivesoul -> RE: Mistress is worried (5/19/2006 10:31:05 PM)
LOL LOL LOL I did no such thing lol lol ( but I figured ya know you could use a good laugh so I guess shoving you over there duct taping your eye lids open and making you read the thing might have been a little much) lol

SweetDommes -> RE: Mistress is worried (5/19/2006 11:16:15 PM)
Heh, I couldn't even make it through the whole profile ... I guess I'm a myth then, because I get VERY excited over (truly) submissive men.

theRose4U -> RE: In Urantiams defense.......... (5/20/2006 12:53:32 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: urantiam To all members. I must thank all of you for your friendly advice. I guess you have done your duty. I am very happy to know that many members cared about my security. But I will now leave the forum for good. I have decided to serve Mistress Cynthia and I will stick with this decision. I must remind you all, that the original question was: "Would I be interfering with my Mistresses sexual life?" But I guess all members really drifted away from answering my question. I have total confidence in my new Mistress and even if her intentions were to take advantage of me and kill me or hurt me, I still would love her with all my heart. I am not afraid of dying and would be glad to sacrifice my life for her pleasure. Yes, maybe we are both new and confused, but we will work it out. URANTIAM Don't turn the channel, next up the I moved across country for a man posing as a woman that took all my money and worldly posessions then had me thrown in jail.

theRose4U -> RE: Mistress is worried (5/20/2006 1:03:42 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: yourMissTress And now from the woman that doesn't have a dominant bone in her body.... http://www.collarchat.com/Phone_domination_with_Mistress_Cinthia/m_376540/tm.htm this thread will REALLY help business.... OH MY GAWD!!! So does this technically fit in the folder with the new slave girls that haven't met their Dom and start looking for a sis because master wants more?

theRose4U -> RE: Mistress is worried (5/20/2006 1:09:26 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Phoenixandnika I think the problem is the OP is looking for validation nothing more nothingless. So if someones advice or imput does not validate him and his relationship then he is going to simply ignore it take it as a personal attack. The problem is when you post in a public forum you will get a 101 flavors of responses. Yup what she said

blondangelique -> RE: Mistress is worried (5/20/2006 1:20:45 AM)
Hi collarworthy, In my situation my Mistress decided to become a sub overnight. I was her sub for over 12 years. And this was almost a 24/7 relationship. I knew she also wanted to be dominated from time to time and loved to be hit on her cunt.I could not give her that pleasure. She now lives a s a Muslim woman and lives according her masters rules. Her daughters didn't fit in her new live and I took care of them. So becarrefull.Make sure your Mistress keeps satisfied and happy so she doesn't decide to switch also. Angelique

theRose4U -> RE: Mistress is worried (5/20/2006 1:22:56 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Reflectivesoul LOL LOL LOL I did no such thing lol lol ( but I figured ya know you could use a good laugh so I guess shoving you over there duct taping your eye lids open and making you read the thing might have been a little much) lol OK this whole thing has been like a traffic accident you can't help but watch. Other than this person now claiming to be the "REAL BDSM" massiah coming to save us all I just don't see her point of view. I need some clarification...How exactly does someone cover every single steriotype both domme and sub in one profile? topics that I found interesting. All dommes are pro money grubbing whores...yet her boy is off pimping her 900 service. She's a domme but "submits" to alpha men because 99% of women are sluts. Boys are for domestic service but dommes are selfish for wanting this kind of thing. Am I totally missing the point? I will admit to being a switch so in THEORY I should be best suited to understand the dynamic here and frankly I can't keep up without a score card.

Reflectivesoul -> RE: In Urantiams defense.......... (5/20/2006 5:08:17 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: theRose4U quote: ORIGINAL: urantiam To all members. I must thank all of you for your friendly advice. I guess you have done your duty. I am very happy to know that many members cared about my security. But I will now leave the forum for good. I have decided to serve Mistress Cynthia and I will stick with this decision. I must remind you all, that the original question was: "Would I be interfering with my Mistresses sexual life?" But I guess all members really drifted away from answering my question. I have total confidence in my new Mistress and even if her intentions were to take advantage of me and kill me or hurt me, I still would love her with all my heart. I am not afraid of dying and would be glad to sacrifice my life for her pleasure. Yes, maybe we are both new and confused, but we will work it out. URANTIAM Don't turn the channel, next up the I moved across country for a man posing as a woman that took all my money and worldly posessions then had me thrown in jail. I wasnt gonna go there lol lol lol but I'm glad you did lol lol

Reflectivesoul -> RE: Mistress is worried (5/20/2006 5:15:05 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: theRose4U quote: ORIGINAL: Reflectivesoul LOL LOL LOL I did no such thing lol lol ( but I figured ya know you could use a good laugh so I guess shoving you over there duct taping your eye lids open and making you read the thing might have been a little much) lol OK this whole thing has been like a traffic accident you can't help but watch. Other than this person now claiming to be the "REAL BDSM" massiah coming to save us all I just don't see her point of view. I need some clarification...How exactly does someone cover every single steriotype both domme and sub in one profile? topics that I found interesting. All dommes are pro money grubbing whores...yet her boy is off pimping her 900 service. She's a domme but "submits" to alpha men because 99% of women are sluts. Boys are for domestic service but dommes are selfish for wanting this kind of thing. Am I totally missing the point? I will admit to being a switch so in THEORY I should be best suited to understand the dynamic here and frankly I can't keep up without a score card. I dunno other than to say in my eyes I've just kind of chalked it up to dumb and dumber and the blind leading the blind.... Although how I got quoted then her profile was quoted is somewhat confusing me too..... [sm=confused.gif]

Blackbirdwhips -> RE: Mistress is worried (5/20/2006 5:37:19 AM)
If your Mistress is worried then what have you done to cause her concern bouy?

sophia37 -> RE: Mistress is worried (5/20/2006 5:45:50 AM)
This is the most way out thread I think Ive ever read. I simply think this is what happens when you dont have sex for 20 years. The lure of getting some, from whomever, seems to overide reason and logic. To the point where some men will say they'll DIE for it. The rest of us can talk about the pros and cons all we want, his mind was made up 4 days ago. Im not sure why he even posted. So forget about him for a moment and let me say to those of you who have replied, you certanly make ME proud. You are a pretty stable minded group of people with common sense and a sense of deceny. You really did try. And so for me, that is what I take from here. And thats a great thing. I bow to you.

TeeGO -> RE: Mistress is worried (5/20/2006 6:45:24 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: UtopianRanger quote: My Mistress is however very worried that my presence in her home might drive away dominant males from wanting to dominate her in bed. She really loves to be treated like a whore in the bedroom as states her profile and she does not want to lose this exciting real time bedroom action. Will my presence interfere with her sex life? Will alpha males still want to abuse my Mistress knowing she owns a slave? We are both new to this, so all the advice can only help us. Man... I can't believe you're saying this. Why let these other dudes have all the fun? Are you not capable of filling that role? Do you not want to? As a fellow poster and friend of mine would say : Maybe its time to grow a ''sac''. - R Are you suggesting he assume the dominant role? What if he's not a switch? I personally couldn't switch with a woman I submitted to and watching her used by a Dom would be an erotic cuckolding scene. Frankly I am hopeful to be involved in such a relationship in the near future. "Growing a sac" has nothing to do with it. Being a submissive in a D/s relationship is what it's all about.

MHOO314 -> RE: Mistress is worried (5/20/2006 7:47:32 AM)
as I read My email this morning, I saw an email from you a few weeks ago, I failed to respond to and I apologize---if you still have questions, feel free to email Me off boards--- now given that--I am going to try and be some voice of reason here--- Whether I agree with this post or not is not the issue, but there are some valid thoughts and some BAD misconceptions in here that I personally would like to address--so here goes: There is an assumption from many here that just because your profile is new here, that is the start of your search---for all we know you could have been looking on other sites, in your area and other places---so let's give him a break --we do not know what his journey has been like before now. Now, I would advise caution in a relationship--that One goes from sub to Domme overnight because a sub needs a Domme---I don't have anything against---BUT I do advise caution--and I would not advise moving until there is a sure relationship developed. IMHEO. As for a Dom feeling intimidated--no good Dom who seeks that as His thing, is going to be intimidated by a male submissive--as long as you and She are open and Honest about the relationship--so it is My understanding you will be a cuck as we say. Now as to your espoused Mistress--I take umbrage with a few comments-I am the TOP darlin, I take what I want, when I want it and how I want it--and THAT is the way I want it-I always thought that made Me a Lady-in fact I always thought that was a term used for any woman who knew what she wanted in bed, whether Domme or submissive---a whore is someone who has sex indiscriminantly---IMHO--and as for the comment about quote: " If I have sex with a man, I love to be dominated like 99% of all women do. And like all women, I am more attracted to powerful men than submissive men. No woman gets excited by a sub. That is just a MYTH that keeps the business alive. There is an assumption that submissive men are doormats, lack great strenght or are sissys and that hon is a MYTH that keeps our beloved male submissives in the closet----I'd put any of My guys up against any of your Doms any day--to Me when a man submits-- it takes a man of great strength of character-- for it is against the norm. So realize that it is personal preference and statements of generalization here are not appreciated. Your comment saddens Me as well--for you have at your feet a submissive who has avowed publically to dedicate himself to you--to be yours for life--if you do not get excited by a male submissive, than what does his love and devotion mean to you? By your very statement, it demeans what he brings to you. I believe I have responded to the original question in the post---and you are both correct----if there are no others involved in your decisions---then more power to you both. But a few words of caution--if you are going to turn Pro---you won't have any Doms sniffing around--THAT is a huge turn-off to them---and at least have the words spelled correctly. And if you insist on him moving to you, please realize that there is one heart involved in this---his. If you sought to gain public attention with a media frenzy you did just that, I hope your business improved--after all when its out there, one can expect that some people will love it and some will hate it--but it IS after all attention--and if this is a real relationship developing, I wish you well as you will need it--but I would say that to any new relationship.

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