Proprietrix
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Joined: 7/15/2005 From: Ohio/West Virginia Status: offline
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ORIGINAL: gestapololita but it's ok to wear a communist uniform, t shirts with the hammer and sycle or the red star are popular and availible in high street stores i find these double standards hard to get my head round I just wanted to make it clear that for me personally, (can't speak for others), I find one as offensive as the other. There is no double standard. I don't like any symbol that represents hate, discrimination, prejudice, and non-consensual violence. I'm also not into the rape role-play because of what it represents. I'm not saying you (or anyone) doesn't have the right to do it. And if it were happening at a public play party or dungeon, I would not complain about it, or confront anyone doing it, or cause any kind of scene. I would simply leave quietly. Anytime I encounter something which I find offensive, so long as it is not infringing on me and mine's liberty, I just go elsewhere. I do have to wonder though, if one knows that their chosen scene is highly offensive to the majority of the folks in the dungeon, why do they want to have that particular scene at the dungeon? Is the goal to push the limits of acceptance and tolerance? Is it for the shock value? Is it to try to enforce the point that one kink is as good as another? I'm not making any judgment here, I truly am curious what the goal is. And in doing scenes that others find offensive, is the goal being accomplished?
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IMO, IMHO, YMMV, AFAIK, to me, I see it as, from my perspective, it's been my experience, I only speak for myself, (and all other disclaimers here).
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