quote:

ORIGINAL: MsDominiquenz

Firstly Happy Birthday Lady !!
Then..wow.. there is a lot in this posting that could be me, as I also have a few acres and the gardens and animals, and subs here are required to tend to them, only its the opposite time of year for me.
Im knee deep in apples and pears and fejoas and leaves and animals getting ready for winter, firewood sorting and olive pickling.

Yes... the same things happen here, and yes, they are down the road...byeee
Imagine the one sent outside to do some easy weeding who was found crouching down at the side of the house under a window reading a book.. sunnies and all !
I find those who have little to do, do nothing unless a whip is being cracked.. so I like my folk to have part-time work at least to balance their life and keep them on target.. it also gets them out from under my feet.

If a job isnt done and there is no reasonable excuse but a lie or coverup..thats a reflection on their submission and servitiude..so impress me.
Hope you enjoy your garden Goddess..mmm pumpkin soup !

quote:

ORIGINAL: DiannaVesta

I wanted to pop in and say hello. I’ve been very busy with the last details of my sites. I am opening two community based sites. One is lifestyle female domination. I’ll keep you posted. The graphics are high fantasy. It’s all very exciting.


I was in Florida wrapping up some business. When I came home 3 weeks later all the leaves were on the trees and the flowers I planted only a week before leaving were huge & in bloom. Gardening is hard work but so worth the rewards. I remember years ago writing articles for males looking to serve and impress a dominant woman & building her a nice garden was one of them. I even instructed one male to build me a vegetable & berry garden. I was impressed with his diligence in preparing this for me & tending to it. He did great for about 4 weeks.


I just let a male go yesterday. I have an RV on my land and allowed him to stay in it. Of course it has full hook-up so its not a dump. One of his jobs was to plant a bunch of seeds for me so they would sprout when I returned ready to plant. He was also to till the pumpkin patch & an area to grow corn for the animals. To make a long story short this male had a bad habit of telling me he did something but never really did it. I started to notice this. Anyhow, I had a funny feeling when I came home. So Saturday I told him to hook up the sprinklers on the pumpkin patch and let me see the coverage. I plan on growing huge pumpkins and a very large area. I instructed him to come get me when it was hooked up.


I went inside. My office overlooks my greenhouse and a portion of the pasture where the pumpkin patch is close to. I see him down there with the wheel barrel. I go out onto the deck to take a closer look and he’s planting damn pumpkin seeds! I go down there and he quickly hides the packs. I asked him since the hose did not seem to reach how he was watering the seeds. He said he carried buckets. Then I asked him if he planted them today. He said, “More or less.”


I dismissed him. Yes, its pumpkins but he lied & as I walked around the farm I notice so many other things. This was pure laziness. What bothered me the most were things I saw that he didn’t do when it came to the animals. Maybe he didn’t starve them but his oversights left a bad taste in my mouth. Its not like he had anything else to do. I took good care of him but expected him to work and earn his keep.


This made me think about other males I have had in this position and how they too began to slack in their day to day responsibilities. I’m talking about live-in full time slaves. If they were forgetful from time to time I can understand this but to purposely cut corners on MY instruction is unacceptable.  

I began to wonder if it was some type of unconscious conflict or passive aggressive behavior. Being a mom I know this happens with teenagers. I’m not saying that all males do this but a large enough portion to take notice. Speaking with other lifestyle ladies I see that they too have the same type of problems. Its more with the 24/7 slaves then the part timers. Maybe the key is to have them get a job and work when they get home, however in my perfect world EVERYTHING evolves around me! Lol


So I left to my own defenses, all muddy and wondering how I’ll ever get all these seeds in.


Its also my birthday! I just turned … 40 something! lol

I need slaves with real farm experience. Its time to put those stables to good use. <wink>

quote:

ORIGINAL: littlesarbonn

There may be something to the submissive having a regular job and then coming home to work when they get to you. Or maybe it's the person. I don't know.

Years ago, I was the live-in slave to a woman who ran a bdsm house. She really didn't ask that much of me, to be honest. She just liked having me around as I was always able to brighten her day with humor, stories or just being there.

But I found myself coming home from work, feeling like I wasn't really doing anything for her. So I went into the yard one day while she was doing all day sessions (the place was HUGE, by the way). Because the women who worked there were always inside, the outside was extremely unkept. So I started turning the outside into the aesthetic I felt it deserved. I spent probably four or five days of work outside before I think she finally realized I was out there doing something constructive, not just hanging out outside. I really made that place look great. I really did. But it was because I felt that she deserved more from me, and I didn't want her to feel she had to ask me to do it. I didn't even tell her I was doing it, because I didn't want the attention so many subs crave for when they pull mommy by the dress and say "Look what I did!!!!" I just wanted her to come out and see something beautiful, so that when she finished her work for the day, she could relax in something that would be pleasing to her.

This really all stemmed from one arbitrary comment she made when we went for a walk one day where she said "I really wish I had time to make the outside look right." I figured that's why I was there. I made the outside look right, so in essence, she DID have the time to make the outside look right.

To be honest, this is the part of the relationship I miss the most. I get so sick and tired of playing the "let me prove I'm real" game, and I just never seem to fit in to the whole bdsm scene thing anyway. Maybe it's just my frustration in this crappy area where I live. Who knows?