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RE: For the married and 24-7,a gut answer question... - 5/9/2006 5:18:35 AM

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RE: For the married and 24-7,a gut answer question... - 5/9/2006 5:20:21 AM

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g/f, voice of reason, one who holds it all together for us.

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RE: For the married and 24-7,a gut answer question... - 5/9/2006 10:20:29 AM

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RE: For the married and 24-7,a gut answer question... - 5/9/2006 11:41:31 AM

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Wife, equal, partner.

Sometimes I'm mistress, sometimes I'm slave. The rest of the time, I'm just me.

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RE: For the married and 24-7,a gut answer question... - 5/9/2006 11:49:36 AM

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What are you to your partner?

I am his best friend, mother to our children, slave, and fiance'. Though the focus of the roles may change from on to another I am all those to him. I consider myself blessed that above all else we are best friends, it makes everything else seem so easy.

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RE: For the married and 24-7,a gut answer question... - 5/9/2006 12:00:29 PM

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I'm his property.

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RE: For the married and 24-7,a gut answer question... - 5/9/2006 1:50:57 PM

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and if you are not married?

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RE: For the married and 24-7,a gut answer question... - 5/9/2006 1:56:01 PM

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RE: For the married and 24-7,a gut answer question... - 5/9/2006 1:59:02 PM

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ORIGINAL: Sunshine119

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Oh, now that's a good one

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RE: For the married and 24-7,a gut answer question... - 5/9/2006 2:30:43 PM

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Shes's my partner, everything else stems from there

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RE: For the married and 24-7,a gut answer question... - 5/9/2006 4:22:22 PM

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I always say she is my other half but when we are in the D/s community she is my sub.

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RE: For the married and 24-7,a gut answer question... - 5/9/2006 4:28:12 PM

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RE: For the married and 24-7,a gut answer question... - 5/10/2006 3:13:12 AM

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I asked this in another forum , but would like to ask it here as well. When your answer this ,WHAT is your first thought that pops throught your brain? What are you to your partner? Did you answer Hubbi/Wife Bf/Gf or was it Dom/Slave/Sub? I just thought to put this out for perusal. I know that for me it varies at time and situations.. but underneath it all lies one answer.

I am wife/slave/mommy/slut in that order.........

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RE: For the married and 24-7,a gut answer question... - 5/10/2006 2:58:31 PM

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I was asking whish one was the first to come to mind, the "flash"answer is you will. I find it intresting how fluid these labels we apply can become in a long standing relationship.the fact that We have so may facets in our lives these days.

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RE: For the married and 24-7,a gut answer question... - 5/10/2006 3:21:17 PM

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Interesting way of wording it. The first thought is always that I am his slave. That's what we started this relationship for and that's always been the long term goal of it. To the outside world I say he is my partner. At home I am not allowed to use his name and in fact, I almost never do, even to outsiders. I simply introduce him as my partner and he tells them his name. If he isn't there and they ask his name, then I tell them. When he calls on the phone, I still address him as Sir, even at work. For me, it's an important part of my 24/7 mindset that he never slips from that place as Master in my mind, even though we are lovers, friends, co-parents, etc as well. First and foremost, always, he is Master.

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RE: For the married and 24-7,a gut answer question... - 5/10/2006 3:33:34 PM

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I am his friend.

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RE: For the married and 24-7,a gut answer question... - 5/10/2006 7:58:50 PM

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wife to my hubby is my answer

hubby to my wife is his

to our Mistress we are Her boy and girl or the terrible two imps

smiles in thought of Her love

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RE: For the married and 24-7,a gut answer question... - 5/11/2006 1:45:22 AM

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Funny, I asked a really similar question the other day... I asked cubby "if you had to choose this minute to give up our wedding bands or my collar forever, which would you choose?" He instantly said the wedding bands, because our D/s survives without the marriage, but the marriage wouldn't survive without the D/s.

I would have said the same thing...

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RE: For the married and 24-7,a gut answer question... - 5/13/2006 1:36:57 PM

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