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AngelDaRainha -> RE: Are sub men just closet gays? (4/13/2011 6:21:56 PM)
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I have been part of forced bi, for years. Not a one of them ever expressed their "want" for that, (fyi, it's not forced if it's already their desire to be used that way) but instead after the deep trust and development of our relationship, they trusted Me to take them down that path. Are they gay? lololol NO!
Will they crave that experience again? Hell yes they will! Not because they want or need the bi experience, but because they loved how I pushed them and their limits until it was no longer a "turn off" but instead a need to please his Mistress.
Yes, there are some that will try to lure you into the "do me" situations... but that is with any situation, there are "spank me" "let me suck your feet" "do whatever i want" guys and gals out there, but it's no different than the "It's ALL about Me" Dom/mes that are out there. You just gotta find the right boys, that are wanting to serve You, not their kinks.
I don't even bother with those types. I do however have to agree with LockIt!!
How a Domme presents herself is just as important as how a submissive may present him/herself. If you seem to be swishy, wishy washy, or lack control, you will definitely be more attractive to those "do me" types. A true submissive/slave seeks a confident, in control of her own world and it's surroundings, woman. If they see you aren't in control in some areas, they begin to ask and wonder just how you can control them, as some do not submit easily, they need that powerful confident woman to bring that side of them to the surface.
And by no means am I trying to take a stab at you, I'm new here as well. I haven't even read your profile. I just know after talking to many many submissive men, their biggest disappointment is in finding someone who is wishy washy (thats how we say it where I'm from lol) or show a lack of control or confidence. Make certain your profile is inviting to the right type of men you are looking for.
Now, are there closet gays out there that will try to have you bring them out, by having you seemingly force them into the situation, sure there are, just as there are closet crossdressers that will use forced fem for the same reason. But for the majority, no. Sometimes it's the fact they don't know how to accept that side of themselves, so they try to hide it, and use you to bring it out. Up to you whether or not you will allow yourself to be used that way. I tend to just talk to them and help them learn to come to grips with their own needs and sexuality than allowing them to control Me and what I will do. I do NOT allow them to serve Me in the forced bi situations, because once again... it's not truly a forced situation. I become a "friend" only, in those types of situations.
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