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RE: Subs - married? - 5/11/2006 4:00:13 AM

SubmissiveEntity

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Lionesse are you speaking to me or to the general audience?

That depends. Does the shoe fit? If so, there is an old adage about what to do with it.

A lame answer indeed. No fit here.

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RE: Subs - married? - 5/11/2006 7:46:26 AM

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I propose a solution: Let the people who are married/vanilla declare themselves, and those who are comfortable with that situation are free to pursue them. I prefer a married sub because she understands the need for discretion. I also understand why a single sub would want something much different than what I can give her (except for those occasional darlings who like the thrill of being a secret).

There are certainly many different types of personal situations, and we all would be regarded by some as having strange tastes and habits anyway, don't you think?

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RE: Subs - married? - 5/11/2006 9:47:03 PM

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From a married submissive's point of view, I imagine it would be a cold day in hell when a married submissive or dom states upfront they are married in their profile (or otherwise) and gets any responses. Just like anybody else, a married sub or dom (male or female) have the same need to be part of the D's world.

So what to do? Lie. Perhaps their is a remote possiblity the married sub will be able to find a partner on the outside of the marriage to fulfill what is missing in his/her marriage. Is it right? I'm not making that call but merely stating this is perhaps typical for many.

I just have to say that I state right up front that I'm married, and also what I'm looking for. I get about a dozen messages each day. Unfortunately about 95% of the people writing either didn't read my profile or just figured I must be lying about what I want. Heck if I know. Thankfully, I'm not in a rush. I'm complete in my marriage and so is my husband, so we have all the time in the world to find the right Dom/Dom couple.

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RE: Subs - married? - 5/12/2006 12:34:24 AM

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not sure why they do that omission thing,. this slave told Master right off that is was married, but seperated {no plans of reuniting[EVER or divorce}& has kids {nearly grown & legal).

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RE: Subs - married? - 5/12/2006 3:16:35 PM

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You already know the answer to the question you are asking.

People try to "put their best foot forward" and some believe this means omitting the truth. Would you want someone like that - insecure about themselves? hmmmm....

Yes I do know the answer to the question I am asking. I guess that is all I am trying to say. The truth is ugly and many married people will omit the truth in order to gain whatever they can. And just to be clear I'm not one of those that married people omitting the truth. Nor am I an advocate. I just calling a spade a spade as I see it.

I was responding to carriefen - not you

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