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choice of a strap on - 5/9/2006 9:50:16 AM

MistressElena

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I am seeking to enrich my collection of strap ons and seeking advice, recommendations..... Thanks to all of you ;-)
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RE: choice of a strap on - 5/9/2006 11:15:50 AM

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I really like the look of the feeldo, haven't got one yet but a dear friend has and she loves it. She did say it takes some getting used to! I highly recommend this site as a reputable dealer
http://tickleberry.co.uk/pages/feeldoe.html

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RE: choice of a strap on - 5/9/2006 11:45:11 AM

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It is of course dependant upon the type of harness you have....
The vacu-lock harness is good but you have to get the dildo that is designed to be used with it...   or it will not be easily interchangeable.
Ring harnesses are good...but then again you have to find the dildoes that have a wider base in order to keep them from "coming through" the ring that holds them in place.... though I have found that some will still fit just as nicely given they have a wide enough base or the "balls" added to the base....
As for dildoes ...  there is one that comes in the harness set named "the mustang" where the dildo is a black pointed missile shape, (rounded point at the top and wider at the base) that is fun to use due to the fact that it allows for faster repeated penetration.... MUST use a good amount of lube with this one though (if you are male).... but is nice due to it being a non-phallic shape and ease of penetration....
The 'Feeldoe" mentioned above are the types that are great for both male and female.......   havent tried one .....yet......but always game to be a test pilot for!
But any of them really are what I would recommend....as many as you can with me... lol...as it makes the experimenting and variety of types used more exciting..... like i said it all depends on your harness and what can be used with it....

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RE: choice of a strap on - 5/9/2006 12:57:37 PM

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I've been through many but no other harness feels right, fits right or holds my cocks as snugly as the "Ultimate Dildo Harness" from J.T.'s Stockroom. It's the BEST to me!!

http://www.stockroom.com/Ultimate-4-Strap-Dildo-Harness-P299.aspx

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RE: choice of a strap on - 5/9/2006 6:36:23 PM

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The Feeldoe doesnt require a harness.

100% best on the market.

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RE: choice of a strap on - 5/9/2006 10:25:50 PM

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I have used the harness from Stockroom and it was the most stable harness I've had experience with. As mentioned earlier that's extremely important for anal penetration. Dildos without a firm base will slip through and be a pain in the ass. I'm not training anyone with a strapon, but when the occasion comes I'm extremely excited about trying the Feeldoe. Bending your boy over and taking him is great mentally, but I'm sure getting some physical pleasure out of it would send things over the top.

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RE: choice of a strap on - 5/10/2006 2:41:22 AM

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I have the vac u loc harness and its comfy once you get it one, they have a handle also that can be used with the dildo's that fit the vac u loc, so you can use them either in the strap on or by hand (hehe).

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RE: choice of a strap on - 5/10/2006 10:58:29 AM

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Hurray for JT's Stockroom........the Feeldoe..OMG yessss.

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RE: choice of a strap on - 5/10/2006 8:15:10 PM

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I have also heard great things about the feeldoe. For those who have used it, was the "recipient" male or female? It seems that more women using it on a man have had problems keeping her end of it in place since the sphincter muscles are tighter and the woman has more problems keeping it in place. Thanks for any input.

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RE: choice of a strap on - 5/10/2006 9:04:36 PM

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quote:

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I have also heard great things about the feeldoe. For those who have used it, was the "recipient" male or female? It seems that more women using it on a man have had problems keeping her end of it in place since the sphincter muscles are tighter and the woman has more problems keeping it in place. Thanks for any input.

I likes me the feeldoe. I only play with boys, and I have had no problems using it effectively as a "plug in dick" that actually works. Mine has a Cyberskin sheath for a more realistic feel when I'm playing "gay male Daddy top". I usually remove that sheath for actual penetration however.

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RE: choice of a strap on - 5/10/2006 9:19:38 PM

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You can't put a square peg in a round hole.

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RE: choice of a strap on - 5/10/2006 9:24:40 PM

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We havnt had a problem with male penetration.

just finding good angles.

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RE: choice of a strap on - 5/10/2006 9:30:41 PM

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You can't put a square peg in a round hole.

Anything's possible with enough lube.

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RE: choice of a strap on - 5/10/2006 9:34:07 PM

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You can't put a square peg in a round hole.

Anything's possible with enough lube.

ahhh yes, push, push, breathe, breathe, scream, scream---ahh now doesn't that feel better.

LOL

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RE: choice of a strap on - 5/10/2006 9:35:57 PM

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sounds familiar.

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RE: choice of a strap on - 5/10/2006 9:50:20 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: MHOO314

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ORIGINAL: Najakcharmer

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You can't put a square peg in a round hole.

Anything's possible with enough lube.

ahhh yes, push, push, breathe, breathe, scream, scream---ahh now doesn't that feel better.

LOL

the thing about anal sex is...too much lube is almost enough...

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RE: choice of a strap on - 5/11/2006 1:00:57 AM

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the thing about anal sex is...too much lube is almost enough...

Words guaranteed to cause rapid attitude adjustment in a male submissive: "Lube is a privilege, not a right."

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RE: choice of a strap on - 5/11/2006 2:00:24 AM

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Have you ever used a harness to stabilize, or is it completely uneccessary?

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ORIGINAL: Najakcharmer

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ORIGINAL: Mlicious

I have also heard great things about the feeldoe. For those who have used it, was the "recipient" male or female? It seems that more women using it on a man have had problems keeping her end of it in place since the sphincter muscles are tighter and the woman has more problems keeping it in place. Thanks for any input.

I likes me the feeldoe. I only play with boys, and I have had no problems using it effectively as a "plug in dick" that actually works. Mine has a Cyberskin sheath for a more realistic feel when I'm playing "gay male Daddy top". I usually remove that sheath for actual penetration however.

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RE: choice of a strap on - 5/11/2006 2:10:41 AM

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Have you ever used a harness to stabilize, or is it completely uneccessary?

Completely unnecessary most of the time. If I'm wearing it for an extended time during a particularly hot session where I get extremely turned on, it can start slipping. But by the time that happens, I'll generally have gotten all the jollies I wanted to with that particular toy and be ready to move on to something else.

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RE: choice of a strap on - 5/11/2006 3:11:28 PM

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The Texas Two Strap harness is my favorite and #2 is the Vac-u-loc.

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