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Odd message from a Dom - 5/9/2006 6:30:10 PM   
mariba


Posts: 22
Joined: 4/9/2006
Status: offline 		"You claim to be a sub, you FOLLOW directions, you do not set conditions!
You may REQUEST certain types of behavior in your profile but any Dom worth his title will completely ignore that condition, hence I am writing back.
If you are looking for a dating service, try something else. Here, you follow directions. If you want an explicit example, you have my permission to write back"

Just curious, how many people feel that "Here" you have to follow this sort of crap?  Is it some rule that I missed somehow?

Mari.
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RE: Odd message from a Dom - 5/9/2006 6:37:59 PM   
dogobedience


Posts: 536
Joined: 3/30/2006
Status: offline 		Welcome to online BDSM

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RE: Odd message from a Dom - 5/9/2006 6:38:49 PM   
Littlepita


Posts: 1430
Joined: 10/6/2005
Status: offline 		Either delete the jerk or give him a good piece of your mind and what you think of his conditions. No, you don't have to put up with that crap. Why would you?

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RE: Odd message from a Dom - 5/9/2006 6:39:33 PM   
MyDomIsMyFantasy


Posts: 4
Joined: 4/11/2006
Status: offline 		I have found the best Doms, to be on ALT.COM

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RE: Odd message from a Dom - 5/9/2006 6:40:09 PM   
Clothespingirl


Posts: 82
Joined: 3/8/2006
Status: offline 		What, didn't they tattoo the rules on your forehead when you joined?  Mine say, "Slave of every nerd with a keyboard!"

I remember one kid, about 23, ordered me to chat with him. 
I emailed back:  "Did you notice that I'm as old as your mother?  And did you notice that I don't take orders from strangers?"  Didn't hear from him again.  Too bad, he was handsome enough to tempt me to break my resolution against cradle-robbing!




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RE: Odd message from a Dom - 5/9/2006 6:40:59 PM   
unquenchable


Posts: 155
Joined: 4/17/2006
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: mariba

"You claim to be a sub, you FOLLOW directions, you do not set conditions!
You may REQUEST certain types of behavior in your profile but any Dom worth his title will completely ignore that condition, hence I am writing back.
If you are looking for a dating service, try something else. Here, you follow directions. If you want an explicit example, you have my permission to write back"

Just curious, how many people feel that "Here" you have to follow this sort of crap?  Is it some rule that I missed somehow?

Mari.



No, I do not feel the need to follow that crap, nor would I think it warranted your time in posting it here.

Just delete, block, and move on.

un---------

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RE: Odd message from a Dom - 5/9/2006 6:41:54 PM   
thegreymistress


Posts: 56
Joined: 9/9/2004
Status: offline 		People like that is what gives Dominants a bad name. I do not expect anything other than proofof serious obediance prior to establishing an agreement with one I wish to serve me. Until then they are people just like everyone else.

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RE: Odd message from a Dom - 5/9/2006 6:42:28 PM   
juliaoceania


Posts: 21383
Joined: 4/19/2006
From: Somewhere Over the Rainbow
Status: offline 		I remember going into chat as a novice and having dozens of IMs flood my screen telling me to "get on your knees sub"... just take it with a grain of salt, hit delete, move on. I blocked those IMs in my messenger, you can block pesky freaks here, Just saying what I would do.

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RE: Odd message from a Dom - 5/9/2006 6:44:30 PM   
Sinergy


Posts: 9383
Joined: 4/26/2004
Status: offline 		The problem with hitting the ignore button is you then prevent yourself from being able to deride, insult, or shredding the person's idiotic and peurile maunderings in the future.

What fun is that?

Sinergy

Could be wrong, but there you go.


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RE: Odd message from a Dom - 5/9/2006 6:48:21 PM   
fastlane


Posts: 2159
Joined: 5/26/2005
Status: offline 		no, you ran into an Ass...we are not all like that.

especially me...just ask 11?  LOL
Kisses, Kevin

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RE: Odd message from a Dom - 5/9/2006 6:51:29 PM   
mariba


Posts: 22
Joined: 4/9/2006
Status: offline 		MyDomIsMyFantasy, I have been on Alt for years... I know how to deal with them there.  I am fairly new here and don't know the protocol.  I am just asking because everyone seems so nice here.  You have to play tough on Alt, I don't want to do that here because I am new and don't know the protocol.  I just want some advice.

Mari.

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RE: Odd message from a Dom - 5/9/2006 6:58:53 PM   
MsMacComb


Posts: 808
Joined: 3/30/2005
From: My Mothers womb.
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: mariba

MyDomIsMyFantasy, I have been on Alt for years... I know how to deal with them there.  I am fairly new here and don't know the protocol.  I am just asking because everyone seems so nice here.  You have to play tough on Alt, I don't want to do that here because I am new and don't know the protocol.  I just want some advice.Mari.
 

The protocol is what you set and decide. If someone is being rude, pushy or mean, ignore them or give them directions on where to go and what activity to engage in when they get there.

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RE: Odd message from a Dom - 5/9/2006 7:02:09 PM   
BitaTruble


Posts: 9779
Joined: 1/12/2006
From: Texas
Status: offline 		Mari,

The problem with Mr. DomGod is he forgot the cardinal rule. He doesn't 'own' you, so you can, indeed, make as many or as few demands as you desire. If 'he' doesn't like it.. he can block you and move on.. even hide your profile from his view if it's so offense to him. Sounds like he was trying to push your buttons because he can. You have all the choices here and he has none, zero, zip, nada. Bet that really gets his panties in a twist. Hell, if I were you, I would add a note to my profile with at least a few more demands and make it clear they were specifically added because you were told they couldn't be there. But, I'm a bitatruble on rare occasions and just like pricking doms who are full of hot air so I can watch them deflate around the room like a balloon. ;)

At the very least, I'd send him a note and request he completely ignore my profile just like I'm going to completely ignore his very existence since any dom worth his salt respects the parameters of people whom they do not own!

Celeste

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RE: Odd message from a Dom - 5/9/2006 7:04:17 PM   
mariba


Posts: 22
Joined: 4/9/2006
Status: offline 		unquenchable, I guess I was wrong.  Everybody here is not nice and helpful.  Thanks for the real life lesson.

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RE: Odd message from a Dom - 5/9/2006 7:07:47 PM   
Rayne58


Posts: 746
Joined: 2/22/2005
From: Sydney Australia
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: mariba

"You claim to be a sub, you FOLLOW directions, you do not set conditions!
You may REQUEST certain types of behavior in your profile but any Dom worth his title will completely ignore that condition, hence I am writing back.
If you are looking for a dating service, try something else. Here, you follow directions. If you want an explicit example, you have my permission to write back"

Just curious, how many people feel that "Here" you have to follow this sort of crap? Is it some rule that I missed somehow?

Mari.



I wonder how long it took him to type that with his hand on his dick????

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RE: Odd message from a Dom - 5/9/2006 7:07:52 PM   
bandit25


Posts: 3029
Joined: 6/18/2005
Status: offline 		Mari,

Just hit delete.  I get that crap all the time. I clearly state that I don't "do" watersports and I just got an email asking if I'd like to be someone's toilet slave. Apparently, the guy doesn't know how to read. 

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RE: Odd message from a Dom - 5/9/2006 7:13:31 PM   
fullofgrace


Posts: 395
Joined: 3/24/2006
From: fl, usa
Status: offline 		ugh. just because you are a submissive or a slave does not mean you are every dominant's submissive or slave.

do what feels right to you. personally, i think cm needs a bitchslap button...  


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RE: Odd message from a Dom - 5/9/2006 7:15:17 PM   
BrutalAntipathy


Posts: 412
Joined: 7/8/2005
Status: offline 		I wouldn't write a person with a list of conditions longer than a Kennedy rap sheet in the first place, as their mode of thinking is clearly so far removed from my own that we have too little in common to be a match. It sounds to me like the guy was either a wannabe that doesn't have a clue what he is doing, or else he was trying to elicit a response. Since BitaTruble thinks the button pushing scenario is it, this is most likely the case. Block the guy and move on.
 
Up to an until you agree to be owned, you need not take anything off of anyone. And there is no dominant code of conduct which states that a dom/me should neglect being curteous, polite, and respectful when writing a submissive or slave.

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RE: Odd message from a Dom - 5/9/2006 7:22:23 PM   
TemptingNviceSub


Posts: 3054
Joined: 10/1/2005
Status: offline 		LOL......dont we all at one time or another wish for such a tool...since we finally got web cam..can a bitch slap button be so far out of reach?..humm......Tempting

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RE: Odd message from a Dom - 5/9/2006 7:39:49 PM   
Lordandmaster


Posts: 10943
Joined: 6/22/2004
Status: offline 		"Puerile."  Derision stings less when it's misspelled.

quote:

ORIGINAL: Sinergy

The problem with hitting the ignore button is you then prevent yourself from being able to deride, insult, or shredding the person's idiotic and peurile maunderings in the future.

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