hausboy
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ORIGINAL: TheShrew Please, read my response twice before you fly up my nose, because I do not advocate physical violence of any kind, against anyone, for many reasons. {Unless you are being attacked/defending yourself.. then, you kick their ass.} In the South there is an old redneck phrase ... "just because a cat can birth her kittens in the oven, that don't make'em biscuits." In comparison, "just because the gentleman fancies himself a lady, that does not make him female." Like it or not, the general rules we abide by each day were constructed by the vanilla world, and I think it safe to say quite a few people in this world are vanilla/straight-laced. Hence, it stands to reason a couple of straight laced, vanilla girls would perceive a man using the ladies room as some type of perv out to harm/peep them. NO, I am NOT alluding that this was his intent. Merely speculating on how negatively most women would react to discovering a man in the ladies room.. in drag. Shame on the people who watched the spectacle as well as the person filming. Kudos to the man in the blue shirt who repeatedly intervened. Kudos to the old lady for attempting to defend the man, and shame on the girl who punched the old lady in the eye. ~ Repetition for the skimmers ~ I am not advocating physical violence against this person for his sexual preference or gender affiliation. I am saying .. perhaps, he should not have been in the ladies room. Shrew--I usually enjoy (and agree) with your posts. Your post above, I cannot agree with. First--everything that we have heard thus far from the local press is that the victim is a transgendered woman. She isn't exactly a poster girl of a model citizen, but regardless, she is living as a woman. While you're correct, most of the nilla world refuses to accept her as such, calling her a man (that was my interpretation of your post--I do hope I'm mistaken) isn't really accurate or fair. The two girls followed her into the restroom with the intent of beating her. If they were concerned that (as you put it) a "man" went into the ladies room, they could have told the management to let them deal with it. What they did was unacceptable (I'm sure you agree with me on that point) and to hear bystanders laughing, it was deplorable. Nothing is more disrespectful or demeaning to me than when I am called by the wrong pronouns, regardless of how I present. It happens- on rare occasion-- by people who knew me before--and they usually are people who do not care for me (and vice versa) and they do it to be intentionally ignorant. I'm certain this was not your intent--but I felt compelled to respond. Regardless of what one might think, she is a woman. Maybe not a biological woman, but she is a woman. It would have been completely inappropriate for her to use the men's room. She has every right to go to a public place and use the facilities, as any dare I say it? "normal" woman should.
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