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RE: Daddy Dominates, Why Are They So Rare? - 4/25/2011 10:09:26 AM

PrincessEliza

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I'm unsure why my profile "sucks", but I'm up to criticism. If you feel like it please let me know why my profile is so awful.

Thanks.

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RE: Daddy Dominants, Why Are They So Rare? - 4/25/2011 11:47:38 AM

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http://dating.about.com/od/onlinedating/ss/datingprofile.htm

First google hit. Lots of info exists, easy to find.

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RE: Daddy Dominates, Why Are They So Rare? - 4/25/2011 12:28:44 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: PrincessEliza

I'm unsure why my profile "sucks", but I'm up to criticism. If you feel like it please let me know why my profile is so awful.

Thanks.

From reading your profile I come away with the impression that you have not thought about much of what you want and need from a relationship. There is not much of a discussion of what you bring to a relationship. You talk about your sexual interests, but fail to mention the things you enjoy otherwise. You give stranger license to correct you over the internet, as if they will know how you should behave.

You are only 19, many people your age do not know exactly what they want from a relationship yet, and it does not mean you suck because you do not. You could be better at articulating who you are as a person, instead of giving the idea that you are just into a series of sexual experiences. A good daddy dominant is going to want a submissive that is multidimensional... which you do not show on your profile.

As to your opening post, many dominants are the daddy kind, but your profile might not be attracting the type of man you seek.

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RE: Daddy Dominates, Why Are They So Rare? - 4/25/2011 3:23:59 PM

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she's 19. She'll attract any man on the net. So of course she's not attracting what she wants. She's attracting them all.

There's not much at all she can do to correct that except lie about her age. Sorry, changing your profile will not help.

You're 19.

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RE: Daddy Dominates, Why Are They So Rare? - 4/25/2011 3:44:17 PM

juliaoceania

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quote:

ORIGINAL: littlewonder

she's 19. She'll attract any man on the net. So of course she's not attracting what she wants. She's attracting them all.

There's not much at all she can do to correct that except lie about her age. Sorry, changing your profile will not help.

You're 19.

She is getting LOTS of men emailing her, I am sure, but her instance that they are not the type of man she is looking for means that the onus is on her to do something to correct that. She might get a higher quality response (along with the garbage) if she writes more about who she is than her sexual desires. Of course, I might be wrong about that, even high quality men might be emailing her with her present profile just because she is 19, but in my mind those emailing her just because of her age already aren't very high caliber contenders already. I think RedMagic is proof of what I am talking about.

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RE: Daddy Dominates, Why Are They So Rare? - 4/25/2011 3:58:37 PM

Hisprettybaby

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ORIGINAL: PrincessEliza

To me, and this may be completely untrue for others, I feel like Daddy Dominates are like gold. If you find even find one that's rare, and then you have to check if it's real or not.

Why are their so few compared to Alpha Doms, and other varieties?

Thanks!

There are plenty of Daddy Doms out there. It's just a matter of finding them. They may be hard to find because they don't advertise the fact that they are Daddies, since some people are very rude towards that dynamic, saying we're all pedophiles and the such when we are not. I've also noticed that I'm not the first respondent on this thread to mention of that attitude.

Maybe say more in your profile. More about what it is that you want out of a dynamic/relationship, what it is that you bring to a dynamic/relationship, and put more of your personality into the essay portion of your profile. Say more about what you're really looking for and more about yourself. A good profile should be able to tell the reader about you and what you want/need and what you offer to a dynamic/relationship. Also, if you are only looking for a certain age range or geographical area, don't forget your mail filters. Maybe even say "Daddy" or something like it in your profile somewhere. That way, if a Daddy Dom is using certain keywords in the search function, he can find you.

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RE: Daddy Dominates, Why Are They So Rare? - 4/25/2011 5:27:05 PM

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Several posts have been removed from this thread.
Please stay on topic and do not attack or bash the kinks of other users.

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RE: Daddy Dominates, Why Are They So Rare? - 4/25/2011 7:00:38 PM

PrincessEliza

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Thank you to those that responded, I truly do appreciate it and will try to improve certain areas in my profile in the future.

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RE: Daddy Dominates, Why Are They So Rare? - 4/25/2011 9:04:45 PM

Killerangel

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Daddy Doms do not seem rare to me, I run across them in my mailbox quite often and reading on the forums it seems like quite a few people find and enjoy that type of thing.

OP, your profile is pretty worthless in attracting the kind of man you want. You give no idea of who he is. You don't even say you are interested in a Daddy Dom, how the heck will he find you if you don't say what you're looking for? It just seems odd that you are reporting that you can't find a certain type of person and you aren't even saying what you want in the profile- are Doms supposed to read your mind?

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RE: Daddy Dominates, Why Are They So Rare? - 4/25/2011 9:40:34 PM

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