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PeonForHer -> RE: Slaves Fetishes (5/21/2011 2:12:45 PM)


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ORIGINAL: VaguelyCurious
My views are that if anyone I was involved with thought I was 'rewarding' them by doing something I wasn't particularly interested in they might well feel hurt and upset.


Hell yes. I can't do this sub stuff if that idea ever pops into my head.




PeonForHer -> RE: Slaves Fetishes (5/21/2011 2:14:38 PM)


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ORIGINAL: Vendaval

Something I find disturbing on a psychological level, not really sure why, is slapping someone hard across the face. I am happy to cane and paddle and flog and whip all over the body but face slapping bothers me.


Bummer. That's one of my faves.




LadyHibiscus -> RE: Slaves Fetishes (5/21/2011 3:15:15 PM)

Come here, DArling, happy to oblige a pal!




LadyConstanze -> RE: Slaves Fetishes (5/21/2011 3:17:12 PM)


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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

Come here, DArling, happy to oblige a pal!


Oh dear, do I see you clutching a roll of pennies?




LadyHibiscus -> RE: Slaves Fetishes (5/21/2011 4:43:33 PM)

;)




TickledToDeath -> RE: Slaves Fetishes (6/9/2011 2:17:18 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Delilya

Wrap him in shrink wrap and tickle his feet till he pee'd himself. He wasn't "mine", I was bartering for work I needed done.


Ooooooooo EVIL woman you are!




AcademyForSlaves -> RE: Slaves Fetishes (6/11/2011 6:30:41 PM)

Hello,

I find many males (and not just "slaves" in the bdsm world) are into having their face slapped, even in public. They have admitted to Me that it aroused them and they beg for Me to do it again. Spankings seem just as common but I will not do that in public as much. Much more fun in private. Plus, what man does not like it when a Woman takes the initiative to get on top during sex and have Her way with him. Sometimes I sit on his face and smother him as he performs oral sex. Being on top does have it's advantages.




AcademyForSlaves -> RE: Slaves Fetishes (6/25/2011 3:44:02 PM)

Hi.

To add to that I don't think a slave should be spoiled. If he likes something too much he might misbehave on purpose to get punishment or he'll top from the bottom for other things he likes. So again the Mistress has to be in control at all times.




Arturas -> RE: Slaves Fetishes (6/25/2011 5:07:11 PM)

Silly me, here I thought all along the classic and mandatory high heeled foot pictures included on many/most/almost every femdom's profile were catering to the well known sub male's fetish for high heeled fem feet when in point of fact they are just selling shoes! Nice shoes, ladies.




sunshinemiss -> RE: Slaves Fetishes (6/25/2011 7:07:10 PM)


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ORIGINAL: AcademyForSlaves

Hi.

To add to that I don't think a slave should be spoiled. If he likes something too much he might misbehave on purpose to get punishment or he'll top from the bottom for other things he likes. So again the Mistress has to be in control at all times.


If that's what is happening, then he's not being punished is he? No, he's being rewarded. In that case you have a Mistress who doesn't know what she's doing.

Ever seen those television shows about the nanny that comes along and helps people to make their kids behave? Negative attention is attention. Even 5 year olds know that.




mummyman321 -> RE: Slaves Fetishes (6/25/2011 8:35:28 PM)

LOL, I can just see it now. The next great reality TV show, The Strict Mistress. Is your hubby not submitting to you. Is he out of control? What he does not have dinner waiting for you when you come home? In comes the Strict Mistress. Somehow I can really see this making it to TV in the near future!




LadyConstanze -> RE: Slaves Fetishes (6/26/2011 3:33:46 AM)


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ORIGINAL: AcademyForSlaves

Hello,

I find many males (and not just "slaves" in the bdsm world) are into having their face slapped, even in public. They have admitted to Me that it aroused them and they beg for Me to do it again. Spankings seem just as common but I will not do that in public as much. Much more fun in private. Plus, what man does not like it when a Woman takes the initiative to get on top during sex and have Her way with him. Sometimes I sit on his face and smother him as he performs oral sex. Being on top does have it's advantages.


/goes and checks calendar...

Oops, OK, end of the month near...




VaguelyCurious -> RE: Slaves Fetishes (6/26/2011 3:42:46 AM)

Except that time she was talking about actual physical and sexual contact with a real life man, instead of just the sending of audio recordings.

Which is, I believe, a first...




MsKittyValentine -> RE: Slaves Fetishes (6/26/2011 5:03:19 AM)


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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

I dont "cater" to anyone. I wouldn't be with someone whose interests didn't (mostly) match mine.

This sums up my take on this point entirely, even when in my Professional Dominant role. A sub must come to me if he is happy with the things I do, not expect me to do just what he wants. I have some strict limits I will not stretch for anyone. It means I always feel happy and in control and enjoying whatever is going on. It does of course mean I see less subs than some PDs but I really don't care about that at all.




poise -> RE: Slaves Fetishes (6/26/2011 5:57:56 AM)


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ORIGINAL: LadyConstanze


quote:

ORIGINAL: AcademyForSlaves

Hello,

I find many males (and not just "slaves" in the bdsm world) are into having their face slapped, even in public. They have admitted to Me that it aroused them and they beg for Me to do it again. Spankings seem just as common but I will not do that in public as much. Much more fun in private. Plus, what man does not like it when a Woman takes the initiative to get on top during sex and have Her way with him. Sometimes I sit on his face and smother him as he performs oral sex. Being on top does have it's advantages.


/goes and checks calendar...

Oops, OK, end of the month near...


Ohhhhh, is this Kelli in another id? I was wondering where she went.




SylvereApLeanan -> RE: Slaves Fetishes (6/26/2011 11:16:34 AM)

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ORIGINAL: poise

Ohhhhh, is this Kelli in another id? I was wondering where she went.


Nope, too literate to be that one.




LadyConstanze -> RE: Slaves Fetishes (6/26/2011 12:44:24 PM)

But Kelli isn't selling "online training", where she caters to all fetishes and calls it training....




SylvereApLeanan -> RE: Slaves Fetishes (6/26/2011 2:38:51 PM)

Gosh, that almost makes it sound like she has standards.  Now there's a disturbing thought.




LadyConstanze -> RE: Slaves Fetishes (6/26/2011 2:47:13 PM)


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ORIGINAL: SylvereApLeanan

Gosh, that almost makes it sound like she has standards.  Now there's a disturbing thought.


Depends on the measuring stick [:D]




SylvereApLeanan -> RE: Slaves Fetishes (6/26/2011 2:48:59 PM)

[:D]




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