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VaguelyCurious -> RE: Slaves Fetishes (6/26/2011 4:47:42 PM)
Well, say what you like about Kelli but she's pretty clear that she doesn't do things she doesn't enjoy. Whereas the OP goes out of her way to make it clear that she will cater to anyone...

SylvereApLeanan -> RE: Slaves Fetishes (6/26/2011 4:54:11 PM)
Honestly, I gotta give props to the OP for finding a way to make a buck doing next to nothing. Really, who wouldn't want a job you can do in pajamas with only a few clicks of a mouse? Sign me up for that.

VaguelyCurious -> RE: Slaves Fetishes (6/26/2011 5:10:18 PM)
Ah, but there's a lack of male slaves, remember? http://www.collarchat.com/fb.asp?m=3585612 So business must be tough. :p

SylvereApLeanan -> RE: Slaves Fetishes (6/26/2011 5:20:12 PM)
Must be hard to compete with NiteFlirt and TalkSugar. There are so many more mistresses to choose from. [;)]

mummyman321 -> RE: Slaves Fetishes (6/26/2011 7:10:45 PM)
Oh yea. Some many Mistresses for us subs to choose from. Its a neverending task. So hard to choose. And they are just so nice to provide online training, for a small fee, just in case we cannot see them in person. Wow, us subs are just so lucky.[8\|]

LadyHibiscus -> RE: Slaves Fetishes (6/26/2011 7:47:50 PM)
Job I caN do in my pajamas? With a computer? Where?

mummyman321 -> RE: Slaves Fetishes (6/26/2011 8:10:58 PM)
There is a computer in my house you can use. I have a T1 line to the house [8D]

LadyConstanze -> RE: Slaves Fetishes (6/27/2011 12:34:57 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: VaguelyCurious Well, say what you like about Kelli but she's pretty clear that she doesn't do things she doesn't enjoy. Whereas the OP goes out of her way to make it clear that she will cater to anyone... I don't mind Kelli, she might not be the most articulate one, but she's pretty clear what she does and what she doesn't do and that she charges.

SexyBossyBBW -> RE: Slaves Fetishes (6/27/2011 2:14:52 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: zenny Dictionary.com: 3. Psychology . any object or nongenital part of the body that causes a habitual erotic response or fixation. Urban Dictionary has several that apply but they are simply extrapolations of the one I posted. Haha, I just realized I posted in the "Ask a Mistress" section. I should probably start checking where the wheel takes me. Oh well. I assume you ladies don't mind variety. Don't ask me to tuck though... Nah we don't mind variety, generally speaking. Off to search for zenny's posts, to see if he can stay, or should go[;)] M

AcademyForSlaves -> RE: Slaves Fetishes (7/1/2011 9:19:30 PM)
Hello, We are very happy to supply a sub with the training or ownership the sub seeks and wants, whether it is online, by phone, or in person. To each his/her own.

BonesFromAsh -> RE: Slaves Fetishes (7/2/2011 1:53:44 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: AcademyForSlaves Hello, We are very happy to supply a sub with the training or ownership the sub seeks and wants, whether it is online, by phone, or in person. To each his/her own. While I completely agree with "to each his/her own"....I have a very honest question. How do you "supply" ownership to a sub? Sounds like a service, which has me asking; who is owner and who is owned?

DesFIP -> RE: Slaves Fetishes (7/2/2011 8:31:09 AM)
The Man has looked into things I said I was interested in. Some he's gotten into himself, some he'll do if I ask on a day he feels like indulging me, and some he decides he won't do. It's all good. But none of them are things that are my top interests; those we already were compatible with.

SlavesNotToys -> RE: Slaves Fetishes (7/3/2011 10:43:12 AM)
My viewpoint is that this sounds like a thread started by someone with a hidden agenda, which has nothing to do with frank and honest discussion about how to handle slaves. I do not cater to slaves. If I was catering, I'd be the caterer. Caterers serve. Slaves serve. Slaves cater. I may or may not allow them to pursue their own interests, if they benefit me, or, if their work for me is done for the nonce. However, I remain startlingly uninterested in their fetishes, since the definition of a fetish is what they cannot live without - and I would never accept them if they had to have some bizarre thing done to them just to keep them from falling apart - and/or what they need to cum, which is knowledge I would not welcome them forcing into my life. I don't use slaves for sex, and, damned straight, they will not attempt to use me for it. If they need sex, they will do it during whatever free time is available to them, or, they will come and ask me to find them a wife or husband with whom to have it. End of story.

frankieboy52 -> RE: Slaves Fetishes (7/5/2011 9:41:42 AM)
[/sizeI make no bones about the fact i have a very strong gag fetish...it is what it is....with that said,i think it is important to talk about it.The whole idea is to serve that is true and serve without reservation,but if some think they can go without even as much as addressing it with a potential sub or slave,i believe that to be a serious mistake.It just makes sense to me that if a sub is happy for having a fetish addressed he would or she would become even more submissive...and isn't that eally the bottom line???

PeonForHer -> RE: Slaves Fetishes (7/5/2011 12:11:25 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: frankieboy52 It just makes sense to me that if a sub is happy for having a fetish addressed he would or she would become even more submissive...and isn't that eally the bottom line??? Actually, I've often wondered about just that point. I only had one kink in my late teens; by now I've got a huge collection of them.

LadyHibiscus -> RE: Slaves Fetishes (7/5/2011 12:14:08 PM)
Exposure, Darling! Your horizons have been expanded!

PeonForHer -> RE: Slaves Fetishes (7/5/2011 12:23:10 PM)
True. I take pride in developing a catholic range of interests. :-)

Hillwilliam -> RE: Slaves Fetishes (7/5/2011 12:25:46 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: PeonForHer True. I take pride in developing a catholic range of interests. :-) What a coincidence. Im interested in a range of Catholics. [8D] ETA tell me you didn't see that one coming a mile away.

VaguelyCurious -> RE: Slaves Fetishes (7/5/2011 12:27:27 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: frankieboy52 It just makes sense to me that if a sub is happy for having a fetish addressed he would or she would become even more submissive...and isn't that eally the bottom line??? What do you imagine that 'more submissive' actually means? What actual behaviours or feelings are you talking about here that would be 'more submissive'? Statements like yours make me sad. The day I see any part of my sex life as having to 'address' anything will be a miserable, bad, no good day.

LadyHibiscus -> RE: Slaves Fetishes (7/5/2011 12:34:32 PM)
VC, you are so right. Where does "submissiveness" come from? Some magical act that the dominant performs, or something the submissive produces themselves? I want those serving me to be happy that they are, whether they are a life partner, a playmate, or a servant. Ideally, they want ME to be happy, and we both fulfill our parts in the relationship. I say this quite a bit: D/S RELATIONSHIPS ARE NOT QUID PRO QUO. You can natter on all you like about how both parties are essential, but an essential inequality of role is built into the relationship. Part of "getting to know you" or "negotiation" or "courtship" is finding out if your kinks and foibles are compatible. I know (for instance) that someone who is a full on crossdresser would not be a good match for me. I also know that there are myriad small things that I enjoy if the other person enjoys them. There are some things that I never think of doing ever, and would have to be asked or reminded. WHY in the name of PG Tips would I use some checklist method of kink fulfillment in order to generate "submission"?

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