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DarkSteven -> RE: Are money dommes like beggars? (5/18/2011 4:00:57 PM)
There are many people who do all kinds of stuff I'm not into. I don't worry about what names to call those activities.

PhilSlave -> RE: Are money dommes like beggars? (5/18/2011 4:46:43 PM)
Do Dommes and Doms, take it all a little to seriously? Having read the pompous replies, I can say Yes! It can be a very powerful exchange? Obviously and Pointless.... I guess that's the thing about fetishes- unless you have said fetish, it is totally pointless. No one is concentrating on what they don't want pompous person, making an observation is frankly just that; making an observation.

Muttling -> RE: Are money dommes like beggars? (5/18/2011 4:58:03 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DarkSteven There are many people who do all kinds of stuff I'm not into. I don't worry about what names to call those activities. I agree with you and find this to be one of the few (if not the only) sensible response in this thread. This said, the way this form of "domination" is typically described to sound more like abuse that domination. I'm not into age play, but I understood how it could be done in a mutually caring way once it was explained to me by a dear friend who is a little girl submissive. I've never heard anyone describe financial domination in a way that is mutually caring in the long term, instead I hear abusiveness.

VaguelyCurious -> RE: Are money dommes like beggars? (5/18/2011 5:08:27 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Muttling I've never heard anyone describe financial domination in a way that is mutually caring in the long term, instead I hear abusiveness. Jaysus. There's a massive spectrum out there between 'mutually caring in the long term' and 'abusive'. Way to condemn anything you don't understand. (I have never engaged and probably will never engage in financial domination. But people who condemn anything that's not all flowers and chocolates as abuse irritate me. If that's your idea of abuse then you've clearly never met anyone who's been the victim of real abuse.)

ebonywarqueen -> RE: Are money dommes like beggars? (5/18/2011 5:09:07 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Muttling This said, the way this form of "domination" is typically described to sound more like abuse that domination. I'm not into age play, but I understood how it could be done in a mutually caring way once it was explained to me by a dear friend who is a little girl submissive. I've never heard anyone describe financial domination in a way that is mutually caring in the long term, instead I hear abusiveness. It would seem to me that most people (who don't have that kink) would not see how a Dom/me could take a bullwhip to a submissive in a mutually caring way but many people in this lifestyle do it and they mutually care for each other. If you look at it by mainstream standards, EVERYTHING in this lifestyle SOUNDS abusive. (control, domination, whipping, forced femme,). AND just FYI-I am not into financial domination at all. Never done it and probably never will. Not my kink.

TheCabal -> RE: Are money dommes like beggars? (5/18/2011 5:11:40 PM)
quote: I've never heard anyone describe financial domination in a way that is mutually caring in the long term, instead I hear abusiveness. It certainly can be very easily abused. However, in a scenario where an owner views this activity as a trust, and especially in one where a slave feels overwhelmed by the responsibility that goes along with earning and managing money (and perhaps more to the point, reporting it to the IRS) - it actually can be quite liberating. People underestimate the huge task managing their finances really is.

tiggerspoohbear -> RE: Are money dommes like beggars? (5/18/2011 7:42:59 PM)
OP, if you don't like the profiles you're seeing, then do like the rest of us do a) report them as scammers if all they're asking for is money with nothing in return (not to be mistaken with Pro Dommes), block or hide. That way you won't have to see them appear on your homepage anymore. Now wasn't that easy-peasy? Sheeeesh. [8\|] quote: ORIGINAL: myotherself quote: ORIGINAL: NocturnalStalker Trusting a woman with finances is like lighting your paycheck on fire. Gets bombarded by fruit Is coconut a fruit?? starts aiming Don't know about coconut, but pineapple is sure as all getout a fruit, and just think Bunny it has sharp wingie things and it's as hard as the beloved thrown coconut! [:D]

thishereboi -> RE: Are money dommes like beggars? (5/18/2011 7:51:46 PM)
I think if it's not something you want, you shouldn't visit a pro. Really simple.

DarkSteven -> RE: Are money dommes like beggars? (5/18/2011 8:01:52 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: thishereboi I think if it's not something you want, you shouldn't visit a pro. Really simple. But that dodges the question of whether you should post here and complain about it.

LadyConstanze -> RE: Are money dommes like beggars? (5/19/2011 3:18:40 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: peppermint Now, I have seen some profiles on the internet that do seem to be women who want nothing else than for someone to send them money or gifts. I do not call these people beggers. Many of them would be considered scammers as they want money without providing anything. I wouldn't call them scammers, if they tell you flat out you are not getting anything, they're quite honest. Guys who send them money must be happy to give money for nothing, maybe that is a fetish in itself? I don't really get it, but hey, to each their own, because it doesn't do it for me doesn't mean it doesn't do it for somebody else.

LadyConstanze -> RE: Are money dommes like beggars? (5/19/2011 3:30:39 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Muttling This said, the way this form of "domination" is typically described to sound more like abuse that domination. I'm not into age play, but I understood how it could be done in a mutually caring way once it was explained to me by a dear friend who is a little girl submissive. I've never heard anyone describe financial domination in a way that is mutually caring in the long term, instead I hear abusiveness. That is because nobody ever explained the other side to you. Of course a lot of it is abuse, but there are lots of exceptions. I know a few dommes who are different, you know guys who were massively in dept because they could not handle their finances, to the point where there lives were almost in shambles, the dommes took control of the finances, made sure the they got out of dept and budgeted the money. That's everything but abusive to me.

thishereboi -> RE: Are money dommes like beggars? (5/19/2011 7:41:12 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: PhilSlave Do Dommes and Doms, take it all a little to seriously? Having read the pompous replies, I can say Yes! It can be a very powerful exchange? Obviously and Pointless.... I guess that's the thing about fetishes- unless you have said fetish, it is totally pointless. No one is concentrating on what they don't want pompous person, making an observation is frankly just that; making an observation. Oh you poor thing. You were really hoping people would jump in and agree with you and tell you what a smart little boy you were. Maybe even one of the lovely ladies would see this and thinking how wonderful you are, ask you to play. Oh well, better luck next time[8\|]

RedMagic1 -> RE: Are money dommes like beggars? (5/19/2011 7:56:41 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: PhilSlave No one is concentrating on what they don't want pompous person, making an observation is frankly just that; making an observation. How many posts have you made, on any message board anywhere, where you share the things in life that give you joy?

PhilSlave -> RE: Are money dommes like beggars? (5/25/2011 12:18:36 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: TheCabal Wow... coconuts and prickly pears... apparently they've been managing their tributes better than you thought. LOL Not really, money dommes are particularly pathetic.

LadyConstanze -> RE: Are money dommes like beggars? (5/25/2011 12:29:32 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: PhilSlave quote: ORIGINAL: TheCabal Wow... coconuts and prickly pears... apparently they've been managing their tributes better than you thought. LOL Not really, money dommes are particularly pathetic. Some may think people who come to boards and just complain are pretty pathetic...

PhilSlave -> RE: Are money dommes like beggars? (5/25/2011 12:56:32 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyConstanze quote: ORIGINAL: PhilSlave quote: ORIGINAL: TheCabal Wow... coconuts and prickly pears... apparently they've been managing their tributes better than you thought. LOL Not really, money dommes are particularly pathetic. Some may think people who come to boards and just complain are pretty pathetic... Those people are mostly money dommes.

LadyConstanze -> RE: Are money dommes like beggars? (5/25/2011 1:00:25 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: PhilSlave quote: ORIGINAL: LadyConstanze quote: ORIGINAL: PhilSlave quote: ORIGINAL: TheCabal Wow... coconuts and prickly pears... apparently they've been managing their tributes better than you thought. LOL Not really, money dommes are particularly pathetic. Some may think people who come to boards and just complain are pretty pathetic... Those people are mostly money dommes. You mean the majority of people who consider you a pathetic and annoying little cry baby are all money dommes? Even the guys? Wow, who would have thought... Oh dear, I never noticed that I was a money domme, I mean wouldn't that require you know wanting money first? You're not too clever, are you?

windchymes -> RE: Are money dommes like beggars? (5/25/2011 9:57:52 PM)
Beggars? I think they're more like demanders.

Awareness -> RE: Are money dommes like beggars? (5/25/2011 10:40:41 PM)
No, more like leeches.

LadyConstanze -> RE: Are money dommes like beggars? (5/26/2011 1:49:59 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: windchymes Beggars? I think they're more like demanders. Yeah, but unless they manage to develop crazy mind powers, they can demand all they want, all somebody has to do is say "Nope" and/or block and that's it, possibly even report, much less effort than coming here and complaining and more effective. It's not that difficult, really, and unless you have a fetish for paying money to a stranger, you have to be a complete idiot to do something where you know you're not getting anything out of it. And uhhh, yeah, the big red letters on CM: quote: DO NOT SEND MONEY TO OTHER USERS FOR ANY REASON! Read about Common Scams and Online Safety Information

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