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ORIGINAL: VaguelyCurious

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ORIGINAL: Charles6682

Yes,its safe to say money dommes are like beggars.Actually,thats basically what they are.

Well you've certainly changed your tune. (Twice.)

http://www.collarchat.com/fb.asp?m=3407174

Can we say 'hypocrite'? I think we can.

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ORIGINAL: LadyConstanze

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ORIGINAL: VaguelyCurious

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ORIGINAL: Charles6682

Yes,its safe to say money dommes are like beggars.Actually,thats basically what they are.

Well you've certainly changed your tune. (Twice.)

http://www.collarchat.com/fb.asp?m=3407174

Can we say 'hypocrite'? I think we can.

I seriously don't get it, if somebody says openly "All I want is your money, I'm not interested in you!" Then this person might not be a nice person, but at least it's honest and upfront, since nobody makes false promises or holds a gun on anybody's head or frogmarches somebody to an ATM, we have to assume that the guys are doing it out of their own free will. If that's their kink, great, they're getting their kink on, if it's not their kink, then why on earth do they do it? As the saying goes, a fool and his money...

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ORIGINAL: HannahLynHeather

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O.K. My first Degree is Biochemistry from Nottingham U.K.
My Second is from University of London and I have done successful research at two others.
I did mine in the days when qualifications meant something.

my 1st degree is in dumb assed choices from shk. my second is in reality from u of rl.

mine trump yours any day of the week duckworth.

a money domme is a prostitute. a pro domme is a prostitute. a wife is a prostitute. that cute girl who fucked you after you took her out to dinner? she's a prostitute too.
we're all fucking whores at some point dude, because you fuckers will pay for cunt, and sooner or later every one of us who has a cunt is going to let one of you do so.

stop whining and carrying on like a maiden aunt who sat on a hornet's nest and deal with it.

hannah lynn

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ORIGINAL: PhilSlave

You're right, they are not beggars emotional muggers might be a better word.

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ORIGINAL: VaguelyCurious

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ORIGINAL: PhilSlave

You're right, they are not beggars emotional muggers might be a better word.

I suspect you've never actually been mugged, if you consider someone posting an ad on a personals site to be a reasonable comparison. Posting an ad is about as close to passive as an action can get while still being an action. Mugging, on the other hand, is pretty active.

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ORIGINAL: PhilSlave

emotionally mugging someone seems somewhat different to physical mugging. My mistake, I was sure using the word emotional provided some distinction.

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ORIGINAL: domiguy

No. Why would a wife be a prostitute? Why would that cute girl I fucked after I took her out for dinner be a prostitute?

You need to buy a dictionary.

Maybe they don't sell dictionaries to lesbos?

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ORIGINAL: VaguelyCurious

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ORIGINAL: PhilSlave

emotionally mugging someone seems somewhat different to physical mugging. My mistake, I was sure using the word emotional provided some distinction.

The word 'mugging' still implies a much more active role than just posting an ad. Note that 'active' is not the same as 'physical'. What with all your degrees I assumed you'd be able to make that distinction, but perhaps not.

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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

I think that without prey, there would be no predators.

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ORIGINAL: PhilSlave

I've been giving some of the profiles on here some thought and it seems to me that financial dommes are little more than beggars. What do others think?

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ORIGINAL: PhilSlave

The ad is active- as it is worded to cause a specified reaction in someone emotionally vulnerable, this along with some form of picture, emotionally 'mugs' the victim of said predator.

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ORIGINAL: VaguelyCurious

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ORIGINAL: PhilSlave

The ad is active- as it is worded to cause a specified reaction in someone emotionally vulnerable, this along with some form of picture, emotionally 'mugs' the victim of said predator.

For one thing, the 'victim' online has to be actively looking at adverts in order to come across this specific ad. The victim of a mugging is walking down the street, not looking to be mugged at all.

And then once the 'victim' has seen the profile they have to message the user, request and obtain bank details, and then actively transfer the money themselves. They have to make active decisions to do all these things - no negative outcome is being held over them if they don't go through with their actions. A victim of a mugging is threatened with a fist or a knife, or their valuables are physically removed by another person - if they make an active decision to hand over their valuables it is with the threat of something worse hanging over them, and they may not make that active decision at all.

I'm sorry, but your analogy is a poor one.

Even emotionally vulnerable adults are adults, and they need to take responsibility for their actions and their active choices. Being mugged is not an active choice. Giving money to a findomme most definitely *is*.

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ORIGINAL: LadyNTrainer

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ORIGINAL: PhilSlave

I've been giving some of the profiles on here some thought and it seems to me that financial dommes are little more than beggars. What do others think?

Just curious - what do you call men who write random femdom profiles begging to be money slaves?

I don't actually get much of that now on my professional profile,  but on my social friends-only profile, I was virtually inundated with guys asking if I would be their financial domme and treat them like pay piggies.  Uh....what exactly was it about a "gamer geek in the lifestyle looking for pervy gamer buddies and friends only" that attracted these guys? Fuck if I know, but they were swarming me like mosquitoes.

I'm not into findomme as a kink, or as a business either.  I'm not the one pursuing men to give me their money for nothing.  I really don't want to do this.  Yet I have been pursued by men who actively seek this kink.  I'm not so sure who you could really define as the beggar here, the men who ardently bother women to do this for them, or the women who are willing to (thank goodness) cater to their kinks so there are less of these desperate fellows to bother those of us who have zero interest in this fetish?

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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

Can we truly all be this bored, that we keep feeding these trolls?

RedMagic, I have been watching the patterns of male sub misogyny for years, and I can't understand it for the life of me. Luckily, the atttackers stick to the internet--or at least keep their attacks to the I nternet.

(2 MA's, coupla licenses, no doctorate yet...)

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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

So, drinkers, gamblers, and those who want their wallets controlled are mentally ill?