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PhilSlave -> Are money dommes like beggars? (5/18/2011 2:05:16 PM)

I've been giving some of the profiles on here some thought and it seems to me that financial dommes are little more than beggars. What do others think?



TheCabal -> RE: Are money dommes like beggars? (5/18/2011 2:23:29 PM)

It's not as simple as that.  There are multiple variations on the 'financial domination' theme.  Yes, most are essentially beggars (ie: 'give me money and go away').  Quite a few more are essentially prostitutes (ie: 'give me money and I'll do something to get you off').  There is a yet another group that are actually slave owners who use it as a very legitimate form of control (ie: 'have your paycheck direct deposited into an account I control, and I will cover your basic needs'). And finally, there's a very small group that are essentially cultists (ie: these use words like 'tithing').



NocturnalStalker -> RE: Are money dommes like beggars? (5/18/2011 2:32:59 PM)

Trusting a woman with finances is like lighting your paycheck on fire.

*Gets bombarded by fruit*



myotherself -> RE: Are money dommes like beggars? (5/18/2011 2:34:14 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: NocturnalStalker

Trusting a woman with finances is like lighting your paycheck on fire.

*Gets bombarded by fruit*



Is coconut a fruit??

*starts aiming*



Lockit -> RE: Are money dommes like beggars? (5/18/2011 2:37:06 PM)

Why do you guys focus on the things you don't want rather than positively seeking what you actually want without the bitch? OP... you can't make a point that two thousand others have already made, unless you are trying to show us who not to respond to in email.

Nothing worse than whinny dicked boys... [:)]



TheCabal -> RE: Are money dommes like beggars? (5/18/2011 2:41:01 PM)

None the less, if that is how slavery works for you and your partner, it's not really your paycheck. 

Of course, before doing that sort of thing, it is wise to make sure she knows how to handle money. 



Phoenixpower -> RE: Are money dommes like beggars? (5/18/2011 2:42:00 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: myotherself


quote:

ORIGINAL: NocturnalStalker

Trusting a woman with finances is like lighting your paycheck on fire.

*Gets bombarded by fruit*



Is coconut a fruit??

*starts aiming*


my strength in my arms isn't that great, so instead of throwing them myself, I will just pass you some more coconuts [:)]



mnottertail -> RE: Are money dommes like beggars? (5/18/2011 2:42:09 PM)

OP.

They searching you out with their double D cups in hand, or what?  Raping you with their lying eyes?  Using those little crawlers to come up on the porch, knock on your door, and shake their cans at you?  



mnottertail -> RE: Are money dommes like beggars? (5/18/2011 2:44:16 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Phoenixpower
my strength in my arms isn't that great, so instead of throwing them myself, I will just pass you some more coconuts [:)]


I can do that for you, throw them....for a small tribute.  Do you like that?  Does that make you feel good?



Lockit -> RE: Are money dommes like beggars? (5/18/2011 2:45:02 PM)

Ron! You promised you would never tell I did that to you! God, you can't trust anyone around here! [:D]



Phoenixpower -> RE: Are money dommes like beggars? (5/18/2011 2:49:50 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: mnottertail

quote:

ORIGINAL: Phoenixpower
my strength in my arms isn't that great, so instead of throwing them myself, I will just pass you some more coconuts [:)]


I can do that for you, throw them....for a small tribute.  Do you like that?  Does that make you feel good?


Well....depends how many we will have for you to throw and how good you are in hitting the target [;)]



mnottertail -> RE: Are money dommes like beggars? (5/18/2011 2:51:10 PM)

Oh, now we are negotiating.... I see..........



Phoenixpower -> RE: Are money dommes like beggars? (5/18/2011 2:52:17 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: mnottertail

Oh, now we are negotiating.... I see..........


Well, if there is one thing I learned throughout my years living in the UK...then it was NOT to say blindly yes and amen [:D]



ChatteParfaitt -> RE: Are money dommes like beggars? (5/18/2011 2:55:39 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: PhilSlave

I've been giving some of the profiles on here some thought and it seems to me that financial dommes are little more than beggars. What do others think?


There are con artists who prey on the gullible and desperate and call themselves money dommes. That is not begging, that is conning.

There are also highly qualified prodommes who offer a valuable service, and every other kind of "money domme" in between those two extremes.

Is CM full of the wannabes and the con artists? Sure, times are tough, people like to eat.

If you don't want to be conned, don't be gullible and desperate, and take the time to educate yourself about genuine prodommes.





SylvereApLeanan -> RE: Are money dommes like beggars? (5/18/2011 3:12:56 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: myotherself


quote:

ORIGINAL: NocturnalStalker

Trusting a woman with finances is like lighting your paycheck on fire.

*Gets bombarded by fruit*



Is coconut a fruit??

*starts aiming*


Yes.  So are prickly pears.

You aim for his head, I'll aim lower. 



NocturnalStalker -> RE: Are money dommes like beggars? (5/18/2011 3:18:57 PM)

Please not the face. =(



mnottertail -> RE: Are money dommes like beggars? (5/18/2011 3:20:51 PM)

You are gonna have to beg a fuck of alot more professionally than that to be this guy Phil's money domme, sport.



peppermint -> RE: Are money dommes like beggars? (5/18/2011 3:32:17 PM)

Pro Dommes are professionals who provide a service.  The majority of their business is with men although couples sometimes employ a Pro Domme.  They are no more beggers than the chiropractor or a waitress.  They provide a service such as humiliation, flogging, mommy to an Adult Baby.  Many of their clients are married men who do not wish to have an affair, but do want some BDSM type play.  The men prefer to pay for the scratch their itch needs.. 

Now, I have seen some profiles on the internet that do seem to be women who want nothing else than for someone to send them money or gifts.  I do not call these people beggers.  Many of them would be considered scammers as they want money without providing anything. 

Then there are the lifestyle Dommes.  They don't ask for money, however, they may ask you to purchase the toys that will be used on you.  Toys such as dildos are one person toys and a Domme should not be expect to buy you something she can't use with anyone else.

Many male submissives could also be called beggars.  They want a female Domme to provide them with BDSM play when the men get the itch. Many of these men don't want a relationship, just a play partner.  The men even have long wish lists of what they will allow the female Domme to do to them.  I even read one profile that stated the exact percentage of time that was to be devoted to each activity.   They expect the female Domme to provide all the toys.  Her "reward" for buying toys, for dressing in those slinky thigh high boots and corsets is the man allowing her to do activities to him. 

So who are the bigger beggars?  I could give you good reasons for both sides. 



TheCabal -> RE: Are money dommes like beggars? (5/18/2011 3:47:10 PM)

Wow... coconuts and prickly pears... apparently they've been managing their tributes better than you thought.  LOL



ebonywarqueen -> RE: Are money dommes like beggars? (5/18/2011 3:49:02 PM)

FINANCIAL DOMINATION
“Where the hell is my money?” She said staring down at the naked, kneeling, man shaking in front of her.
He reaches over to the nightstand and grabs the wallet. He opens it and holds it up over his head offering the contents as hers to take; his head bowed down looking at her shiny leather boots.
She grabs the money out of the wallet and counts the bills. Ones…….all ones…….twenty ones…….
“Motherfucker is this all you’ve got???” She yells.
“Yes….yes, Ma’am.” He answers meekly.
“And just what the hell do you expect me to do with this chump change???” She yells throwing the bills at him, sending them flying all over the room.
“Its all I have, Ma’am.”
“All you have? Then your broke ass just made a stupid mistake. Because now I’m going to have to take it out of your ass.”
"No Mistress- please!" He begs.
She picks up a single tail whip from the dresser. POP! She cracks it loudly startling him.
"Your ass is mine." She says. “and next time bitch, you’d better have my money!”

I know stories are not supposed to be posted here but I just wanted to prove a point. When its done the right way it can be a very fun and powerful exchange between two people. "don't hate. Educate."



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