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tiggerspoohbear -> RE: Are money dommes like beggars? (5/26/2011 6:36:22 PM)
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ORIGINAL: PhilSlave
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ORIGINAL: LadyNTrainer
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ORIGINAL: PhilSlave
I've been giving some of the profiles on here some thought and it seems to me that financial dommes are little more than beggars. What do others think?
Just curious - what do you call men who write random femdom profiles begging to be money slaves?
I don't actually get much of that now on my professional profile, but on my social friends-only profile, I was virtually inundated with guys asking if I would be their financial domme and treat them like pay piggies. Uh....what exactly was it about a "gamer geek in the lifestyle looking for pervy gamer buddies and friends only" that attracted these guys? Fuck if I know, but they were swarming me like mosquitoes.
I'm not into findomme as a kink, or as a business either. I'm not the one pursuing men to give me their money for nothing. I really don't want to do this. Yet I have been pursued by men who actively seek this kink. I'm not so sure who you could really define as the beggar here, the men who ardently bother women to do this for them, or the women who are willing to (thank goodness) cater to their kinks so there are less of these desperate fellows to bother those of us who have zero interest in this fetish?
they are obviously mentally ill!
I don't usually feed the trolls, well ok, yes I do, but in this case I'm just incensed. You've referred to people who might have borderline personality disorder and mental illness.
Well, lemmetellya something, I suffer from clinical depression, borderline personality disorder and myriad and assorted other disorders. I am quite capable of making sound decisions, I don't hand my money over, I know when I'm being taken advantage of and I no longer allow this to happen. I've been told I'm too nice for my own good and that's quite true, I recognize that. But no more, I'm looking after #1 now, and that's me. No one else is going to do so, I've reached the age of 48 fairly well TYVM. And I'll continue all by my lonesome until the right someone comes along and is willing to see the goodness in me and recognize that I have an illness that's managed.
So quit referring to men who do this as mentally ill or in whatever derogatory term. I call bullshit. If they sign away their paycheck, become homeless because they've given all their money away, they did so knowing if the rent and the bills weren't payed they'd end up on the street. That's not a hard thing to figure out. And if they do have a mental illness, then someone should be looking out for them, worrying about them, and making sure this doesn't happen. If they've isolated themselves, again, done on their own.
'Nuff said.
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