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RE: Male vs. Female Dominance (My 1st thread) - 5/30/2011 5:23:34 PM   
aromanholiday


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ORIGINAL: LadyConstanze

I don't want to answer for Heather, so my personal take is that more male D types than female D types seem to put a lot of value in being able to physically overpower the submissives and think that psychological domination (aka getting into the head of somebody) is only something women do as they aren't able to physically dominate somebody with raw strength.


Thanks for the interpretation, it's an interesting one. I guess I have been fairly lucky not to get caught up with a dominant man of that type. But I always thought that one on of the main attractions of dominance to both sexes were the psychological aspects, the fantasy or reality of controlling everything about another person that they wanted to control. Total control over another human, although it seems quite natural to me, is a fairly sophisticated psychological urge. It can express itself in physical and non-physical ways. I think that when I am actively looking for a dominant, I look for that urge to control first and foremost: I look at how pure that urge is. But I don't particularly care how the urge manifests itself or in what ways the specific details, physical and non-physical pan out. How can I put this? They can do with me what they want as long as...they can do with me what they want. Hmm, that's not exactly my most coherent sentence, but trust me, I know it when I see it. ;)

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RE: Male vs. Female Dominance (My 1st thread) - 5/30/2011 5:25:25 PM   
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Status: offline 		I'm not answering for Heather either, but if you read a bit further, you'll see that she agreed she'd worded it badly, and has done a bang up job of defining and redefining her original intent, summarizing the opinions, and how those opinions have changed her views.

Personally I don't think I've seen an OP babysit their thread quite so attentively in a long time.

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RE: Male vs. Female Dominance (My 1st thread) - 5/30/2011 5:56:20 PM   
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RE: Male vs. Female Dominance (My 1st thread) - 5/30/2011 5:58:40 PM   
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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

Heather is the shiznit. Wish I were one of them lesbians! But she's taken anyway.


This is where the extensive lesbianism comes in handy. Join usssssssssss! *Enticing smile*

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RE: Male vs. Female Dominance (My 1st thread) - 5/30/2011 6:02:42 PM   
LadyHibiscus


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RE: Male vs. Female Dominance (My 1st thread) - 5/30/2011 6:03:51 PM   
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ORIGINAL: LadyConstanze

I don't want to answer for Heather, so my personal take is that more male D types than female D types seem to put a lot of value in being able to physically overpower the submissives and think that psychological domination (aka getting into the head of somebody) is only something women do as they aren't able to physically dominate somebody with raw strength.

that's really a short sighted and poorly thought out response.

Only a prick dominates through physical intimidation.

Anywhooo, it ain't exactly like lesbos ain't routinely kicking the fuck out of each other, anyways.

I wonder which relationship has the most physical violence? I would guess they are about the same.

Two women fucking each other?. Them bitches be crazy!!!. Someone is sure to end up dead.


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RE: Male vs. Female Dominance (My 1st thread) - 5/30/2011 6:06:20 PM   
LadyHibiscus


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RE: Male vs. Female Dominance (My 1st thread) - 5/30/2011 6:14:56 PM   
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RE: Male vs. Female Dominance (My 1st thread) - 5/30/2011 6:16:31 PM   
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RE: Male vs. Female Dominance (My 1st thread) - 5/30/2011 6:37:42 PM   
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RE: Male vs. Female Dominance (My 1st thread) - 5/30/2011 6:58:57 PM   
LadyHibiscus


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RE: Male vs. Female Dominance (My 1st thread) - 5/30/2011 7:27:25 PM   
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Status: offline 		Thanks for your rather incoherent response domiguy. What I gather is that you prefer mental domination over physical, and that you have a problem with lesbians. But I've probably got it wrong anyway, after all I'm just a stupid little 18 year old whore out peddling her ass for spare change, right?

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RE: Male vs. Female Dominance (My 1st thread) - 5/30/2011 7:43:23 PM   
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ORIGINAL: HeatherMcLeather
I'm just a stupid little 18 year old whore out peddling her ass for spare change, right?


You're very good at it though. I'm completely out of spare change now. It's really starting to impact on my ability to use vending machines, your ass is drastically reducing Cadbury's profits.

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RE: Male vs. Female Dominance (My 1st thread) - 5/30/2011 7:56:05 PM   
LadyHibiscus


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RE: Male vs. Female Dominance (My 1st thread) - 5/30/2011 8:04:49 PM   
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ORIGINAL: HeatherMcLeather

Thanks for your rather incoherent response domiguy. What I gather is that you prefer mental domination over physical, and that you have a problem with lesbians. But I've probably got it wrong anyway, after all I'm just a stupid little 18 year old whore out peddling her ass for spare change, right?


Jesus Christ, is that what he said?

DG, didn't your parents ever wash your mouth out with soap?

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RE: Male vs. Female Dominance (My 1st thread) - 5/30/2011 8:10:03 PM   
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You're very good at it though. I'm completely out of spare change now. It's really starting to impact on my ability to use vending machines, your ass is drastically reducing Cadbury's profits.
Discounts for extensively lesbian clients. Deep, deep discounts. 

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RE: Male vs. Female Dominance (My 1st thread) - 5/30/2011 8:11:33 PM   
LadyHibiscus


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What are your feelings regarding middle aged fat broads with spectacular tits?

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RE: Male vs. Female Dominance (My 1st thread) - 5/30/2011 8:12:32 PM   
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Spare change? I have lots of spare change!!
I've got her hooked Creepy, now we just have to reel her in.

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RE: Male vs. Female Dominance (My 1st thread) - 5/30/2011 8:14:43 PM   
LadyHibiscus


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RE: Male vs. Female Dominance (My 1st thread) - 5/30/2011 8:22:54 PM   
HeatherMcLeather


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middle aged fat broads with spectacular tits?
Lets see.
Con: Probably don't like the same music as me <but spectacular tits overrules that>
Pro: Very fun to snuggle with I imagine
Con: Probably doesn't have the same energy level  <but spectacular tits overrules that>
Pro: Probably has a lot of experience
Con: Who cares, she has spectacular tits!
Pro: Spectacular tits

I guess overall I'm in favour of them. But, hang on a minute....
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Ah, CS. I am living proof that's it's not a choice
That makes you a middle aged fat baby dyke with spectacular tits. Oh yummy!

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