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RE: Is kinky sex an attempt to fill a void caused by an... - 5/30/2011 9:08:31 AM   
PhilSlave


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Problem with that, phil, is that you have a history of doing just what you are decrying on this thread. No one here posts in a vacuum. Your other posts are remembered, and color all your future posts.


You see, i'm not decrying anything... I'm making a statement one you are free to disagree with. The personalization comes initially from you. When that happens, I am likely to reply with a personalized response. That's the thing about group think, it's herd personalization. In my opinion women are more likely to act in herds, e.g. groups of women menstruating together if they live together, just like other female herd animals. herd behaviour is in my opinion an amusing often although not exclusively female trait.

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RE: Is kinky sex an attempt to fill a void caused by an... - 5/30/2011 9:23:47 AM   
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You see, i'm not decrying anything... I'm making a statement one you are free to disagree with. The personalization comes initially from you. When that happens, I am likely to reply with a personalized response. That's the thing about group think, it's herd personalization. In my opinion women are more likely to act in herds, e.g. groups of women menstruating together if they live together, just like other female herd animals. herd behaviour is in my opinion an amusing often although not exclusively female trait.


And yet men spend their lives trying to get into the herd, wanting so desperately for our approval, needing to plow into that spot that bleeds once a month.... and then wipe their brows and thank god when the one they plowed into bleeds afterwards.

Men are such silly creatures.

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RE: Is kinky sex an attempt to fill a void caused by an... - 5/30/2011 9:26:15 AM   
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And thank you. That's all i've been saying. I understand whilst you may not agree with my opinions, you are not personalising or playing favourites. I respect that.

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RE: Is kinky sex an attempt to fill a void caused by an... - 5/30/2011 9:28:04 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: tazzygirl

quote:

You see, i'm not decrying anything... I'm making a statement one you are free to disagree with. The personalization comes initially from you. When that happens, I am likely to reply with a personalized response. That's the thing about group think, it's herd personalization. In my opinion women are more likely to act in herds, e.g. groups of women menstruating together if they live together, just like other female herd animals. herd behaviour is in my opinion an amusing often although not exclusively female trait.


And yet men spend their lives trying to get into the herd, wanting so desperately for our approval, needing to plow into that spot that bleeds once a month.... and then wipe their brows and thank god when the one they plowed into bleeds afterwards.

Men are such silly creatures.


You see I disagree with this statement, however, I did state herd behaviour was not exclusive to females and men do engage in it. Although I know of no biological responses dictated by it in the way women have.

Do you see what we're doing now? We are discussing.

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RE: Is kinky sex an attempt to fill a void caused by an... - 5/30/2011 9:32:57 AM   
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I am wondering, since your profile states you are a male submissive looking for a female dominant... What kind of woman attracts you, and why you want to be dominated by a female at all...since women are so flawed, etc.

And another thing, did you know that any woman that might consider you as a male submissive can hit "read forum posts" and get your entire posting history?

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RE: Is kinky sex an attempt to fill a void caused by an... - 5/30/2011 9:34:17 AM   
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quote:

Do you see what we're doing now? We are discussing.


Until you posted this, perhaps. Now you are demeaning.

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RE: Is kinky sex an attempt to fill a void caused by an... - 5/30/2011 9:35:15 AM   
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My profile doesn't state that, does it? Damn that's an error... So i'm not really worried.

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RE: Is kinky sex an attempt to fill a void caused by an... - 5/30/2011 9:36:03 AM   
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In case he decides to change that as well.

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RE: Is kinky sex an attempt to fill a void caused by an... - 5/30/2011 9:36:21 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: tazzygirl

quote:

Do you see what we're doing now? We are discussing.


Until you posted this, perhaps. Now you are demeaning.


Nope, I was just pleased we were engaged in a discourse. I didn't mean to upset you, sorry I did with that.

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RE: Is kinky sex an attempt to fill a void caused by an... - 5/30/2011 9:37:29 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: tazzygirl

User Name:
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PhilSlave
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Dominant Women
Switch Women
Femdom Couples
Joining a Poly Household

In case he decides to change that as well.


That's all wrong. Weird and creepy.

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RE: Is kinky sex an attempt to fill a void caused by an... - 5/30/2011 9:39:04 AM   
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I have it down as this:

'I find generally... Most people into BDSM unattractive physically and self absorbed. I would not call them misfits or anything like that though.'

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RE: Is kinky sex an attempt to fill a void caused by an... - 5/30/2011 9:42:00 AM   
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Whats wrong with it? It came directly from your profile

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RE: Is kinky sex an attempt to fill a void caused by an... - 5/30/2011 9:42:43 AM   
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You know, this made me think a bit, I think that perhaps I got into kinky sex because i always love more fiercely then the other party and being dominated somehow makes up for it. Perhaps  my mind allows the control to pass for love or affection

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RE: Is kinky sex an attempt to fill a void caused by an... - 5/30/2011 9:51:22 AM   
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It does make sense doesn't it.

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RE: Is kinky sex an attempt to fill a void caused by an... - 5/30/2011 9:53:07 AM   
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ORIGINAL: PhilSlave


That's all wrong. Weird and creepy.



Isn't it?

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RE: Is kinky sex an attempt to fill a void caused by an... - 5/30/2011 10:03:04 AM   
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OK.  At this point, I'm pretty much confused on what the real story is, so I'm going to try to phrase this in such a way that you might understand.

Let's say that the girlfriend does exist and you have a loving relationship.  To add to the hypothetical, let's suggest that one day, the two of you go to a movie together and in that movie, there's some really good scene where the male hero is tied up and being interrogated by a female villain.  On the way home, you're girlfriend says something to you about that scene in the movie turned her on quite a bit and it might be something she'd like to try.  You go home, she ties you up, smacks you around a bit, and you have really great sex.  Sounds good, right?

Now, here's the question.  Did that mean your girlfriend loved you less?


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RE: Is kinky sex an attempt to fill a void caused by an... - 5/30/2011 10:12:19 AM   
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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

OK.  At this point, I'm pretty much confused on what the real story is, so I'm going to try to phrase this in such a way that you might understand.

Let's say that the girlfriend does exist and you have a loving relationship.  To add to the hypothetical, let's suggest that one day, the two of you go to a movie together and in that movie, there's some really good scene where the male hero is tied up and being interrogated by a female villain.  On the way home, you're girlfriend says something to you about that scene in the movie turned her on quite a bit and it might be something she'd like to try.  You go home, she ties you up, smacks you around a bit, and you have really great sex.  Sounds good, right?

Now, here's the question.  Did that mean your girlfriend loved you less?



I would be confused by her actions.

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RE: Is kinky sex an attempt to fill a void caused by an... - 5/30/2011 10:13:59 AM   
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Confused or not, does it mean she loves you less?

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RE: Is kinky sex an attempt to fill a void caused by an... - 5/30/2011 10:50:42 AM   
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He has a girlfriend yet is "willing to relocate"?


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