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Question for For submissive females!! - 5/30/2011 11:00:56 PM   
douchebagfirefox


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Status: offline 		Honestly I a so damn tired of seeing all this BS about "treat me with respect and get to know me" on your profiles!! Why it is when a guy does try to do that 9/10 females ignore him?? I am really tired of getting deleted and ignored but yet 9/10 ten females also bitch about guys that come at them like billy badass! So if you will please....... Tell me what is going on here??
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RE: Question for For submissive females!! - 5/30/2011 11:07:36 PM   
IrishMist


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Tell me what is going on here??

umm ok

they are just not into you

that simple



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RE: Question for For submissive females!! - 5/30/2011 11:15:42 PM   
petmonkey


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i'm not sure why you're not having much luck.  Perhaps you should go ahead and try a Ron Burgundy  style message from now on.

i'm joking, of course--laughing with you, not at you.  Op, i've noticed some people have a different view of what it means to "get to know" each other.  i've also noticed you posted this in the "general bdsm" section, why not in the "ask a submissive" section?  Here's a rhetorical question: How does your messages differ from some of the ways mentioned in this thread--
http://www.collarchat.com/m_2897261/mpage_1/tm.htm



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RE: Question for For submissive females!! - 5/30/2011 11:27:05 PM   
myotherself


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From: The cold bit of the UK
Status: offline 		If I were younger and looking, this is why I wouldn't bother replying to you:

1. Your profile is unappealing. It's whiney and demanding, and seems to have been infected with an exclamation mark virus.

You may well be a special little snowflake, but you're no more special than aaalll the other special little snowflakes out there.

It also tells the reader NOTHING about you beyond your masterfulness and you were in the army for a relatively short time. Is your kink all you are, or is there a real man underneath it all?

2. You are a douchebag. It says so in your username. People respond to what they see - this may well be a joke on your part, but if people don't know you're a joker then the joke will fly over their heads. You say you're a douchebag, they'll believe it.

3. Younger women get hit on a LOT. Your message will be lost in the middle of a sea of similar messages. How do you make yours stand out from the crowd?

4. Your age may stand against you. You're very young, and subs/slaves may question your maturity and experience (this goes back to your profile being a bit..."not great"). Some younger women are looking for young men, but many subs/slaves equate age with experience, rightly or wrongly.


OP - if you are serious about finding someone, then you have to pull up those big boy panties and just persevere. Keep messaging women, make the messages memorable in a good way, make yourself into a person, not a douchebag with kinks

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RE: Question for For submissive females!! - 5/30/2011 11:50:02 PM   
ResidentSadist


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Status: offline 		What is going on is that you are getting 1 out of 10 positive results . . . which is a great response for an online dating site.  Congratulations on doing better than the average statistics.  Now pay attention to the 10% that didn't get away instead whining and about the ones that did.  Your complaint is like hearing someone say they won new Corvette and complain because its blue when their favorite color is red. 

just saying . . .  


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RE: Question for For submissive females!! - 5/31/2011 12:11:15 AM   
Nanako


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Status: offline 		black on green. my eyes T_T

You could do with less exclamation marks, less capital letters, and less sentences under 10 words long, too sir ^_^


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RE: Question for For submissive females!! - 5/31/2011 12:17:29 AM   
lizi


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Status: offline 		First of all you made me laugh with the Billy Badass thing, that's the one positive thing I have for you today.

The answer to why you aren't getting any is because anyone with your username, pictures, and profile comes across as an imbecile. Not many women are attracted to that, it's a niche market.  
Honestly, about the profile...was there a sale on exclamation points today?

A profile should be your advertising and get the wimmens for you, but yours should win a prize of some kind- it's that dead on for being what a woman would first of all laugh her ass off after reading, and then call/write all her friends and say OMG, read this lunacy! After that initial reaction of hilarity though it kind of gives an off taste in the mouth like stale cheese.

Now then, the part in your profile about being part of the US Army and how you WERE a soldier and all the puffed up posturing drivel that followed...
Please bitch 
Who the hell are you trying to convince and of what? Knowing that real soldiers are out there doing their jobs in earnest and risking their lives for your right to posture like a nitwit makes me want to take you to any base in this country and teach you how real soldiers talk and act. Please don't mention anything else about our country's military and ever being a part of it - you're making us look bad.

Grow up and you might get some pussy.
No woman wants to fuck their younger brother's idiot friend. You know the kind, the fools who shoot spitballs at girls from the back of the bus because they don't know what else to do. You could definitely use an update in your technique- grade school ended some time ago. Watch and learn from some of the fine men hanging around on the boards, the ones who actually know how to get the girls out of their panties and have those girls doing wicked things to boot.

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RE: Question for For submissive females!! - 5/31/2011 12:19:50 AM   
MasterSlaveLA


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quote:

ORIGINAL: douchebagfirefox

Tell me what is going on here??



It's the hat.



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RE: Question for For submissive females!! - 5/31/2011 12:44:03 AM   
SpiritedRadiance


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Status: offline 		Okay youve gotten okay advice, however, the thing i need to talk to you about is your little rant, about submissives not being able to choose and to stop being less picky..

Im a human being who lives in the US, Its illegal for people to be owned in the US. Meaning everything thats done in this life is based on consent. IF i dont want to consent to you because i think your a posturing fool whos needs to puff and huff because his dick is small I dont need to offer that consent.

I ALWAYS HAVE THE RIGHT TO CHOOSE and to be as PICKY AS I WANT...

Why? When you have a man who has his hand in your hair a knife at your throat and all it takes is a little tiny jerk from your body moving how it shouldnt and Im dead.... I sure as hell am going to pick someone who makes that a hot scene, instead of a crime scene...


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RE: Question for For submissive females!! - 5/31/2011 12:51:32 AM   
FelineFae


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Status: offline 		Ya know, we have a forum called "Ask a Sub/Slave". However, any answers there would be just as snarky if someone used their first post to moan and gripe.

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RE: Question for For submissive females!! - 5/31/2011 12:58:06 AM   
BeautyDebased


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Status: offline 		Uhhh,

Other than nearly crying with laughter that is, I saw nothing in this profile which would grab any submissive's attention, it was akin to a bad biography based on your ego.

You very clearly have no idea what a submissive truly wants, I suggest you look at some other Dominant profiles and perhaps that might help some though the real help needs to come from within, if you truly feel as you do in your profile your going to have a very long search which I doubt will end in anything positive for you.

Scathing? perhaps but if your not told you really aren't going to get anywhere, a sub will want to know who you are, genuine information not placed to boost your ego but to show them if your compatable....the real you, submissive's want a man, a strong man who knows what he wants, has control of himself because if he doesn't how can he ever control another.

Regular photo's help too, in fact when I was looking, thankfully I'm collared to a damn amazing Dom and have been for some time....however when I wasn't, if I saw photo's such as yours, I wouldn't even bother to read the profile at all, I couldn't take it serious, would think clown and move on.


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RE: Question for For submissive females!! - 5/31/2011 2:43:45 AM   
Sunnyfey


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From: OK
Status: offline 		Easy. I can tell you exactly why I would never even attempt to return an email to you, and might even block you after I read your profile.

Give me a J, Give me an A, Give me a C-K-A-S-S What does that spell?!?? The cock in my bedside table is bigger then yours!!.

Catch my drift? Your "Billy Baddass" persona, makes you look only like a Jackass. Try taking a chill pill and not....and I just BET you do this.....

Demand a woman replies to your e-mail, or call her a slut, whore, bitch or any variation of those words. YOU don't deserve a second glance at by any submissive, if you talk to women the way your profile sounds.

Try being a GENTLEMAN. I know the military taught you better if you even got out of basic.



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RE: Question for For submissive females!! - 5/31/2011 2:45:46 AM   
ranja


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Status: offline 		all you have to do is make them laugh and you are IN there

Oh... never mind apparently that doesn't work either... you are outta luck...
maybe try vanilla... it might be more fun

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RE: Question for For submissive females!! - 5/31/2011 2:46:43 AM   
DeviantMan


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Status: offline 		I wasn't going to post an answer, unless I noticed the "Black on Green" line somewhere in the responses... and I did read your profile.
For the love of God, Allah, Buddha, the Devil, the Big Wheel, even the Giant Spaghetti Monster... change that introduction text of yours!
women, especially submissive women, do NOT want to read that You are what they need. Before you walk in, gracefully, or storm yourself into, a sub's body, you must first Dominate their mind. What you really need, is to be... you. Put the Dom aside for a moment, and show us the young guy with the cowboy hat... what do you do, when you're not holding a crop? What sort of music do you like... what makes you a person, so to speak... if they can't see that person, and find trust in it, you won't get them to submit... period.

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RE: Question for For submissive females!! - 5/31/2011 3:29:04 AM   
Aileen1968


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From: I miss Shore, New Jersey
Status: offline 		The pictures are really fucking creepy. Especially the Santa hat one.


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RE: Question for For submissive females!! - 5/31/2011 3:40:56 AM   
VaguelyCurious


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ORIGINAL: Aileen1968

The pictures are really fucking creepy. Especially the Santa hat one.


OH MY GOD I WASN'T GOING TO LOOK UNTIL YOU SAID THAT.

Dude's last journal entry is fucked up. Fucked up.

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RE: Question for For submissive females!! - 5/31/2011 3:43:41 AM   
OwnedFemaleFlesh


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Status: offline 		Dear God. Black on green can never prepare one for the horror that is red on green!

Points I would never respond to:

1. You are ex-military, I am a pacifist. This means no military, ever. You might see it as a bonus, I'm sure lots of other submissives do, but for me it is an instant deal breaker. You need to be aware that not everyone is going to like you because you were in the armed forces. Especially when you say things like "I will always be a Soldier Mentally and Physically even if I am not part of the Government!" You sound like a military obsessed nut job who will hide out in bushes in the back garden, living off dehydrated kit rations and preparing for World War 3. This is generally not appealing to females.

2. You can't spell or write in a clear, appealing, legible manner. I can handle the occasional spelling error, missed words, typos - we are all human and I am nowhere near perfect. But if you have the grammatical ability of an 11 year old, I am not going to be able to respect you intellectually. Get a friend to proof read your profile and take out the unnecessary capitalised words and exclamation marks.

3. The posturing.

"I AM UNLIKE ANYONE YOU WILL EVER KNOW!!" No, you're not.

"I'm what you want, I'm what you need ,I'll set you free Sexually, mentally, physically, emotionally" I doubt it.

"I am a leader and always will be!!" Except, you can't find a submissive. And a leader without any followers is... well, not a leader anyway.

"My nickname is CowBoy and I damn well earned that name!! Dont Question it and dont try to change it!!" Alrighty then!


4. The demands:

"IF YOU LOOK AT MY PAGE MORE THEN ONCE "SAY SOMETHING!"" Er... no.

"I expect to be treated with Respect!!" Unlucky!

"""""""DO NOT PLAY A SUBMISSIVE FEMALE AND TRY TO BE DAMN PICKY"""""""""""" Fail! You honestly couldn't make submissive women go off you more quickly than this.


5. Your negative view of submissives

"I AM TIRED OF WANNA BE FEMALES SAYING THEY ARE "SUBMISSIVE" BUT YET I SHOW DOMINANCE AND THEY DONT WANT TO TALK TO ME!!" You are not showing them dominance, you are just showing them crazy weirdo psycho soon to be stalker ex boyfriend. This is not a good look for you.

YOU CAN NOT CALL YOURSELF SUBMISSIVE BECAUSE YOU ARE NOT WILLING TO ACCEPT THE CARDS THAT YOU ARE DEALT AND YOU WANT TO BE MISS F"ING PICKY CHOOSE!! I think you will find people can call themselves anything they like, cowboy.

Frankly, it's just one big car crash. Start again, be nice, say what you are looking for and what you have to offer. And stop with the exclamation marks.

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RE: Question for For submissive females!! - 5/31/2011 3:44:23 AM   
crazyml


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Status: offline 		Oh arse. Now I'm compelled to go look

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RE: Question for For submissive females!! - 5/31/2011 3:46:21 AM   
LadyConstanze


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Status: offline 		I'm not submissive but I'm a woman, your profile basically screams "psychopath who whines a lot", I would stay away, add to that was the others have said here and you might have your answer.

You really want to change your profile, you're competing with a ton of guys who have a lot more advantages than you do, to be honest, I'm surprised that you are getting the ratio of replies you say you do.

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RE: Question for For submissive females!! - 5/31/2011 3:54:12 AM   
DeviantMan


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Status: offline 		what owned said, pretty much sums it all...

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