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ORIGINAL: YSG

LP, there were alot of people that were nice to me. There were also alot of people that knocked me around, so to speak (and there were times I deserved to be). What Im saying is, this guy asked what I would think is a harmless question. Im just saying, compare him to the wreck I was 5 years ago.

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ORIGINAL: SensualSub27

Lady C, I was just browsing through the forums and have noticed that a) You reply to a lot of threads (well I randomly looked at 3, and you replied in each occasion) and b) your messages are always so condescending, angry, and judgemental. If a male sub is going to use one of these website, to hopefully find a like minded partner, it would be perfectly reasonable to ask if female dommes are getting their inboxes flooded daily by other wannabe subs.

If female dommes are getting flooded it means that there is very little chance that they will even bother to read your message, let alone reply. You could be a perfect match, a completely genuine guy who would fulfill what she is looking for, but the fact that most will be getting so many messages makes it pointless. I have seen many profiles where the domme has written "don't be upset if I do not reply to you, I get thousands of messages a day". I think that the OP wanted to know if there are women out there who do not get that many messages, and whether they respond to any. If you are going to use a website, it is perfectly proper to know the state of play. We know that women don't respond to the douchebags that write stupid messages with grammatical errors, or are clearly looking for a cheap thrill. The point is that the potential of these websites is ruined bya lot of factors, mainly that female Dommes get flooded with messages. Other factors include women who are in it for money, or just a bit of attention seeking, and men pretending to be women.

The people who also baffle me are the forum posters like Lady C. They are "not looking for anyone" apparently, which begs the question "why are you even on this site". You must have a fulfilling relationship. If I was in a BDSM relationship, I would not be on this website. Further, what is the point of your comments? If you do not want to answer the question, then ignore it. I think that you value your opinion far too much, when it doesn't really have any substance to it. He was also looking for responses from Dommes that are on here "looking" for a sub. You could have answered with something a bit more sensible, like the poster who stated that she filtered out the obviously sad cases.

I'm not sure how his post could have offended you, but from your posts, it seems that you like to take offence to everything, and make a meal out of it. It's called the "alternative" lifestyle for more than one reason, and your attitude just seems very "vanilla". I would have serious doubts as to whether you were genuine.

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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

In other words, no better or worse than someone who wants to contribute to the thread just to complain about the way the people responded to it?

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ORIGINAL: lthrpup

If you don't like the topic, then try to clarify it or STFU! The message boards are practically unusable for all the irrelevant posts that basically amount to "I have nothing to add to this subject but I can't keep my fingers of the goddam keyboard."

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ORIGINAL: lthrpup
I received one message that simply said "tell me about you" from a woman I had previously noticed but never wrote to because I did not think we were compatible based on my evaluation of her profile. Apparently, she thought differently and took the initiative, which by the way, is not something unreasonable to expect of a dominant person. She tossed off a one-liner of the sort that would have been regarded as treachery if it was sent by a submissive man to a woman. Instead of being offended, I was thrilled to get it.

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ORIGINAL: SylvereApLeanan

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ORIGINAL: lthrpup

If you don't like the topic, then try to clarify it or STFU! The message boards are practically unusable for all the irrelevant posts that basically amount to "I have nothing to add to this subject but I can't keep my fingers off the goddam keyboard."

Kinda like this one.
 
Didn't we do this song and dance already?  Maybe you need a refresher course. 

http://www.collarchat.com/fb.asp?m=3708224

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"I've seen that a lot of female dommes and mistresses complain about how they are 'flooded' with messages...

So i just wanted to ask any female dommes on here, how many messages would you say you receive from subs a day?

I'm just curious really

I'm a male sub btw, and i almost always have to message the mistress first haha :p

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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

And that's one of your many fine qualities, Darling!

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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

Well yes, that you have an idea of your own worth as a person and a man, and don't leap at every tidbit of bait. It's really an attractive quality.