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RE: how to say no - 6/10/2011 5:44:53 PM

kalikshama

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ORIGINAL: sylorkitten

thanks that might work
I don't meet guys in private though I was at a party and he just stalked me and tried to pull me no matter what I said. after he put his hands on my hand I had to pin him

I just want to avoid it as much as possible

I think you handled it fine. This is not the norm at the BDSM parties I've been too. There's usually someone in charge of handling situations like this or someone who would love to step in.

Women should stop worrying about being "rude" to rude people. I was at a naked regatta and this guy kept pestering me. After I told him no politely several times, I yelled at him and he backed off. Several other women thanked me for doing that. (They'd been too polite.) While at the nude beach, my southern girlfriends also have more trouble deflecting unwanted male attention than I do. I'm from MA and served for 4 years in the military.

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RE: how to say no - 6/11/2011 2:37:13 PM

ladyspaz

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one of my favorites ways to tell someone who isn't accepting a simple no, is by becoming very direct and saying" I know what I'm looking for and you aren't it".

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RE: how to say no - 6/11/2011 4:11:44 PM

jbcurious

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When a polite no thank you doesn't work I've always enjoyed...

Q. Do you like sex?
A. YES
Q. Do you like travel?
A. YES

Then Fuck off (remember to smile sweetly over your shoulder as you walk away)

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'Smile... it's the second best thing to do with your lips.'

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