LillyBoPeep
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yeah, i don't really know what the "i like having sex in a variety of ways" thing has to do with how easy/cheap someone is. =p i'm nowhere NEAR easy or cheap. in fact i've only become more complicated and have even more self-esteem. i'm totally aware of my intelligence and that it's higher than a lot of other people. =p i'm totally aware that i'm worth a mint, and not going anywhere for someone who isn't similar. =p
unless we're talking about the nature of this person, as NS said, looking for random dates with random men. but even that's an assumption; you don't know what her criteria are. even if she revels in her 3-hole-sluttitude, maybe she only does it with CERTAIN men she knows very well, or after her Master has spent all the time he finds sufficient in screening people to make sure they're safe. you don't know that she's standing at the truck stop like a restaurant drive-thru. But even if she was, why does that matter? this is the exact attitude that makes people look the other way when a prostitute gets killed -- somehow sex still determines your value. a worthwhile woman only does it when i say so, a throw-away woman does it when she says so.
there is the tension often observed between "self-professed sluts," as Hannah called them, typically the "i'm not just 'anyone's' slut, i'm 'his' slut" sort (which is where i generally fall because, again, our reputations get hammered if we're anything but little miss "princess on the street, whore under the sheets") and those who are just flat out, unabashed sluts. but of course, no one said that kinky people would be any less judgmental than "regular" people. should they be? i don't know -- at the end of the day it's an issue of human nature. people are generally fine with everything they're doing, but bristle at similar behavior when done by someone else (without their stylish, self-serving justifications).
it's always hilariously hypocritical to hear guys say that they're totally willing to fuck anything easily, but they don't value anything they can fuck easily. it's also a bit pathetic. luckily for women everywhere, there are a lot of men who aren't like that anymore. a lot of times these "oh man, she's too much of a whore for me" sorts are the ones who DO the pursuing and pressuring, using all sorts of manipulative behavior in order to secure the fuckee, only to then throw her away after promising "it won't change the way i think of you, scout's honor!" =p personally, i have never had this experience, because i do tend to be leery of men (and there are reasons for it) and i generally pick the REALLY good ones. =p
i did fuck my previous M on our first real date (or well, we were going to, but his cock seriously wouldn't fit so it turned into a titty fuck till later =p), and i remember giggling and asking him "you won't think i'm a skank will you?" and he said "no," but he meant it. i became the most valuable thing in his life, because sex mattered to him, but it didn't automatically turn you into a whore, either. i have a boatload of fantastic qualities and as he got to know me, he realized who i am on the inside and that having sex with him actually meant there was something involved -- but this is all stuff you can't know from a profile if you're too judgmental to, oh i dunno, ACTUALLY GET TO KNOW SOMEONE.
i mean seriously, men are so insanely conceited to think that their overblown and often hypocritical standards SHOULD matter to women all over the world. it's so evolutionarily sensible to avoid the chick who's had sex with lots of people, well what about you? your dick has probably plumbed the depths of who knows HOW many vaginas, 1) but luckily for you, you have ridiculous double standards on your side, and 2) WOMEN CARE ABOUT STUFF THAT ACTUALLY MATTERS (for the most part). for some reason, people, even other women, have this perception that women "aren't supposed to do that," well why not? granted, with my personality and past, it's unlikely that i ever would become a totally free unabashed slut, but just because i won't, doesn't mean it may not actually be bad for someone else to be, especially when all the men you meet EVERYWHERE clearly are, too, and they seem to be doing okay. =p
as usual, men expect WAY more from us than they are willing to give themselves. even though i adore men, this is one of the things i absolutely CAN'T stand about them. their sense of entitlement, they clearly and undeniably deserve the most pristine, untouched vaginas -- just so they can be the ones to mess them up and throw them away. honestly, it's in our environmental and public policy, too. =p this is the attitude most men generally take towards the world around them and the people in it. "i deserve what i won't give." plain and simple. but again, luckily, all men aren't like that anymore.
Kana has an absolutely excellent point -- this is a "let he who is without sin" situation, clearly. =p I dunno what Awareness does in his spare time but i have a feeling he's into some stuff people think of as being "deviant." not that kinky people have lost rights to having standards, certainly not, but i think MOST people, kinky or otherwise, need to deal with their own house before they go staring at, assessing, and griping about the houses of others. you do what you do behind closed doors and you want the people in the know to accept that about you. would you, mr. Awareness, get involved with someone who didn't accept certain things about you? probably not! so how is it so wrong for this unabashed slut woman to expect the same? oh yeah, she's a woman. =p
GET OVER YOURSELF.
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