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Samwhiplash -> Where are all the true subs? (5/14/2006 10:03:22 AM)
Ive been a member of collarme for months and months now. Being one of a very small handful of Dommes in Ireland... I get a good amount of emails from Irish subs..... but the Irish sub standard is very poor. The majority of emails I get are do-me lists (even tho I clearly outline that I am looking for a LTR and dont play casually), and the people with these sub profiles are not sub at all - just guys looking for kinky sex. Where are all the true subs hiding? Maybe in other countries?

Sab -> RE: Where are all the true subs? (5/14/2006 10:05:42 AM)
Mines home in Canada - and you can't have her. ;)

mistoferin -> RE: Where are all the true subs? (5/14/2006 10:07:24 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Samwhiplash Where are all the true subs hiding? Maybe in other countries? Well of course all of the "true" subs are in Truesubtopia....have you tried doing a search there?

cuddleheart50 -> RE: Where are all the true subs? (5/14/2006 10:14:32 AM)
True sub here, but not looking for a Mistress..

theRose4U -> RE: Where are all the true subs? (5/14/2006 10:19:38 AM)
The true subs are serving the true, pure and poster child of dom's in fantasy land. What you believe a sub should be is very individual. Instead of waiting around for them to fall on your doorstep why not launch a search of your own...locally. Munches, local sites and groups heck I've had some success finding nillas with the inclination and raising my own subs.

gooddogbenji -> RE: Where are all the true subs? (5/14/2006 10:29:53 AM)
Maybe you should write to the Truifying Institute of Submission of Ireland about their sinking standards. Maybe their courses are not teaching the material properly, maybe their marketing is not so good. We had the same issue a few days ago in New Mexico, and the Counsel of New Mexican Truity in Submission managed to rectify it within hours. Or we stopped listening to the person bitching about it. I don't remember which it ended up being. Anyway, perhaps the best strategy is to whine about it on public forums to people who are powerless to do anything about your imagined problem, and if they did have the power to change it, they would probably still tell you to suck it up. Let me know how it works out for you! Yours, benji

cuddleheart50 -> RE: Where are all the true subs? (5/14/2006 10:38:39 AM)
Benji, I would love to see what you look like.

MstrssPassion -> RE: Where are all the true subs? (5/14/2006 10:43:55 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Samwhiplash but the <snip> standard is very poor. The majority of emails I get are do-me lists <snip> not sub at all - just guys looking for kinky sex. Where are all the true subs hiding? Maybe in other countries? Nope... things aren't any different on this side of the Big Pond!

gooddogbenji -> RE: Where are all the true subs? (5/14/2006 10:46:16 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: cuddleheart50 Benji, I would love to see what you look like. Do I get a reason, or just for shits and giggles? Cuz you know, either way, it'll be a fake pic (I'm actually a 74 year old woman from Denmark) Yours, benji

MistressLorelei -> RE: Where are all the true subs? (5/14/2006 10:53:09 AM)
I think all the true subs ran off with the true Mistresses who apparently used to frequent the place. The not true subs are complaining about finding only not true Dommes here. I am thinking that in reality... this place doesn't truly exist. The sincere subs are out there... sprinkled amongst the ones who aren't so sincere. They certainly all aren't hiding out easy to find in the country I live in (US). Many of us are looking for a needle in a haystack... but luckily, many do find that rare and wonderful submisisve 'needle'. Good luck.... and feel free to swat the Benji dog in the meantime... he likes it... and most certainly deserves it.

windchymes -> RE: Where are all the true subs? (5/14/2006 10:53:51 AM)
I knew it!!!! Bring it on, Grandma![:D] (Aw dammit.....MistressLorelei sneaked in ahead of me....that was in reply to gooddogbenji's last post!)

Ariel -> RE: Where are all the true subs? (5/14/2006 10:54:31 AM)
Ouch... a puppy with a bite... [;)]

gooddogbenji -> RE: Where are all the true subs? (5/14/2006 11:00:49 AM)
Alright, I'll post one if someone tells me how. Yours, benji

catize -> RE: Where are all the true subs? (5/14/2006 11:08:24 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: gooddogbenji Maybe you should write to the Truifying Institute of Submission of Ireland about their sinking standards. Maybe their courses are not teaching the material properly, maybe their marketing is not so good. We had the same issue a few days ago in New Mexico, and the Counsel of New Mexican Truity in Submission managed to rectify it within hours. Or we stopped listening to the person bitching about it. I don't remember which it ended up being. Anyway, perhaps the best strategy is to whine about it on public forums to people who are powerless to do anything about your imagined problem, and if they did have the power to change it, they would probably still tell you to suck it up. Let me know how it works out for you! Yours, benji I am a graduate of the Very Real and Truly True Community College of Submission. The profs all had their RRDD's (Really Really Dominating Diplomas). I got my degree in submission, but flunked the boards. I missed it by one question, which was 'how do you define the term 'true submissive' and give 5 examples".

feastie -> RE: Where are all the true subs? (5/14/2006 11:20:51 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Samwhiplash Ive been a member of collarme for months and months now. Being one of a very small handful of Dommes in Ireland... I get a good amount of emails from Irish subs..... but the Irish sub standard is very poor. The majority of emails I get are do-me lists (even tho I clearly outline that I am looking for a LTR and dont play casually), and the people with these sub profiles are not sub at all - just guys looking for kinky sex. Where are all the true subs hiding? Maybe in other countries? Your profile shows you joined on October 5, 2005. That's seven months, which, in the scheme of things, is hardly any time at all. Sorry, there isn't such a thing as a true sub, there's just a submissive person out there somewhere that fits your needs...but...even worse, they don't sell Insta-sub. Patience, patience.

cuddleheart50 -> RE: Where are all the true subs? (5/14/2006 11:28:47 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: gooddogbenji Alright, I'll post one if someone tells me how. Yours, benji On pins and needles, waiting to see a pic of you.

windchymes -> RE: Where are all the true subs? (5/14/2006 11:29:14 AM)
------even worse, they don't sell Insta-sub.------ Now here's something that we could invent.....Insta-sub....like sea monkeys. We could make millions!

TemptingNviceSub -> RE: Where are all the true subs? (5/14/2006 11:30:20 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Samwhiplash Ive been a member of collarme for months and months now. Being one of a very small handful of Dommes in Ireland... I get a good amount of emails from Irish subs..... but the Irish sub standard is very poor. The majority of emails I get are do-me lists (even tho I clearly outline that I am looking for a LTR and dont play casually), and the people with these sub profiles are not sub at all - just guys looking for kinky sex. Where are all the true subs hiding? Maybe in other countries? ....I have kidnapped the one "true" male sub!..I got tired of being compared to such magnificience!!!..now all Dom/mes must make do with all of us fakes and wannabes!!!....lalalalalala.......Tempting

Wulfchyld -> RE: Where are all the true subs? (5/14/2006 11:45:36 AM)
Sam, you are going to get such a spanking on this thread. I will just go ahead and state the obvious... you are looking for sub men. The greatest obstacle in your path isn’t the sub part it is the man part. You’re looking for a very unique individual that for the most part would have to be “eunuch” to be what you are wanting. It is very hard to escape that sex drive for men and you are just going to have to wade through the HNG’s and get real specific on the sexual aspect in your profile and patiently wait for a servile submissive as opposed to all the sexual submissive men you have been getting.

jamesthehumanrug -> RE: Where are all the true subs? (5/14/2006 12:18:40 PM)
dear honarable misstress/ gddss.whiplash, my most -humble greetings, on mothers day; permission to speak; *what's you're location !?!*

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