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RE: Was i out of line? - 6/16/2011 8:32:51 PM

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LadyH!
I did offer you a free lunch!

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RE: Was i out of line? - 6/16/2011 8:33:59 PM

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There is no free lunch! But LMK if you're out my way on a Friday, when the office is closed :)

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RE: Was i out of line? - 6/16/2011 9:07:01 PM

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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

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ORIGINAL: VaguelyCurious

Do that and you'll stand out. It'll take you longer than copy/pasting a single line about how beautiful she is, but it's worth the effort.

Me, I compliment them on their furniture and decor in the background. That works especially well if they're showing their tits in their pictures. No worries.

And that is true rather the woman is dominant or submissive.

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RE: Was i out of line? - 6/16/2011 9:57:17 PM

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ORIGINAL: bradshaw123
ex: here is a good example of the type of financial sub i want to be: If i had a local domme, i would serve her has a chauffeur, drive her all around town where ever she needed to go.. and while she was out shopping, i would pick her up treats, and get her gifts. Gas alone driving around town for a while costs like 10-15 bucks, and all the treats i would buy her would add up too.

There is nothing wrong with this, when in a relationship.

At the beginning, of getting to know a lady, simply ask her out for coffee, lunch, dinner, or meet at a cafe, if you can't afford lunch/dinner. I would avoid any mention of financial in your notes, or profiles. When/if you find someone, you want to be with, and she wants to be with you, submit in any, and every way you desire. Obviously, never give more than you can afford to lose.

There is no best domme advice on here, unless it is advice of someone you're interested in. Otherwise, go with your instinct, and common sense.
Good luck, and welcome to the boards. M

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RE: Was i out of line? - 6/17/2011 9:42:27 PM

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Thanks all! This is an amazing community on here, everyone is so friendly, and helpful. I have learned a lot in the past 2 days, and have already made many mistakes, but hey everyone's got to start somewhere right.
I feel very welcomed on this board and am going to continue posting and trying to become a part of this community.

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RE: Was i out of line? - 6/17/2011 10:00:51 PM

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LOL! I'm glad to hear it! Have fun, and don't be afraid to make a mistake. Most women are very understanding :)

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RE: Was i out of line? - 6/17/2011 10:13:48 PM

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I was talking to a dominant woman (or so i thought) threw private messages.

Me: I started off by sending her a message saying how beautiful she was, and asking her if she wanted to chat to see if we made a good match.

Her: She replied telling me i had to send a picture, and pretty much she wanted me to be a financial slave

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In big, red letters, the site has a warning that says, "DO NOT SEND MONEY TO OTHER USERS FOR ANY REASON." They really can't make it any plainer than that.

This is pretty much it, my friend.

In my experience on Collar Me, there are 10 of these "women" for every submissive man.

Many today, believe they can masqurade online, and pick up $$$$$$ from unsuspecting males.

Like you!

My advise to you is, read the boards, learn, and then you can tell who is real and who is fake.

And BTW ... LP is VERY CREDIBLE in Her advice! (LP is the second quote)

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RE: Was i out of line? - 6/17/2011 11:01:49 PM

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anyone else find this hilarious?

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RE: Was i out of line? - 6/17/2011 11:31:00 PM

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What are you trying to say?

I think your mask is hilarious ... but what do you find funny?

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RE: Was i out of line? - 6/18/2011 12:28:35 AM

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ORIGINAL: Karthorn

anyone else find this hilarious?

Nah. Dude asked a polite question, listened to the answer, learned some stuff, and is going to stick around. What's not to love?

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RE: Was i out of line? - 6/18/2011 12:32:28 AM

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great attitude Bradshaw

We all make mistakes, and if we learn from them and accept with grace that we've made a mistake, then that makes us someone who's welcome to hang out and have fun. Online is like the real world in that way.

Whiners and blowhards on the other hand....lol

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RE: Was i out of line? - 6/18/2011 1:18:12 AM

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ORIGINAL: Karthorn

anyone else find this hilarious?

Since this is one of those times where the "in reply to" designation is obviously not being used in chronological order, maybe if you tell Me which of My comments you found so hilarious as to make the remark, I'll gladly provide you the information which will explain what I was serious about.

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RE: Was i out of line? - 6/18/2011 12:09:55 PM

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