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RE: Question about "leashes"? - 8/3/2006 8:40:45 AM

thetammyjo

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We only use a leash on Fox when we are at events like a convention and we use it as a sign that we are together. It helps him settle down and be calmer early on and gives me a nice jolt of pride -- check out this hot thing I own!

We usually take it off after a half hour or so.

I used it at home during training but that was almost 7 years ago and we're so settled into our life here now that I'd only use it for fun.

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RE: Question about "leashes"? - 8/3/2006 2:17:42 PM

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ORIGINAL: juliaoceania

I have not had a leash used on me in play. I have never been collared either, and a leash denotes ownership in my mind. I have many fantasies about leashes though. I have this one fantasy in which I am wearing a black latex outfit with fishnet stocking, my hair curly and bright red lipstick with 6 inch heels... I would look rather freakish being led on a leash in this outfit in my mind because with 6 inch heels I would be 6 foot 4,..... kinda makes my exhibitionist heart beat a little faster and harder just to contemplate that....lol. So now everyone knows my favorite leash fantasy (I know...TMI)

TMI? Not at all...

...is it hot in here?

Hope that's one you get to indulge.

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RE: Question about "leashes"? - 8/3/2006 2:27:27 PM

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ORIGINAL: Lisa976

i am new to the D/s world, but am learning slowly,,,,,however there is one thing that i am having a very hard time with,,,,my Sir has mentioned a few times about having me on a leash at certain times in play,,,i define myself as a sub and NOT a slave and to me the idea of a leash makes me feel like i am just property or a dog,,which i am neither,,,so for my sanity and to please Him i am trying to figure this out,,,so here is the question do you use a leash in play and if so do you ever feel degraded (in a way not meant to be)? or are you proud of being lead around by your Sir/Master??

Though your question appears to be directed at other submissives/slaves, I hope you will not mind me giving my opinion.

I like using leashes. The reasons can vary from humiliation to an indication to her as to who is in control and who is being led to an exhibition of her to others. For some, it can be one reason or it can be many why they choose to fasten a leash on to their submissive/have one fastened on by their dominant.

You and your dominant have to discuss the issue and then, when it has been thoroughly discussed, you have to decide if this is a full-out deal breaker or if not, a hard limit, or something you can learn to like and if not like, at least appreciate in terms of what it does for him.

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