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ORIGINAL: PatrickG38





I have produced this list as a Public Service to help those on here who sre sincere, enjoy:


Easy Tells:

The girl violates the laws of physics. This describes about thirty percent of profiles. That she’s 5’4” and 60 lbs should be a warning.

Don't forget that not everyone uses the same measuring system that is used in the US (which is where CM is based).  Not everyone thinks to do the conversion.

The race and photo do not match. The number of blond, blue eyed, fair skinned native and African-Americans is fascinating.

Not all folks who are identfied as tribefolks fit the stereotypes. Also, since I have yet to see an option listed as "white African", it seems to be default setting.

There is an email address in the profile. No one serious would broadcast such information.

Nobody who is net savvy.  Not everyone is.

The phrase "retire from the lifestyle" is in the profile. Being in this life style is not like being a bus driver where you leave after twenty years.

If, after the time I have been involved in WIIWD, I decide to take a break, or stop entirely, retire is as good a word as any.


More challenging Tells:

Conflicting interests. If you see a girl who ‘lives for’ intellectual discourse and astrology, that is a warning. If you see spanking as a hard limit, she probably is not too serious about the lifestyle. A lot can be learned from the interests list.

So, someone with many and varied interests is a fake?  As is someone  who has experienced spanking and finds it not to their taste?

There are significant grammatical or spelling errors in her profile. Remember, she is supposed to be a woman, and women are usually careful. This is a good sign you are dealing with a man.

Or a woman who is dyslexic, or less educated.

She expresses an interest in cock photographs. If she does, you are talking to a gay man.

Or a woman who enjoys viewing cockshots.. there are many who do
 
 

On her profile or within thirty seconds of communicating, you have received pornographic photographs. Truly tasteful erotic photographs do not automatically indicate a fake, but pornographic photos provided very quickly are a giveaway.

Or, she could be an indiscriminate exhibitionist

She looks like she could pass for a supermodel. While I know it is challenging for supermodels to find straight dominant men in the fashion industry, most have not turned to collarme so they can serve you without limit.

Or she wasnt comfortable using her own pics for whatever reason and opted to use random photos of gorgeous women as avatars

Potentially difficult tells:

She thinks it is cool you are over thirty and live with your mom. She does not.

well, if you tell her that you're living with mom because mom isnt well/is having financial issues/lives in a bad neighborhood/ or you've been downsized why WOULDNT she think you're cool?  Especially in this economic climate?

She thinks it is cool you are over thirty and still go to Star Trek conventions. She does not.

What if it's something she's into as well?


Obviously this is very incomplete and I would hope there will be numerous additions.







She wants to be a slave, but she lists she is actively seeking switch males. Does this really make sense to you?

sure, why not? I see no problem with a sub/slave wanting to get her top on!






I hope this helps separate the wheat from the chaff. There are some wonderful girls on here, but there are swimming in an ocean of frauds.

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ORIGINAL: PatrickG38

There is an email address in the profile. No one serious would broadcast such information.

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The phrase "retire from the lifestyle" is in the profile. Being in this life style is not like being a bus driver where you leave after twenty years.

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There are significant grammatical or spelling errors in her profile. Remember, she is supposed to be a woman, and women are usually careful. This is a good sign you are dealing with a man.

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She looks like she could pass for a supermodel. While I know it is challenging for supermodels to find straight dominant men in the fashion industry, most have not turned to collarme so they can serve you without limit.

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ORIGINAL: MsLadySue

Yes you were and I am mightily impressed. Just goes to show I can be wrong too.

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ORIGINAL: PatrickG38

LOL. It's a guide. I am sure there can be certain exceptions as with any guide, but I would point out that feet, inches and pounds are the same everywhere. Now if someone listed 60 kgs, that is a different story.

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ORIGINAL: mnottertail

Seth has money which I understand looks alot like love.

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ORIGINAL: PatrickG38

LOL. It's a guide. I am sure there can be certain exceptions as with any guide, but I would point out that feet, inches and pounds are the same everywhere. Now if someone listed 60 kgs, that is a different story.

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There are significant grammatical or spelling errors in her profile. Remember, she is supposed to be a woman, and women are usually careful. This is a good sign you are dealing with a man.