Missokyst
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The only thing the 60's did for me was make it seem like everyone was having sex and like it or not, they wanted me to join in. Taking the pill at my age was not going to happen. The pill was not a factor in my life because I didn't start taking it till I met the man I was going to marry, in 1970. I did take it for a short while during my engagement and the first few months in my marriage, then I got pregnant. Second child was the result of a condom which slipped off during some rough sex. My third child happened because my husband wanted a son.. and then he left me about 6 months later for a nice Christian woman because I would not choose to be "reborn". So there I was in the 70's, divorced, with 3 kids, no child support, no alimony and working to keep things afloat. This is what a lot of us did back then, and 3 kids or not, I was not going to stay in that marriage. The pill, the kids, the necessity of finding a job were all just part of tough choices to be made.
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pain is the breaking of the shell that encloses your understanding ~Gibran, Kahlil “The truth is, everyone is going to hurt you. You just got to find the ones worth suffering for.” ― Bob Marley
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