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RE: I Admit It I........ - 7/8/2011 8:17:57 PM   
SimplyMichael


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Sounded boring until SimplyMichael talked about it


I do have my moments! Thanks for making my day!

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RE: I Admit It I........ - 7/8/2011 8:32:26 PM   
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It would be hard to tell that he was playing with toys with my eyes blindfolded, and me falling asleep.


oh Des, imagine if, while blindfolded you hear the unmistakable sound of a scene being prepared with a hard limit, say fireplay, or the sounds of two people? The sound of a blowtorch? Or strange ominous sounds you can't identify?

Or you lay a thick pad over her and beat her hard, mocking her she can't feel a thing.

I love the creativity required to make this hot. You really have to know your woman's buttons in order to make this work and it takes creativity to turn them on their head and still make it hot!

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RE: I Admit It I........ - 7/8/2011 8:36:07 PM   
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I love the creativity required to make this hot. You really have to know your woman's buttons in order to make this work and it takes creativity to turn them on their head and still make it hot!


so true!


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RE: I Admit It I........ - 7/9/2011 12:54:19 AM   
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Status: offline 		well it is possible to a point and i may get haranged for this lol. if you are good at using the bodies natural energy and your girl is very open to feeling it then seh will feel your energy. i think to make her cum you will both have to have an extremly good connection though . and you may need to talk to ehr to reinforce it also working up to it slowly but you need to be able to use energy to make it work

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RE: I Admit It I........ - 7/9/2011 7:14:02 AM   
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@op, i like your style.

This wouldn't work for a first date, but tease and denial can be hot. There are lots of ways to play with this and just to show Jeff what a pervert i am...

Making her lie there while you go through the motions of almost kissing her lips, pretending to blow softly on her naked flesh, of playing with her favorite toys.

Keep her thighs apart so she can't squeeze them and slowly pleasure yourself but when you are about to cum, step out of her vision, then shoot your load on the floor and as you finally speak, you simply order her to lick the mess up and if you did it right you can tell the little whore good girls cum while tasting their owners seed.

You could also whisper in her ear that she can't cum, that you are inspecting her body, and examine her closely, only touching her to expose her more, treating her like an art object. Take a pad and write and draw things about her, study her intently then write furiously.

Call someone and describe a hot scene the two of you did as if she isn't there.

Blindfold her and blow scent on her, your manly smell, the scent of leather latex and blood.

Just a couple ideas i tossed off.



I need a cigarette now.

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RE: Less is MORE! The Keys to Doing MORE with Less? - 7/9/2011 10:13:07 AM   
HisPet21


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Status: offline 		I agree with LillyBoPeep: that it has its place in an arsenal of other fun play. But it can be really fun! My So does this too me ALL the time...I think he likes frustrating me with almost kisses, barely touches, and slight spanks. Sometimes he'll just run his fingers lightly down my spine till I shiver all over. I think he does it cause he likes to hear me beg for more and then attack him after I can't take the unbearable "there and not there" anymore, until I am like..."Dammit! Quit teasing! You will fuck me now!"

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Don't believe them. I cause women to orgasm right and left merely by entering a forum.


Laughed my ass off!

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RE: Less is MORE! The Keys to Doing MORE with Less? - 7/9/2011 10:24:19 AM   
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...tie a girl naked to the bed blindfolded and then spends a LONG Long time barely touching her.



Terrific... a great way for said "girl" to get some sleep -- booooooooooooooooring. 



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RE: I Admit It I........ - 7/9/2011 11:59:06 AM   
leadership527


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There are lots of ways to play with this and just to show Jeff what a pervert i am...

ROFL... and this is exactly the area where you have my undying respect. You're a freakin artist sometimes.


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RE: I Admit It I........ - 7/9/2011 12:11:14 PM   
SimplyMichael


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ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael
There are lots of ways to play with this and just to show Jeff what a pervert i am...

ROFL... and this is exactly the area where you have my undying respect. You're a freakin artist sometimes.



Thanks Jeff! I miss stopping by for coffee in the morning, those were fun times! We need to catch up, there are some cool and interesting changes going on in my life and I have always valued your perspective on those things. As for this perversion stuff, I am good but I am far from unique, I heard a good one about reading stories the other day that I stole from someone as it was too good not to.

Anyway, say hi to Carol for me and I look forward to hanging poolside looking down on the little people in LA at Chez Merc's sometime soon!

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RE: Less is MORE! The Keys to Doing MORE with Less? - 7/10/2011 12:31:51 PM   
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Has anyone else explored  making a girl cum with just their  nearness?


Another idea that is close but violates the intent a bit, utilizing a Pavlovian reaction to the sound of their vibrator when they were insane with lust and their cunts dripping would probably push some over the edge as well...

I haven't had as much fun in a thread in ages!

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RE: Less is MORE! The Keys to Doing MORE with Less? - 7/10/2011 1:39:08 PM   
fantasy69maker


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Status: offline 		Its about sensation and focus . Ive found I can cause a girl to cum with the barest of touches from just a finger tip. I'm looking for ways to explore even LESS than that. The pressure of my breath, the heat of my body, another thing Ive found is  that simply being  close to her with various body parts can cause the hair on  our bodies to attract each other without touching and she can feel the movement. I'm also thinking along the lines of scents and of course sounds.
But I'm open to the experiences of others.

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RE: Less is MORE! The Keys to Doing MORE with Less? - 7/10/2011 1:43:46 PM   
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ORIGINAL: fantasy69maker

...tie a girl naked to the bed blindfolded and then spends a LONG Long time barely touching her.



Terrific... a great way for said "girl" to get some sleep -- booooooooooooooooring. 




LOL Ive never had that problem! Perhaps  your girl just isnt paying attention?

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RE: I Admit It I........ - 7/10/2011 5:23:25 PM   
DesFIP


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oh Des, imagine if, while blindfolded you hear the unmistakable sound of a scene being prepared with a hard limit, say fireplay, or the sounds of two people? The sound of a blowtorch? Or strange ominous sounds you can't identify?


I'm not someone who gets off on mindfucks. Either I trust that he won't violate a hard limit at which point I don't get upset or if I do believe he's going to do that, then I'll call red and trust gets set back a lot and needs to be re-earned, if I'm willing to continue seeing him again.


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RE: I Admit It I........ - 7/10/2011 11:53:22 PM   
myotherself


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I'm not someone who gets off on mindfucks. Either I trust that he won't violate a hard limit at which point I don't get upset or if I do believe he's going to do that, then I'll call red and trust gets set back a lot and needs to be re-earned, if I'm willing to continue seeing him again.



What Des said. My hard limits are there for a reason - they are not a mindfuck option. He just has to threaten me with them and I call Red and out I go.

In my pre-BDSM days I had relationships with guys who were excellent lovers. They did the whole blindfold/stroking/breathing thing...and despite the fact they were as hot as hell, I wasn't. For me, it's all about physical sensation. Intense physical sensation. Hell, I can't cum if there isn't a bruise somewhere on my body, lol!

Maybe that makes me freaky, I dunno. But it's something about myself that I identified after many, many years of boring sex and gentle lovers. It's not that I don't enjoy gentle lovemaking at times - I do. I like the closeness and the feeling of comfort it gives. But I'm not going to orgasm.




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RE: Less is MORE! The Keys to Doing MORE with Less? - 7/11/2011 7:30:00 AM   
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Don't believe them. I cause women to orgasm right and left merely by entering a forum.

Yeah, I've had over 50 in just the last hour.


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