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RE: Would you gain weight? - 8/2/2011 3:11:08 PM

WinsomeDefiance

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I don't really want to get into a lot of details, or speculation of what-ifs, because then it gets messy and veers off into that potential keg of dynamite that are based off of debates regarding sub vs slave, doormat/not a doormat etc.

All I can say is, without contemplating all the what-ifs and other hypothetical land mines that litter this topic; given what the original poster asked, and taking my tendency to concede to my partners wishes (yes, even in the past to my own detriment) my answer was yes. IF (HUGE leap of faith there) I ever committed again to a power exchange relationship, and I was the bottom half, I'd be obeying. If he wanted me to gain 10 pounds I would. If he wanted me to lose 10 pounds I would.

If he turned out to be a toy-breaking, fat-fiending troglodyte - well, I'd have to make a decision to relocate to a different zip code in another alternate reality. Wouldn't be the first time.

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RE: Would you gain weight? - 8/2/2011 3:24:03 PM

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Winsome: I understand your point. I actually expected more people to say yes because, in my mind, of course you would gain weight if your Master told you to. Otherwise they would not be your Master. However, I also understand that people define terms very differently and draw limits in very different places. I would gain weight if Master ever expressed his wish for me to do so. However, I could never make that choice for myself and I know it would take a lot of work from both of us for it to happen. Master would literally have to re-program me to have a lifestyle in which I gained weight, but I would submit to whatever was required to make it happen. Happily, I am in a relationship where things like "a slight preferrence for some fluff" in no way outweight Master's consideration for my mental and physical health. He is very proud of me for being in such good shape and has been inspired to join me in my morning work-outs. I think weight is a trigger issue for a lot of us, much like shaving your head is for most people, and that's why I posed the question. To see how it hit different subs.

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RE: Would you gain weight? - 8/2/2011 3:52:57 PM

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Ya know there are things that Master has discussed wanting to change in me, on me, personality-wise and physically. Some could possibly be detrimental to me..I don't know until it actually happens. I'm not thrilled with all the plans he has for me but that's ok because I'm his slave. He is my Master. It's what I signed up for. If I didn't want him as my Master I would not have chosen him.

I get the "no I would never do that" from others on here but I also would not call it an M/s relationship...D/s maybe but not M/s.

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RE: Would you gain weight? - 8/3/2011 3:54:15 AM

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That's why i don't consider myself that much a slave material.
Such a command would cause me quite a headache. It conflicts with my mindset that i HAVE to keep myself in a good form no matter what. And i do know, that i can be really illogical in regard to this. ( For example, i'm really pissed off at myself every time i happen to get a lil bit of scar on my skin. >.< ) Some people say that i'm a perfectionist too, and it isn't that far away from the truth.
If it would be for health reason, then i would.
If my body image would complement my master that way better, then i would. ( Although i can't really see this happening. )

Maybe i just need more obedience training. :'|
Or just consider me a freakish by-product of today's media.

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