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RE: Daddy/Little Girl or Daughter - 7/18/2011 1:17:42 PM   
angelikaJ


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I guess I don't get up to this part of the boards enough anymore, because I didn't know that there is a discussion like this every couple of months.

But a fantasy is a fantasy, nothing more. Some people want their fantasies to be reality. I've made several of my fantasies real. But the really taboo ones need to stay as fantasies for me. So yeah, sometimes when I am having sex, I like to fantasize that something different is happening, because that just makes everything hotter, but that doesn't mean that I want that fantasy to come true.

And I don't understand how someone having a fantasy can be disgusting. It's only going on in one's head & isn't going to affect anyone else at all. But I suppose there are people who would like to be thought police. Hmmmmm.....

ETA: Interesting discussion. Maybe I should come up here more often.


Rape fantasy has nothing to do with actual rape.
Incest fantasy has nothing to do with actual incest.

As mentioned before: I have a Master. He is my Owner. He is my Daddy.
Daddy is part of who and what He is to me.
I like that nurturing aspect of him which is responding to His sweet girl.

For us it is not incest play.

There is plenty of room for YKINMK here.
The only objections that have been raised were when things were moved from something being the major part of individual experience and translated it to the majority of all experience.

No one can disagree with individual experience and I don't see anyone attempting to do that.



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RE: Daddy/Little Girl or Daughter - 7/18/2011 1:26:45 PM   
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Status: offline 		What I read was one poster saying that another's fantasy/roleplay was "disgusting". That's what I what I was referring to. I hope that most people are aware of the difference between fantasy & reality. And the fantasies that some people we are involved with that are never spoken might be quite surprising!! I found a huge porn collection in my ex-husband's bathroom & I had had no idea he had those fantasies. And that's all they were, fantasies. And they would always remain only fantasies for him & me too.

I love fantasies!! One can really get down & dirty & imagine stuff that one would never consider actually doing in real life. One time I was actually raped & I felt very traumatized by it. Within a couple of weeks, however, I had turned it into an erotic fantasy & moved on with my life. I still have rape fantasies & enjoy rape play. But the reality was horrific!!

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RE: Daddy/Little Girl or Daughter - 7/18/2011 5:23:38 PM   
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Status: offline 		What I find interesting is by some, I'm labeled as "sick" for an incest fantasy I want to play out with an adult girl when there's people that want to get shit on or puked on....scat play or whatever. I label these people as way more fucked up than I am. Just sayin....need to place things in proper perspective.

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RE: Daddy/Little Girl or Daughter - 7/18/2011 5:26:57 PM   
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RE: Daddy/Little Girl or Daughter - 7/18/2011 7:14:14 PM   
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What I find interesting is by some, I'm labeled as "sick" for an incest fantasy I want to play out with an adult girl when there's people that want to get shit on or puked on....scat play or whatever. I label these people as way more fucked up than I am. Just sayin....need to place things in proper perspective.


Why label anyone fucked up?  Truth is, we're human. We're all fucked up in one way or another.  Is there a contest I didn't know about?


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RE: Daddy/Little Girl or Daughter - 7/18/2011 7:20:10 PM   
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What I find interesting is by some, I'm labeled as "sick" for an incest fantasy I want to play out with an adult girl when there's people that want to get shit on or puked on....scat play or whatever. I label these people as way more fucked up than I am. Just sayin....need to place things in proper perspective.


Why label anyone fucked up?  Truth is, we're human. We're all fucked up in one way or another.  Is there a contest I didn't know about?



Hear!! Hear!!! I have great difficulty with people who say "Don't tell me my kink is fucked up when yours is the one that's really fucked up." I'm sure that I've done things & fantasized about things & plan to do things that someone somewhere will think is sick & twisted. But if you want acceptance for your kink, you might start with accepting others'. Sort of like charity beginning at home, captnkurk

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RE: Daddy/Little Girl or Daughter - 7/18/2011 7:26:21 PM   
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in another thread, i edited a "*gag*" out of a post because i didn't want to be misunderstood as gagging at the fantasy, when i was irritated by the person. =p
fantasies are just that; fantasies. they are not always a reflection of reality, and if you take the time to get to know someone you can generally see where that person draws the line.
i DO believe that there are some people into ageplay as a way to keep "illegal desires" under wraps. but i also believe that some people are into it just because there are taboo aspects of it and fiddling with the taboo is what turns them on.

i don't intend to ever "live" in an ageplay situation, but to me, it's just another kind of roleplay, and honestly, i consider a 40 year old woman roleplaying as a 17 year old cheerleader to be ageplay, too. i've done it before and it was fun, but i'm not seriously into it; it's not a definer for my relationships, even though i self-identify as a "little girl." that's just a "get to know me and you'll see what i mean" type of thing. =p


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RE: Daddy/Little Girl or Daughter - 7/18/2011 7:47:45 PM   
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There are fantasies and kinks out there that squick me out, but I have no problem with OTHER people enjoying them as long as they aren't forced on ME. What I do have a problem with is people making sweeping incorrect generalizations about my kinks just because said kink doesn't turn THEM on. We all get enough bullshit from the vanilla public about it without other kinksters getting all high and mighty and judgmental. Plus always/never statements are rarely if ever accurate. More sweeping and incorrect generalizing and the product of a closed and ignorant mind.

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RE: Daddy/Little Girl or Daughter - 7/18/2011 8:36:12 PM   
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Status: offline 		Good Luck Captnkurk

Some of these yahoo's forget where they come from. Help those who ask a honest question on the lifestyle not being mean.


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RE: Daddy/Little Girl or Daughter - 7/18/2011 8:48:41 PM   
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RE: Daddy/Little Girl or Daughter - 7/18/2011 8:58:44 PM   
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Good Luck Captnkurk

Some of these yahoo's forget where they come from. Help those who ask a honest question on the lifestyle not being mean.




Interesting first post. I guess you have been lurking so you can make an assumptive statement like that. And where do these "yahoos" come from? I guess you think they come from a place where no one is allowed to have a difference of opinion.

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RE: Daddy/Little Girl or Daughter - 7/18/2011 9:31:15 PM   
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Good Luck Captnkurk

Some of these yahoo's forget where they come from. Help those who ask a honest question on the lifestyle not being mean.




Interesting first post. I guess you have been lurking so you can make an assumptive statement like that. And where do these "yahoos" come from? I guess you think they come from a place where no one is allowed to have a difference of opinion.


I'm just hoping I'm one of the yahoo's. It has a catchy ring to it.

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RE: Daddy/Little Girl or Daughter - 7/18/2011 9:35:54 PM   
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RE: Daddy/Little Girl or Daughter - 7/18/2011 9:41:06 PM   
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LOL. I like how you already adopted it as your sig line.


Me too


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RE: Daddy/Little Girl or Daughter - 7/18/2011 11:41:04 PM   
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Status: offline 		lol....I love it!! Yes, you are right. We all are in one way or another. But getting shit on and eating shit in the literal sense?? That IS fucked up anyway you look at it!! Sorry, a far cry from a rape or incest fantasy IMO.....

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ORIGINAL: NuevaVida

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ORIGINAL: captnkurk

What I find interesting is by some, I'm labeled as "sick" for an incest fantasy I want to play out with an adult girl when there's people that want to get shit on or puked on....scat play or whatever. I label these people as way more fucked up than I am. Just sayin....need to place things in proper perspective.


Why label anyone fucked up?  Truth is, we're human. We're all fucked up in one way or another.  Is there a contest I didn't know about?



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RE: Daddy/Little Girl or Daughter - 7/18/2011 11:44:32 PM   
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Status: offline 		I was attacked the first second after I opened this thread. But I can handle it. I'm having fun actually. All these ladies are nice. We all have strong opinions....

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Good Luck Captnkurk

Some of these yahoo's forget where they come from. Help those who ask a honest question on the lifestyle not being mean.





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RE: Daddy/Little Girl or Daughter - 7/19/2011 12:38:11 AM   
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i don't mind being one of the yahoos. =p


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RE: Daddy/Little Girl or Daughter - 7/19/2011 6:43:56 AM   
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lol....I love it!! Yes, you are right. We all are in one way or another. But getting shit on and eating shit in the literal sense?? That IS fucked up anyway you look at it!! Sorry, a far cry from a rape or incest fantasy IMO.....


I've had to do it. And not for "fun."  Call it what you will. 


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RE: Daddy/Little Girl or Daughter - 7/19/2011 8:14:09 AM   
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I was attacked the first second after I opened this thread. But I can handle it. I'm having fun actually. All these ladies are nice. We all have strong opinions....



Objectively speaking, that is an exaggeration. I was unaware that being civilly disagreed with = "attack".

Now your observation does also serve seem to offer a fresh perspective in regards to your use of "always".

Best wishes in your search.

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RE: Daddy/Little Girl or Daughter - 7/19/2011 8:48:26 AM   
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Status: offline 		Ok, well...you placed yourself in that situation. I understand what you're saying though. I wish you luck too and thanks for your nice wishes. :)

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lol....I love it!! Yes, you are right. We all are in one way or another. But getting shit on and eating shit in the literal sense?? That IS fucked up anyway you look at it!! Sorry, a far cry from a rape or incest fantasy IMO.....


I've had to do it. And not for "fun."  Call it what you will. 



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