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DarkSteven -> RE: As a submissive, should i approach you? (7/18/2011 9:23:52 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: VonGlorious

Doms are people too.....right? Yea, yea, they are lol


No, we are not. We stride the world and view it from above.  We sneer at mere mortals and submissives.



erieangel -> RE: As a submissive, should i approach you? (7/18/2011 10:10:52 PM)

Love the claw marks, Peon.



leadership527 -> RE: As a submissive, should i approach you? (7/18/2011 11:53:19 PM)

For starters I rule out the entire "submissive" part of this. The question has nothing to do with "submissives" in my mind. Yes, I know other people have a whole crap load of pageantry that goes along with their chosen role but not me. So I expect a "submissive" to act like a human and like their own authentic self. If that authentic self has the courage to approach a random stranger then yay for you! If not, then you'd better be a pretty flower so that you can get all the guys to approach you. Either strategy works.

My own strategy here is, "The right person to approach is the first person who thinks it's a good idea to do so." Life is too short to let potential happiness slip by due to fear, laziness, or some god forsaken set of BDSM role definitions.



0ldhen -> RE: As a submissive, should i approach you? (7/19/2011 4:09:39 AM)



There is no reason a s type cannot approach a D type.

Personally I prefer to be approached from the saddle of a Harley.....

Seriously, I think until you are in an actual relationship the best approach is a a genuine human being.



SuzeCheri -> RE: As a submissive, should i approach you? (7/19/2011 4:27:08 AM)

Yes of course it is appropriate, as long as you do so crawling backwards and banging your head on the floor.



Aneirin -> RE: As a submissive, should i approach you? (7/19/2011 5:23:39 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: VonGlorious

It's a question i would like some feed back on. There may be a situation where a submissive is interested in a Dominant, but isn't sure he/she is interested. In your opinion, is it proper or appropriate for the submissive to approach the Dominate? Why or why not?








I'll give me POV a llittle later, im more interested in what you have to say :)


My take on this, is all I ask of people in this scene, is be a human first, what comes later may come later, but it is the human I am interested in, what kinks if things work out will be revealed later.

But in saying what I am saying I am indicating I have no time for the protocols of a pseudo society, we have enough of that bollocks with the authorities that rule us in everyday life as it is.



sunshinemiss -> RE: As a submissive, should i approach you? (7/19/2011 5:25:40 AM)


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sunshinemiss -> RE: As a submissive, should i approach you? (7/19/2011 5:26:59 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: SuzeCheri

Yes of course it is appropriate, as long as you do so crawling backwards and banging your head on the floor.


Oh dear, they are multiplying!  Welcome to the fray!



LadyHibiscus -> RE: As a submissive, should i approach you? (7/19/2011 5:53:05 AM)

Quote of the day huzzah!



MasterSlaveLA -> RE: As a submissive, should i approach you? (7/19/2011 12:05:44 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: SuzeCheri
Yes of course it is appropriate, as long as you do so crawling backwards and banging your head on the floor.



...and draggin' yer tits!!! [;)][:D]




LaTigresse -> RE: As a submissive, should i approach you? (7/19/2011 12:06:42 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: MasterSlaveLA

quote:

ORIGINAL: SuzeCheri
Yes of course it is appropriate, as long as you do so crawling backwards and banging your head on the floor.



...and draggin' yer tits!!! [;)][:D]




Up hill.



tiggerspoohbear -> RE: As a submissive, should i approach you? (7/19/2011 1:07:59 PM)

nm try again...




tiggerspoohbear -> RE: As a submissive, should i approach you? (7/19/2011 1:15:39 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: LaTigresse
quote:

ORIGINAL: MasterSlaveLA
quote:

ORIGINAL: SuzeCheri
Yes of course it is appropriate, as long as you do so crawling backwards and banging your head on the floor.

...and draggin' yer tits!!! [;)][:D]

Up hill.

in a blizzard...



ChatteParfaitt -> RE: As a submissive, should i approach you? (7/19/2011 2:51:52 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: tiggerspoohbear

quote:

ORIGINAL: LaTigresse
quote:

ORIGINAL: MasterSlaveLA
quote:

ORIGINAL: SuzeCheri
Yes of course it is appropriate, as long as you do so crawling backwards and banging your head on the floor.

...and draggin' yer tits!!! [;)][:D]

Up hill.

in a blizzard...




Don't forget sashaying yer ass around....gee we need some good ass in this visual.



captnkurk -> RE: As a submissive, should i approach you? (7/19/2011 3:52:10 PM)

YES!! If you (submissive girls or women )are interested, I definitely want to know. Many ways you can flirt and send me the message that you're interested. I like that sort of thing.....



hardcybermaster -> RE: As a submissive, should i approach you? (7/19/2011 4:09:47 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: Aneirin

quote:

ORIGINAL: VonGlorious

It's a question i would like some feed back on. There may be a situation where a submissive is interested in a Dominant, but isn't sure he/she is interested. In your opinion, is it proper or appropriate for the submissive to approach the Dominate? Why or why not?








I'll give me POV a llittle later, im more interested in what you have to say :)


My take on this, is all I ask of people in this scene, is be a human first, what comes later may come later, but it is the human I am interested in, what kinks if things work out will be revealed later.

But in saying what I am saying I am indicating I have no time for the protocols of a pseudo society, we have enough of that bollocks with the authorities that rule us in everyday life as it is.


no no no you have to capitalise Dom/mes and Y/you have to put a / inbetween too, it's vitally important otherwise how the hell would T/they know if T/they were a Dom/me or a sub?
I always capitalise Myself and I never capitalise any other dom/mes that way I know that they know I am the one true Dom



MasterSlaveLA -> RE: As a submissive, should i approach you? (7/19/2011 5:38:39 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: tiggerspoohbear

quote:

ORIGINAL: LaTigresse
quote:

ORIGINAL: MasterSlaveLA
quote:

ORIGINAL: SuzeCheri
Yes of course it is appropriate, as long as you do so crawling backwards and banging your head on the floor.

...and draggin' yer tits!!! [;)][:D]

Up hill.

in a blizzard...



through broken glass...







KenRath -> RE: As a submissive, should i approach you? (7/19/2011 6:42:37 PM)

I find it completely acceptable for a sub to approach me. If fact I welcome it. As I flip through profile after profile looking for a possible match it could take some time to reach a particular prospect. If she finds me first then it gives both of us a better chance of finding each other sooner.

So I say approach away.



Saltypepper128 -> RE: As a submissive, should i approach you? (7/22/2011 5:19:58 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: Aneirin
My take on this, is all I ask of people in this scene, is be a human first,


Yeah what he said. We're just people who happen to share a common interest. If you don't ask, you'll never know, and not knowing will ALWAYS stay with you longer than being rejected or ignored.



BOUNTYHUNTER -> RE: As a submissive, should i approach you? (7/22/2011 5:26:55 AM)

"FR"  Yes approach but do so with extream care smile..This is what it is all about, communication from both sides of the ls..B



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