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RE: Do you think this classified ad makes me sound like... - 7/18/2011 5:56:34 PM   
AngelControlsU


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ORIGINAL: Lockit

Okay, what part of your not having any intention of people connecting the dots from your posts to your profiles and all those addys you have stuck to every post, makes sense? So does this mean they will be disappearing? I mean, if your real intent isn't for them to connect the dots... you might delete the direct path you have left.

I am not so much involved around here and my opinion whether I am or not, is of no matter. I just see you saying one thing and then another and then saying you never said or intended the one thing and you have been a busy lil worker bee lately. Forgive me if I assume you want to get noticed and have an agenda.

As for your post... I read most of it... I think you are a very determined person, who has a pretty lil picture she wants to live. Should you be called a prostitute... no.




Like I said about the first thing, it was not my intention but you are very right and I should have definitely thought ahead. (although your point that my link is on all of my posts here was not relevant because this "ad" was not written for this site it was written for the classified group on fetlife and there is only one link on my fetlife profile in the place for websites)

As for them disappearing, No they will not be, my signature will remain the same, My site however has changed, I already changed the tribute section to not sound demanding but now I have taken it out all together. Anyone who had been to my site a few months ago (which was created 3 years ago and never updated or chanced since, until now) will tell you it was totally geared towards financial domination, I was already working to greatly lessen that connection, I believe I have done so completely now.

Yes I am new here (to the forum I have been on cm for years) and I guess you could say I have been a busy little bee, but I did not think of it as trying to get noticed, I thought I was trying to get involved and make some new friends. But I guess you have to get noticed to make friends don't you. My agenda was only to get back in to the scene and meet some people with the same interests as me, I am recently divorced and have been quite dormant in the lifestyle for the last couple years, I am here to meet new friends and potentially more, to be social (as social as you can be online) and mingle, I am eager to move on with my life and see what the world has in store for me. I am sorry if my eagerness to involve myself and participate made you think different.

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RE: Do you think this classified ad makes me sound like... - 7/18/2011 6:57:58 PM   
DesFIP


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Status: offline 		Haven't read any replies or the entirety of your post.

I stopped at the bit where you announce you will order him to father children.

Frankly, that comes across as offensive as hell. Children should not be used as part of your fetishes. The only person who can decide if he wants children, if he is able to love them and raise them is him.


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RE: Do you think this classified ad makes me sound like... - 7/18/2011 7:22:23 PM   
Tristan


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I am sure my differences in styles boil down to my Female Supremacy views, while I believe men have an important place in this world I believe it is to serve women kind. I believe in a woman choice to do whatever makes her happy and therefore if what makes a beautiful woman happy to serve Me, if she wants to live for me and devote her life to making me happy I would consider Myself to be one very lucky Domme and view that submission as a beautiful gift. Mean while I feel a mans place is at my feet doing whatever I say, in this case it is him who should count himself lucky to have the honor of serving Me and for Me allowing him to take his rightful place as a slave and servant to a superior Femdom Goddess. This does not mean I will not grow to love and cherish him, just like a beloved family pet, Do I love my dog? Of course I do. Do I cuddle him and nuzzle him and let him sleep with me once in a while? Yes I do! Do I take care of him and would I cry if he was hurt? Your damn right I would. Do I let him decide where we walk and what food he eats and weather or not he is allowed to bark at strangers? HELL NO!


quote:

Yes I received a comment about that, I have a son, I love him more then anything in the world and he is spoiled rotten. I do not believe in treating male children different from female children and I do not believe that male children are any less precious then female children. I want My son to grow up with a strong male role model and a very strong example of how a man should treat a woman which in my opinion (and I know I am not alone here) is with the utmost respect, woman should be cherished and cared for, never disrespected or intentionally hurt. I want him to grow up seeing that his father (or step father) would do anything to make his mother happy. I do not treat males as sub standard in public or around My child or even in day to day private life (unless we are privately in an adult play session and that is part of it).


God help your son, and any future children (male or female) you might have.  I doubt you can turn on and off your female supremacy beliefs with your son as easily as you believe.  Children are very good at picking up parents attitudes and beliefs.  My reading is that your female supremacy beliefs go beyond just your kink.  Your son will pick up on this.

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RE: Do you think this classified ad makes me sound like... - 7/18/2011 7:47:30 PM   
HisPet21


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Status: offline 		No, you don't sound like a BDSM prostitute.

You do, however, sound somewhat less than appealing to me, as a sub. As a sub, I like to feel equal in worth to my partner, even if agree to give up equality in power. I would feel very unmotivated to serve someone who saw me as a lesser being, as someone who ought to be submissive because of my sex, not because submission is an aspect of my personality. After all, I want my personality appreciated, not my sex. Don't give my vagina credit for my submission, give ME credit for it! In other words, I wouldn't want to be treated as a member of a group---just another submissive woman, like all other women, a dime a dozen. I'm not looking, but if I were, I'd be sure to skip over any dominants with profiles that insisted "women are by nature here to serve men." Your profile leaves the impression that you'll go for a man, any man, as long as its a man...cause all men are automatically bitches by virtue of being men. Not only is this potentially hurtful, it also implies a lack of skill. Doesn't a skilled dominant value all the individual quirks of the sub? I guess what I am saying is that your philosophy reeks of sexism.

The children thing is a bit off putting as well. There isn't anything wrong with wanting a relationship with someone who might be willing to have children in the future. I'd never marry a man who wasn't at least willing to adopt at some future point. However, stating that he may eventually be "required" to "father children" makes the task a chore rather than an experience to be cherished by both parties. It requires two people, so its a two person decision. There just seems to be something wrong with ordering one to have kids.

While I don't find all of your views or demands moral, I can appreciate you putting yourself completely out there---no surprises---so that only men interested in your brand of dominance apply. You don't hide away that which may be perceived as negative, and I admire that. Also, at least in your add, I don't see any mention of "tribute" in the sense of paying for services rendered. You simply expect you sub to bring money home for the household. As long as you make that clear from the beginning, and don't expect your subs to work beyond their limitations or leave themselves financially uncared for, I don't see a problem with that.




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RE: Do you think this classified ad makes me sound like... - 7/18/2011 8:18:57 PM   
Lockit


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Status: offline 		I really don't want to seem mean spirited, but what I see is your website, your website address on every post here and on your website you mention people contacting you through your application or at CM or Fet. You are clearly pointing people to the website here at CM and therefore what I see on the website is the way I see what you are into or doing. You cannot expect people to get that you really mean something other than what you clearly say on your site. You say there is a new application for hubby slave, and just below that you have a new pay piggies page and you also have a wish list that looks pretty damn current to me. The stuff may be on Amazon all the time, I don't know. You made some changes on your site from what you are saying and I believe that to be true. What you left on the site and the fact that you are sending people to the site by using it in your signature, suggests that you still want some of that too. Although you did say on your blog page that some of your views have changed, the fact is, you are still looking for some piggies and you haven't changed much or defined the changes in your views.

You want to make friends and start anew... great! Kudos for that. But when making friends, I have found that consistency, saying what you mean and meaning what you say... go a long, long way in building trust which is a major factor in what we do and friendship. How can you expect this professional man to fall to his knees and recognize you as superior and deserving of worship if your word can be seen going in such vastly different directions? You can't say in good communication, which I would expect a superior person to have, that you really meant this and not what they are reading.

One would also assume that if you really didn't have your small site cleaned up and ready to go, you wouldn't be sending people there. So which is it? What do you really mean? What we are reading on one site... or the other site... or that other one? They are all pretty much linked in one way or another. You want to be trusted and liked, then clean it all up and make sure it all jives.


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RE: Do you think this classified ad makes me sound like... - 7/18/2011 8:28:55 PM   
Hisprettybaby


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Status: offline 		I read the entire OP. I don't think you are a bdsm prostitute, as you are not specifically offering sex in exchange for money. I don't get into financial domination on either the giving or receiving end and I'm not into Female Superiority either. It's a good thing that you say what you want. It does offend a good number of people I'm sure, so at least you're saying it upfront so they can avoid it if they want to, which I would.

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RE: Do you think this classified ad makes me sound like... - 7/18/2011 9:27:57 PM   
January


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Despite all of your claims of " NOWHERE DO I ASK FOR TRIBUTE!!!!!" Here is a direct quote from your website:

Rules
July 13, 2011

Make sure you read and know these rules, It is your responsibility to know and obey them

I expect my instructions to be followed exactly! I don't waste time on curious subs, if you want to serve me then do it! If not don’t waist my time! Do not Contact me if you can not afford to tribute me.

I expect Tributes first, to prove your sincerity! The best way to get My attention is to PAY for My attention, it is quite valuable! There are many ways to tribute and once you show that you can t...

Honey, you are asking for tribute. (I underlined the damaging sentence). You are asking for tribute in advance of attention. I'm sure you'll change this quote, now that we've pointed it out. You are, at the minimum, dishonest. But telling us that your site is being revised,etc.. etc... so it doesn't count, is nonsense. If you didn't want people to look at your site, you shouldn't put it at the bottom of EVERY one of your posts.

In any case, my time is valuable. Any further consultation on your "classified ad" will cost you. I won't waste my time on greedy moneydommes without payment.

January

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RE: Do you think this classified ad makes me sound like... - 7/18/2011 9:58:46 PM   
AngelControlsU


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quote:

ORIGINAL: DesFIP

Haven't read any replies or the entirety of your post.

I stopped at the bit where you announce you will order him to father children.

Frankly, that comes across as offensive as hell. Children should not be used as part of your fetishes. The only person who can decide if he wants children, if he is able to love them and raise them is him.




That is some really great input, thank you. I did not realize I was giving the impression that I was going to force anyone to have children against their own free will.

When I have corresponded with people who have contacted me about this seriously and we begin discussing what both of us are looking for and what we want out of a relationship kids are something we both have to be on the same page about for me to even continue to the next level. When the sub’s answer is yes they too want kids it is usually followed by, very much, when ever you wish, it would be an honor, stuff like that, that is what I am looking for in a slave and if I were to have my “pretty lil picture” the slave in it would feel that way too, if he had not professed to we would probably not have ended up together in the first place and if by the time I was ready he had changed his mind he would of course have all the freedom in the world to do so. Yes that would then probably end our partnership just as vanilla couples sometimes break up because one of them wants children and one does not.

We use words like slave to describe someone’s place in the relationship and the dynamic of said relationship but I do not believe for a minute that anyone wants to be a real and true slave. They want to choose who owns them, what treatment is acceptable of them and what their limits are. I do not think for one second that My “slave” would not have the right to express his own free will, I would not do anything to him or with him that was not consensual. I do not think that being Female gives me the right to abuse a male force my will upon him (unless of course that is what he wants and we are only playing)

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RE: Do you think this classified ad makes me sound like... - 7/18/2011 10:18:37 PM   
AngelControlsU


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Tristan


God help your son, and any future children (male or female) you might have.  I doubt you can turn on and off your female supremacy beliefs with your son as easily as you believe.  Children are very good at picking up parents attitudes and beliefs.  My reading is that your female supremacy beliefs go beyond just your kink.  Your son will pick up on this.



I have many male friends a few I see on a weekly basis and have known for some time, they do not know anything about my “female supremacy beliefs” they like me just fine and also thing I am a good mom. They are not submissive or in to any alternative lifestyles or anything. I do not go around treating every man I meet as if he should bow down and kiss My feet and live to serve Me.

Of course being a mom I am very biased in the case of my own child I think he is the cutest and sweetest and most amazing little kid in the world boy or girl, I have never in my life thought any little girl was the slightest bit better then my son. I have never treated him different then any girl.

The only thing that I have taught him that would suggest a different of the sexes and yes perhaps a sexist double standard to some that I will make no apologies for, is that he is under no circumstances ever allowed to hit a girl. Hitting should always be off limits to any child of course but I will not teach my son that he can not fight back in self defense if he is ever in a situation where he needs to. The situation did arise at school and I did have to explain that even if a girl hits him first he needs to find a teacher or even run away to protect him self and avoid striking her. Physical violence toward a female will never ever be tolerated in my home. If that makes me a bad mom I am not sorry.

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RE: Do you think this classified ad makes me sound like... - 7/18/2011 11:04:28 PM   
AngelControlsU


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From: Minneapolis, MN
Status: offline 		HisPet21: Thank you I definitely understand your point of view here and you made some really great points, I need to find a good middle ground between trying to put everything out there to thin the amount of subs responding to only those that share my exact view as you said and coming off much to extreme as I have this time.


Lockit: I am sorry but the page does not say that, it is labeled “Pig Pen” because many of the pics of the men on that page are were pay pigs, I had never gotten around to posting the pics that I had of them even though I had been asked about it many times over the couple years, I did not like the last site anymore and I had changed my views and what I am looking for and wanted to chance the site, I knew that lots of people would still like to see the pics I had been promising them and therefore I put them up, I did not think to change the name of the page they were going to be on and it does not say “PAY” anything, just “PIG PEN” lots of guys introduce themselves to me as pigs in fact or dogs or other things that do not sound very flattering.

As for the amazon wish list I do not believe that just having it on there is telling anyone to go and buy, the only reason it exists is because I kept getting asked if I had one, over and over until I eventually made one. I still get a message at least once a month sometimes out of no where asking if I have one. If anyone would like to just go and buy me gifts I am not going to turn them down, I do not think that makes me dishonest or conniving in anyway.

Yes am still open to having pay pigs and money slaves, if that is all they wish to be to Me. What I do not understand is why the fact that I am looking for one of those discredits and invalidates any claim that I want a real time D/s relationship. I did not realize that people can only want one thing in life forever and ever period.



January: You so conveniently skipped the top post which read:

Disclaimer!
July 19, 2011
The two blog entries below were originally written by me over 6 years ago, they may or may not reflect my current ideas and beliefs.

Had I known that there was no one out there that believed a 28 year could have possibly changed any since she was 22 I might have taken the time to edit that as well but I am not trying to hide anything, I have nothing to be ashamed of.

And as for your consultation services of my “classified ad” I did not personally message you and ask you to waist any of your time, I posted in a forum in the section for “asking subs“, to anyone willing and wanting to read and consult, You did not need click, or read or post if you felt it a waste of your time.

You are entitled to all of your opinions but I know for a fact that I have not been dishonest in anyway to anyone here. Thank you for your input, even if it was one of the most disrespectful responses, this is why I posted it here I wanted honest feed back.





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RE: Do you think this classified ad makes me sound like... - 7/19/2011 12:11:42 AM   
LillyBoPeep


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Status: offline 		i guess i don't understand why you'd try to represent yourself on your site, which you use for business, and here, when you're trying to make friends, with a site that supposedly contains outdated information.
you have a post with a cut-n-dry, definitive title like "THE RULES" that i'm sure every guy who reads your page reads, and then you turn around and say "oh but it may or may not reflect my beliefs" -- that literally makes no sense to me. if something didn't reflect my beliefs, but had such a definitive title, i'd re-write it or delete it. sure, people change a lot, but most of them don't continue to represent themselves by their previous no-longer-held beliefs -- and hilariously enough, that post STILL mentions tributing. =p
and it makes absolutely no sense whatsoever to expect someone who reads your posts or visits your profile to NOT connect that site to you, especially when you have "new husband/cuckold/slave application!!!" in red on the homepage! =p how is the website then NOT connected to what you're looking for? you have it attached to every single message you post, in one way or another. do you expect someone to NOT read your profile on Fetlife? do you expect someone to just block out what's in your sig? If so, why bother listing the information at all?

January is not being disrespectful to you at all, you ARE attempting to be dishonest, at least by some people's standards, including mine. you posted this here asking for opinions and what people thought, and you're getting opinions, just not ones you like.

there are lots of ways to signal interest in people who want to flip houses, or people with intelligence and critical thinking skills besides singling in on their assets and professions. maybe you need to learn new ways of communicating through written word. maybe your real intentions are being lost. but people have given you plenty of reasons to expect the response you're getting and it's like you refuse to believe it or you make excuses for it. you don't "have much to show for" your work -- oh other than a few nice TVs, computers, and a couple of trips you've taken -- that sounds like plenty to show for it. what are you expecting to live like Kim Kardashian? you want a man to work, nothing wrong with that, but you can simply state -- "in my household, everyone works" and that covers it without harping on professions and assets.


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RE: Do you think this classified ad makes me sound like... - 7/19/2011 12:14:05 AM   
leadership527


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Status: offline 		As I read the whole thing, you're not trading sex for money, you're trading dominance for money. Much like sex, that isn't my cup o' tea but you're up front about it. If it appeals to some other guy then what's the rub? May you and he live a long and happy M/s life together.

Honestly, I can't compare it to "prostitution" in my head because there is a relationship present. It seems more like the classic rich guy, trophy wife thing with a kinky twist.

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RE: Do you think this classified ad makes me sound like... - 7/19/2011 4:23:14 AM   
erieangel


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Status: offline 		You want an honest critique of your ad? I think it is horrible. Too many misspelled words, darling. You claimed to have run everything through the spell check, but they are still there. And the worst (or is it worse) thing imaginable in my book is somebody who doesn't know the difference among they're, there and their. Whatever happens to be one word, not two...you do this a lot I've noticed throughout the thread as well on your site. For somebody who likes to paint herself as superior to others, you are sorely lacking. Don't get me wrong, I can understand that some people have problems with spelling, I am a poor speller, myself and my son has dyslexia. However, neither of us use that as an excuse to justify obvious laziness and a lack of care.

I find it hard to believe that you made 90K last year in marketing with your communication skills so poor. But maybe most of that was in the form of the "tributes" you claim to not demand any longer? Whatever, I really don't care. You seem to be all about money and the bdsm lifestyle. Where is the living part of it all, you know, those small things that will tell if you and prospective slave or female sub will be compatible? Or do you not care what other people like to do? Will it be all about you? Will your slave and sub have to give up their hobbies to satisfy your need to be the center of attention?

Get off your high horse. You are not all that!


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RE: Do you think this classified ad makes me sound like... - 7/19/2011 4:37:28 AM   
kalikshama


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And as for your consultation services of my “classified ad” I did not personally message you and ask you to waist any of your time, I posted in a forum in the section for “asking subs“, to anyone willing and wanting to read and consult, You did not need click, or read or post if you felt it a waste of your time.

You are entitled to all of your opinions but I know for a fact that I have not been dishonest in anyway to anyone here. Thank you for your input, even if it was one of the most disrespectful responses, this is why I posted it here I wanted honest feed back.


For all the reason outlined by the posters before me, perhaps disingenuous or deluded are better adjectives to describe your posts and rationals for tribute.

You ARE getting honest feedback - it's just not to your liking.

To answer your OP - no, you didn't come across as a prostitute in your ad but you do appear to be trolling for hits to your site.

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RE: Do you think this classified ad makes me sound like... - 7/19/2011 4:54:27 AM   
ChatteParfaitt


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From: The t'aint of the Midwest -- Indiana
Status: offline 		Based on your ad, do I see you as a BDSM prostitute? No, any self respecting BDSM prostitute displays far more moral fiber and stronger ethics than you appear to have.

Your recent posting history is so self-aggrandizing as to be positively pathetic. Though you claim to be a dominant female, you need strangers on the internet to validate who and what you are.

The "ideal scenario" you outline sounds like immature wank fantasy (and that's being kind). Your responses make it clear you are clueless about power exchange dynamics, to say nothing of ethical poly relationships.

Your whole set up screams poser, which is why you have to work so hard to drum up business, despite the huge tits.

For someone who claims to be into female supremacy, you're bringing the entire gender down.

You asked for opinions, this is mine.


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RE: Do you think this classified ad makes me sound like... - 7/19/2011 5:21:53 AM   
Fetters4U


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Status: offline 		Your advertisement is abysmal. It is way too long. It displays fixed opinions on things that need to be discussed. You repeatedly interrupt yourself to expound on your theories instead of sticking to the point.

Your attitude is abysmal. You asked for a critique. The only answer to our comments that is appropriate is "thank you". We have spent a portion of our allotment of time on this world on you.

Stop defending your viewpoint. You are what you are. Words are only words. It does not matter what we think of you. All that matters is that you find what you want, and that you are ALL happy with the arrangement.

I suggest that you put up two separate adds: one for the male and one for the female. Spell out their duties. Leave the philosophy for later.

While I appreciate that this is your fantasy, from an organizational/management standpoint, it makes more sense for the stay at home companion to have primary responsibility for household chores. Someone with a high stress, high salary job like an attorney does not need to be worried about the other stuff.

Since you claim to be a female supremacist, then demonstrate it by having confidence in your female companion. Make her the high wage earning professional, and allow the male to be your housekeeper and assistant. IMHO, this will work better, put less stress on the participants, and you will be far more likely to find takers.

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RE: Do you think this classified ad makes me sound like... - 7/19/2011 5:36:51 AM   
Kana


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As I was saying, the male sub’s first priority is financial gain for his Mistress


Not to jump late into the lynch mobbe (Cackles and spells way olde school), but this pretty much says it all...and it's where I would have stopped reading were I a sub.

It's kinda funny, ya know. I focus on things like, ooooh, I dunno, a relationship, personal interactions, value systems, commonalities, emotional connections. You know, things that matter in a real relationship.


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RE: Do you think this classified ad makes me sound like... - 7/19/2011 4:53:10 PM   
January


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quote:

ORIGINAL: AngelControlsU
January: You so conveniently skipped the top post which read:

Disclaimer!
July 19, 2011
The two blog entries below were originally written by me over 6 years ago, they may or may not reflect my current ideas and beliefs.

Had I known that there was no one out there that believed a 28 year could have possibly changed any since she was 22 I might have taken the time to edit that as well but I am not trying to hide anything, I have nothing to be ashamed of.



You posted your "rules" regarding tribute on July 13, 2011. Honey. That's not six years ago. That's last week. Later, you add a "disclaimer" post which says the posts written just a few days ago "may or may not" reflect your current beliefs? Give me a break. After a week? You can't have it both ways, babe. Either you demand tribute before looking at an application, or you don't.

Any sub male who falls for your sad story is going to be be too stupid to earn you much money. You are not competent, let alone dominant.

January


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RE: Do you think this classified ad makes me sound like... - 7/19/2011 5:14:21 PM   
Giermo


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Status: offline 		 I never look kindly on financial domination. But, that does not make you prostitute. 

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RE: Do you think this classified ad makes me sound like... - 7/19/2011 7:37:55 PM   
LillyBoPeep


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Status: offline 		HAHA -- wow! great points January! i can't believe i missed the date on that blog.

wowzers man... wowzers.


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