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Appropriate Punishment - 7/19/2011 2:12:11 PM   
DommeElaine99


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Status: offline 		What do you believe the appropriate punishment for a submissives man's infidelity would be?
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RE: Appropriate Punishment - 7/19/2011 3:12:45 PM   
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RE: Appropriate Punishment - 7/19/2011 3:14:15 PM   
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RE: Appropriate Punishment - 7/19/2011 3:16:38 PM   
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RE: Appropriate Punishment - 7/19/2011 3:16:48 PM   
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Oh, and kick him to the curb.

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RE: Appropriate Punishment - 7/19/2011 3:26:09 PM   
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RE: Appropriate Punishment - 7/19/2011 3:43:11 PM   
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RE: Appropriate Punishment - 7/19/2011 3:44:32 PM   
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ORIGINAL: DommeElaine99

What do you believe the appropriate punishment for a submissives man's infidelity would be?


The in-sinkerator treatment for sure!!

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RE: Appropriate Punishment - 7/19/2011 6:31:46 PM   
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RE: Appropriate Punishment - 7/19/2011 7:06:21 PM   
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RE: Appropriate Punishment - 7/19/2011 7:57:54 PM   
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RE: Appropriate Punishment - 7/19/2011 8:38:13 PM   
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RE: Appropriate Punishment - 7/19/2011 8:41:45 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Hisprettybaby

Kick his ass to the curb. I have zero tolerance for that shit.

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Yep, THIS. *nods* That goes for vanilla husbands and boyfriends, too.

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RE: Appropriate Punishment - 7/19/2011 9:25:12 PM   
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Status: offline 		I hate to think that I am the only woman that would ask him why. But then perhaps I am odd. I will admit that I have had someone do this to me, but he was not happy at the time (neither was I) so it was not a shock. It is a shame that we live in a world where very few ever try to understand someone else or admit that there was more then likely an underlieing problem to begin with. One that we know is there and did nothing to fix.

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RE: Appropriate Punishment - 7/19/2011 9:28:04 PM   
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RE: Appropriate Punishment - 7/19/2011 9:44:01 PM   
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Status: offline 		Lady Hibi, if that is in reply to my comment I don't give trust easily either. There are infact only three people on the planet I trust. One gave birth to me, and one I gave birth to. That leaves very little room for the third to make mistakes. But with the sub I was speaking of we were not married and had no standing vows that we would be together or each others only partners for the rest of our lives. Also in my mind infidelity can happen on many different levels. If a man I am with wants another woman for her body then I might wonder why. If he wants her for something in her mind, or pardon the lack of a better word "soul" then it would bother me a great deal more.

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It is always by way of pain that we arrive at pleasure.

We must all go through a right of passage,and it must be physical, it must be painful,and it must leave a mark.

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RE: Appropriate Punishment - 7/19/2011 9:54:14 PM   
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Status: offline 		I think many of us were taking a stricter view of the question, that being what if someone wearing my collar were to chet on me. That's something of a relationship limit for me in the d/s sense. In a vanilla relationship, I would try to regroup and see if there was something to salvage.

People drift apart, and relationships change. Sometimes it's not a surprise when one or both parties start looking. When the other party acts loyal to my face and runs around behind my back...no, that's it.



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RE: Appropriate Punishment - 7/19/2011 10:01:50 PM   
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Most "kick'em to the curb" types are single. A curious question might be, can BDSM prescriptions be applied to relationship problems?

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RE: Appropriate Punishment - 7/19/2011 10:06:37 PM   
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Status: offline 		Most people who have posted on this thread are NOT single, Cloudboy.

In my experience, bdsm relationships are the same at the core.

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RE: Appropriate Punishment - 7/19/2011 10:07:07 PM   
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Status: offline 		This would be again where I might be different, or odd. In a d/s realationship I know things change, and in my experience people are "normally" more honest about those changes. However in a vannilla realationship...well to be honest I was married for serveral years and when he was unfaithful it ended things for me.

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*oh and as to the ops original question* the husband was "punished" with a divorce. The pet on the other hand was gifted with being allowed to stand at my side while I was in the hospital. He now understands on a new level what pain really looks like, and why he should respect me enough to always be honest with me......oh and ok I also have a few pics of him bleeding, and crying, and begging me to please let him back in my life (but I'm just that kind of a bitch sometimes)

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