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DommeElaine99 -> Appropriate Punishment (7/19/2011 2:12:11 PM)
What do you believe the appropriate punishment for a submissives man's infidelity would be?

LadyPact -> RE: Appropriate Punishment (7/19/2011 3:12:45 PM)
Release.

LadyHibiscus -> RE: Appropriate Punishment (7/19/2011 3:14:15 PM)
Works for me. A one-way trip to the curb.

SylvereApLeanan -> RE: Appropriate Punishment (7/19/2011 3:16:38 PM)
Ditto.

myotherself -> RE: Appropriate Punishment (7/19/2011 3:16:48 PM)
stick a steel chastity device on him, take him on a daytrip to the seaside. Walk along the pier. Chuck the key in the sea. Make the fucker walk home. Oh, and kick him to the curb.

agirl -> RE: Appropriate Punishment (7/19/2011 3:26:09 PM)
Haven't a clue......but I'd be wanting to know why.......probably because when you know why you often know what. agirl

Hisprettybaby -> RE: Appropriate Punishment (7/19/2011 3:43:11 PM)
Kick his ass to the curb. I have zero tolerance for that shit. ~Hisprettybaby~

hlen5 -> RE: Appropriate Punishment (7/19/2011 3:44:32 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DommeElaine99 What do you believe the appropriate punishment for a submissives man's infidelity would be? The in-sinkerator treatment for sure!!

theGuideGoddess -> RE: Appropriate Punishment (7/19/2011 6:31:46 PM)
If he is an infidel then I can not trust him. If he can not be trusted: I could not have a relationship with him. How many other unknown levels can he not be trusted on? TGG "Adversity causes some men to break; others to break records." – William A. Ward

YSG -> RE: Appropriate Punishment (7/19/2011 7:06:21 PM)
A boot in his ass as he's heading out the door. You can borrow my steel-toed ones if you like.

Tantriqu -> RE: Appropriate Punishment (7/19/2011 7:57:54 PM)
Tell his wife?

seekWHAPwoman -> RE: Appropriate Punishment (7/19/2011 8:38:13 PM)
he should be dismissed Maam

SorceressJ -> RE: Appropriate Punishment (7/19/2011 8:41:45 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Hisprettybaby Kick his ass to the curb. I have zero tolerance for that shit. ~Hisprettybaby~ Yep, THIS. nods That goes for vanilla husbands and boyfriends, too.

MissImmortalPain -> RE: Appropriate Punishment (7/19/2011 9:25:12 PM)
I hate to think that I am the only woman that would ask him why. But then perhaps I am odd. I will admit that I have had someone do this to me, but he was not happy at the time (neither was I) so it was not a shock. It is a shame that we live in a world where very few ever try to understand someone else or admit that there was more then likely an underlieing problem to begin with. One that we know is there and did nothing to fix.

LadyHibiscus -> RE: Appropriate Punishment (7/19/2011 9:28:04 PM)
Betrayal of a vow is not an acceptable solution to a problem. I don't give my trust easily.

MissImmortalPain -> RE: Appropriate Punishment (7/19/2011 9:44:01 PM)
Lady Hibi, if that is in reply to my comment I don't give trust easily either. There are infact only three people on the planet I trust. One gave birth to me, and one I gave birth to. That leaves very little room for the third to make mistakes. But with the sub I was speaking of we were not married and had no standing vows that we would be together or each others only partners for the rest of our lives. Also in my mind infidelity can happen on many different levels. If a man I am with wants another woman for her body then I might wonder why. If he wants her for something in her mind, or pardon the lack of a better word "soul" then it would bother me a great deal more.

LadyHibiscus -> RE: Appropriate Punishment (7/19/2011 9:54:14 PM)
I think many of us were taking a stricter view of the question, that being what if someone wearing my collar were to chet on me. That's something of a relationship limit for me in the d/s sense. In a vanilla relationship, I would try to regroup and see if there was something to salvage. People drift apart, and relationships change. Sometimes it's not a surprise when one or both parties start looking. When the other party acts loyal to my face and runs around behind my back...no, that's it.

cloudboy -> RE: Appropriate Punishment (7/19/2011 10:01:50 PM)
Most "kick'em to the curb" types are single. A curious question might be, can BDSM prescriptions be applied to relationship problems?

LadyHibiscus -> RE: Appropriate Punishment (7/19/2011 10:06:37 PM)
Most people who have posted on this thread are NOT single, Cloudboy. In my experience, bdsm relationships are the same at the core.

MissImmortalPain -> RE: Appropriate Punishment (7/19/2011 10:07:07 PM)
This would be again where I might be different, or odd. In a d/s realationship I know things change, and in my experience people are "normally" more honest about those changes. However in a vannilla realationship...well to be honest I was married for serveral years and when he was unfaithful it ended things for me. ETA- oh and as to the ops original question the husband was "punished" with a divorce. The pet on the other hand was gifted with being allowed to stand at my side while I was in the hospital. He now understands on a new level what pain really looks like, and why he should respect me enough to always be honest with me......oh and ok I also have a few pics of him bleeding, and crying, and begging me to please let him back in my life (but I'm just that kind of a bitch sometimes)

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