Aileen1968
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Joined: 12/12/2007 From: I miss Shore, New Jersey Status: offline
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ORIGINAL: Aileen1968 I find the idea of being tracked incredibly hot. It's something that he's made clear will be part of our relationship. And no....it has nothing to do with trust. Some things he likes to micromanage with me. some things he doesn't. This falls into the category of him wanting to. But here's the thing, you find it hot, he wants it. No issues. Now is he looking for something that can be locked on because you might turn it off and lie to him? For me, the micromanaging thing is to each his own. But this, and now knowing this is an unattached s-type who wants it for himself to present to a yet to find dominant in the hopes they will want to micromanage like that? Seems a bit fantastical and off. ETA: The idea that someone wants to be in a relationship and doesn't want his partner to trust them is just weird in my opinion. To be honest, sounds like hard work and somebody wanting to be watched all the time, a bit like somebody who offers to clean your house but insists on doing it in an elaborate outfit, wanting to be watched and admired all the time and then "punished" for things done wrong... Sod that, rather do it myself, as much effort with less frustration and I know the job is done then to my standards, much better than wasting time watching somebody and ending up doing it yourself anyway because they never actually intended to do a good job... Simply not my thing, if I have to watch somebody to be able to trust them, it's starting off on the wrong foot anyway If this was directed at me... I'm trying to figure out where you came up with this whole punishment aspect. I don't do things or not do things to be punished.
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