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Tribute - 7/27/2011 12:03:11 PM   
rulemylife


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Status: offline 		I have decided that any Domme requesting my services needs to offer tribute.

Just c-mail for my Paypal account and we can have a great time online.

But only online because I'm still a virgin.
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RE: Tribute - 7/27/2011 12:41:53 PM   
LadyPact


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Status: offline 		Well, do you have a Domme requesting your services?

Sorry to disappoint you, but you might run into some Dommes like Me who are willing to confess that they're cheap.  The day I've got to pay for play, I'm out.


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RE: Tribute - 7/27/2011 12:43:54 PM   
LadyConstanze


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quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyPact

Well, do you have a Domme requesting your services?

Sorry to disappoint you, but you might run into some Dommes like Me who are willing to confess that they're cheap.  The day I've got to pay for play, I'm out.



Possibly far too many of them, hence the request for payment to drive them away as the lines are far too long and he's only got a certain amount of time to donate to them...

The day we have to pay to play is possibly the day the world is going to end - or Brad Pitt decides to become a pro sub...

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RE: Tribute - 7/27/2011 12:44:27 PM   
LaTigresse


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quote:

ORIGINAL: rulemylife

I have decided that any Domme requesting my services needs to offer tribute.

Just c-mail for my Paypal account and we can have a great time online.

But only online because I'm still a virgin.



Whyyyyyyyyyy. it's so quiet in your in-box I swear I can hear the crickets chirping!


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RE: Tribute - 7/27/2011 12:51:43 PM   
rulemylife


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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

The day I've got to pay for play, I'm out.



Yeah, isn't that kind of the problem?

And why doesn't it work both ways?





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RE: Tribute - 7/27/2011 12:56:57 PM   
LadyConstanze


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quote:

ORIGINAL: rulemylife

quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyPact

The day I've got to pay for play, I'm out.



Yeah, isn't that kind of the problem?

And why doesn't it work both ways?




Grow tits, have a sex change, what you got to offer that is worth paying for that others don't offer for free? Ever heard of supply and demand?

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RE: Tribute - 7/27/2011 12:57:05 PM   
rulemylife


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quote:

ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

quote:

ORIGINAL: rulemylife

I have decided that any Domme requesting my services needs to offer tribute.

Just c-mail for my Paypal account and we can have a great time online.

But only online because I'm still a virgin.



Whyyyyyyyyyy. it's so quiet in your in-box I swear I can hear the crickets chirping!



Actually my in-box is pretty full.

With women demanding money from me.

Which is the point of the thread.

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RE: Tribute - 7/27/2011 1:01:21 PM   
LaTigresse


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Status: offline 		And this bothers you enough to create a thread about it rather than delete them and move on?

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RE: Tribute - 7/27/2011 1:04:07 PM   
rulemylife


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ORIGINAL: LadyConstanze

Grow tits, have a sex change, what you got to offer that is worth paying for that others don't offer for free? Ever heard of supply and demand?


Isn't that sort of a pathetic statement in its own right?

That all women have to offer are tits and ass.






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RE: Tribute - 7/27/2011 1:14:50 PM   
LadyPact


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quote:

ORIGINAL: rulemylife
Yeah, isn't that kind of the problem?

And why doesn't it work both ways?

Actually, it works the same way for both.  All it takes is a personal position on the subject.  If you don't want to pay, then you don't.

For the second part, it's really, really simple.  There are a lot more of you (male submissives) than there are of us (Dominant women).  Supply and demand.


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RE: Tribute - 7/27/2011 1:40:01 PM   
DavidLee44UK


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quote:

ORIGINAL: rulemylife

quote:

ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

quote:

ORIGINAL: rulemylife

I have decided that any Domme requesting my services needs to offer tribute.

Just c-mail for my Paypal account and we can have a great time online.

But only online because I'm still a virgin.



Whyyyyyyyyyy. it's so quiet in your in-box I swear I can hear the crickets chirping!



Actually my in-box is pretty full.

With women demanding money from me.

Which is the point of the thread.




lol sarcasm they say is the lowest form of witt

odd that i find sarcasm very very funny

just remember to bait that fishing line

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RE: Tribute - 7/27/2011 1:44:05 PM   
rulemylife


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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

And this bothers you enough to create a thread about it rather than delete them and move on?


Yes, obviously.

It's really hard to delete what has become 90% of the red profiles wanting money.

And no, I don't really want to move on because I used to like this site.

But all it has become is a site for those looking to cash in.

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RE: Tribute - 7/27/2011 1:47:37 PM   
LadyConstanze


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quote:

ORIGINAL: rulemylife

quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyConstanze

Grow tits, have a sex change, what you got to offer that is worth paying for that others don't offer for free? Ever heard of supply and demand?


Isn't that sort of a pathetic statement in its own right?

That all women have to offer are tits and ass.




No, we have a lot more to offer, the problem is that you have nothing to offer us that we want, so I guess you can moan and piss about that only women who want pay for play are interested in you, do you think that makes you look more attractive to anybody?

Again, what do you have to offer that we should pay for? You know something that we can't get for free and possibly by somebody who doesn't test our patience by moaning? I wouldn't mind paying a prosub, but as I said Brad Pitt seems to have a rather good career...


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RE: Tribute - 7/27/2011 1:49:27 PM   
rulemylife


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quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyPact

quote:

ORIGINAL: rulemylife
Yeah, isn't that kind of the problem?

And why doesn't it work both ways?

Actually, it works the same way for both.  All it takes is a personal position on the subject.  If you don't want to pay, then you don't.

For the second part, it's really, really simple.  There are a lot more of you (male submissives) than there are of us (Dominant women).  Supply and demand.



So that equates to men having to pay for what should be consensual?

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RE: Tribute - 7/27/2011 1:58:54 PM   
ChatteParfaitt


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From: The t'aint of the Midwest -- Indiana
Status: offline 		There is a reason why prostitution is considered the world's oldest profession.Women have pussy, men want it, the law of supply and demand rules.

The more modern age of the prodomme works on the same law of supply and demand.

A discussion about whether or not that is fair is more than counterproductive. It's how things are.

The economy sucks, and the number of supposed prodommes on CM has increased exponentially. The pros themselves don't bother me, the scammers pretending to be pros, does. I'm sure for a male sub it's annoying as hell. But is it really more annoying than all the desktop doms with their "on your knees bitch" greetings?





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RE: Tribute - 7/27/2011 2:09:06 PM   
LadyPact


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ORIGINAL: rulemylife
So that equates to men having to pay for what should be consensual?


Oh, come on with this.  I know you know better.

Even if you eliminated every pro or fin Domme on the site, it really wouldn't change much.  There still wouldn't be enough female Dominants for all the male submissives who want one.  People would still book pay for play sessions.  They'd just use other means to find them.


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Please do not send me email here. Unless I know you, I will delete the email unread

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RE: Tribute - 7/27/2011 2:12:10 PM   
LadyConstanze


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quote:

ORIGINAL: rulemylife

quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyPact

quote:

ORIGINAL: rulemylife
Yeah, isn't that kind of the problem?

And why doesn't it work both ways?

Actually, it works the same way for both.  All it takes is a personal position on the subject.  If you don't want to pay, then you don't.

For the second part, it's really, really simple.  There are a lot more of you (male submissives) than there are of us (Dominant women).  Supply and demand.



So that equates to men having to pay for what should be consensual?



It is absolutely consensual, apparently all women agree consensually that they don't want to play with you, apart from those who get paid for play!

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Those who do and those who don't!

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RE: Tribute - 7/27/2011 2:50:43 PM   
AAkasha


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I kind of like paying for things. It makes me feel in control. I especially like it if the man has less money than I do, it feeds my fantasy/fetish of ownership. But I have to be attracted to someone.

I sent a guy I am "courting" a little gift from my favorite toy store recently, and then sent him a gift card later. I get a satisfaction from this that goes beyond "what's in it for me." I think that's where the whole tribute thing goes astray. If a person is in a position of "giving tribute" whether they are femdom or sub or whatever, they can't do it with the intent of getting something in return, unless that has been negotiated up front. If a person is sending a tribute unwillingly, reluctantly or with reservations, DON'T SEND IT. If someone is receiving pleasure from the act of giving, go for it. If someone is sending "tribute" in an effort to receive an exchange of goods/services, then spell it out and agree on it - ahead of time.

If I got bent out of shape every time I sent a man a sexy, degrading toy or piece of bondage gear or a gift designed to make them feel slightly objectified, because sometimes these men DO drop off the planet, I'd be virtually unhappy all the time. My wet panties, my erotic rush, my THRILL moment comes from the act of sending the gift and what that makes me feel as a dominant woman in control - everything else is gravy. It's a bummer if a guy vanishes on me, but it's not going to stop me from doing it.

Akasha

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RE: Tribute - 7/27/2011 2:56:40 PM   
DavidLee44UK


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ORIGINAL: AAkasha


I kind of like paying for things. It makes me feel in control. I especially like it if the man has less money than I do, it feeds my fantasy/fetish of ownership. But I have to be attracted to someone.

I sent a guy I am "courting" a little gift from my favorite toy store recently, and then sent him a gift card later. I get a satisfaction from this that goes beyond "what's in it for me." I think that's where the whole tribute thing goes astray. If a person is in a position of "giving tribute" whether they are femdom or sub or whatever, they can't do it with the intent of getting something in return, unless that has been negotiated up front. If a person is sending a tribute unwillingly, reluctantly or with reservations, DON'T SEND IT. If someone is receiving pleasure from the act of giving, go for it. If someone is sending "tribute" in an effort to receive an exchange of goods/services, then spell it out and agree on it - ahead of time.

If I got bent out of shape every time I sent a man a sexy, degrading toy or piece of bondage gear or a gift designed to make them feel slightly objectified, because sometimes these men DO drop off the planet, I'd be virtually unhappy all the time. My wet panties, my erotic rush, my THRILL moment comes from the act of sending the gift and what that makes me feel as a dominant woman in control - everything else is gravy. It's a bummer if a guy vanishes on me, but it's not going to stop me from doing it.

Akasha



were human beings first and foremost with wants and desires

not mindless automatons

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RE: Tribute - 7/27/2011 3:04:46 PM   
LadyPact


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Status: offline 		I think that last bit was kind of rough, LadyC.

I will tell you this, rule.  It's My personal opinion that the net isn't the best method for male submissives.  All it does is widen the gap in the ratio.  There are just plain more men interested in kink than women who are kinky.  There are also more men on the net than women.  When you add both of those facts together, it makes the odds worse.  Really, your odds are a lot better at munches and clubs where that gap isn't so pronounced.  Also, you get to avoid so many folks asking you for money.  The only person who is going to do that is the waitress asking you to pay your check at the munch or the person asking you for your entry fee at the club.  This doesn't mean you won't meet fin or pro dommes in these social settings, but it is going to be less than what you experience here.


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Beach Ball Sized Lady Nuts. ~ TWD

Happily dating a new submissive. It's official. I've named him engie.

Please do not send me email here. Unless I know you, I will delete the email unread

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