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LaTigresse -> RE: Do any men still feel submissive when your balls have been emptied? (7/28/2011 10:54:33 AM)

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ORIGINAL: SUBMALEUK11

Maybe, I've no idea, I just reckon most men on here are like that, no one can be a slave all the time, imagine going to work and acting that way, you wouldn't last l ong
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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

Soooooooooo...........in essence you are not a submissive person but a bottom that gets off on dominant women.......until you get off.



Now you are just typing like a blithering idiot. <<<------ This applies to your post about the design of the male body bodies also btw.

This thread is about personal relationship stuff.........not work.




SUBMALEUK11 -> RE: Do any men still feel submissive when your balls have been emptied? (7/28/2011 10:57:20 AM)

Why the need to get abusive?
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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

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ORIGINAL: SUBMALEUK11

Maybe, I've no idea, I just reckon most men on here are like that, no one can be a slave all the time, imagine going to work and acting that way, you wouldn't last l ong
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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

Soooooooooo...........in essence you are not a submissive person but a bottom that gets off on dominant women.......until you get off.



Now you are just typing like a blithering idiot. <<<------ This applies to your post about the design of the male body bodies also btw.

This thread is about personal relationship stuff.........not work.




LaTigresse -> RE: Do any men still feel submissive when your balls have been emptied? (7/28/2011 10:58:28 AM)

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ORIGINAL: SUBMALEUK11

Why the need to get abusive?



Now you are just fantasizing.




Lucylastic -> RE: Do any men still feel submissive when your balls have been emptied? (7/28/2011 10:58:30 AM)


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ORIGINAL: SUBMALEUK11

I'd say it feels like if a woman's dominant it would make me cum quicker but if she was being dominant with me after I'd cum I just wouldn't like it
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ORIGINAL: DesFIP

I would want to know what the op means by no longer feeling submissive.

Does he mean he doesn't want to continue to play? Well, that's sensible. Just like you don't still feel hungry right after eating.

Does he mean he no longer cares about his partner and wants him/her to be happy? That's something entirely different.

Of course you don't still feel like playing more right afterwards. That's natural. Also natural that your pain tolerance decreases without sexual desire fueling it. However telling your partner to go fuck herself because she asks you to clean up the toys is not normal if you want the relationship to continue.



If you were not happy about being asked to be submissive and continue serving ten minutes after cumming and you didnt like it to the point of complaint, that would be the last time I ever controlled you full stop.
You would be out the door and never see me again.
If your submission is only based on how full your ball sack is, then you are not ever going to be in a good relationship ever





LaTigresse -> RE: Do any men still feel submissive when your balls have been emptied? (7/28/2011 11:00:34 AM)

But if you were a weal and twue sadist.......said ball sack would be locked up and NEVER EVER (my best evil Disney character voice) get emptied.......Muah ha ha ha haaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa!




SUBMALEUK11 -> RE: Do any men still feel submissive when your balls have been emptied? (7/28/2011 11:02:12 AM)

You wouldn't understand about men because your a lesbian[:(]
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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

But if you were a weal and twue sadist.......said ball sack would be locked up and NEVER EVER (my best evil Disney character voice) get emptied.......Muah ha ha ha haaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa!




Lucylastic -> RE: Do any men still feel submissive when your balls have been emptied? (7/28/2011 11:03:54 AM)

Welll even I get the urge to torment after a few days!!! locked and loaded is great but spice adds intrigue and hunger for oh so many things. plus overstimulation has its positives too:)




LaTigresse -> RE: Do any men still feel submissive when your balls have been emptied? (7/28/2011 11:07:21 AM)

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ORIGINAL: SUBMALEUK11

You wouldn't understand about men because your a lesbian[:(]
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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

But if you were a weal and twue sadist.......said ball sack would be locked up and NEVER EVER (my best evil Disney character voice) get emptied.......Muah ha ha ha haaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa!



Reading my post history would cure you of your misconceptions in this regard. Unless of course, you are too lazy of a submissive to do the work.......when gratification of your dick is not involved.




Arpig -> RE: Do any men still feel submissive when your balls have been emptied? (7/28/2011 11:08:16 AM)

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IT's how men's bodies are designed
Oddly enough after I've splooged all over her tits, I still feel like smacking her ass some more, so I'm going with the negative on this one. If an old fart like me can continue to feel dominant and sadistic after cumming, I'm sure a healthy young fella can manage to feel submissive after he has. Perhaps it has something to do with being dominant or submissive, rather than just feeling it.




LadyPact -> RE: Do any men still feel submissive when your balls have been emptied? (7/28/2011 11:08:50 AM)

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ORIGINAL: SUBMALEUK11
That's probably what he wants to say but he'd just be too scared to say it.

Considering that I know us better than you do, I'd say it has more to do that he knows that his job within this dynamic is to submit and obey.  It's not that difficult, really.  That's part of what being My submissive entails.

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I've also heard that a lot of men on here make big promises to mistresses and go back on them. What I'm describing is the reason for this.
 
Considering that he's been collared to Me just shy of four years, I think I'm safe on that one.  When he makes a promise to Me and goes back on it, I'll let you know.

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When a mans aroused he'll say pretty much anything, he'll call himself a slut, worthless Or whatever, when he gets a release he'll go back to his senses, the only men who deny this is true are men who's are on here looking to get off, which I'd say most men do when they come on here.

I'll be the first to agree with you that there are a bunch of horny bottoms here who are only looking to get their rocks off.  At the same time, there are also some damn good submissive men.  Gender has less to do with it than personality type.  I doubt you'd have said the same thing about submissive women.

For some people, this really is sexually based, which is absolutely fine.  They should attempt to match with those for whom it is also sexually based.  For others, it's more about control, authority, service, or a hundred other things.  Just like any other group, all people who are kinky are not the same.





SUBMALEUK11 -> RE: Do any men still feel submissive when your balls have been emptied? (7/28/2011 11:08:51 AM)

I am a bit lazy, I'd look if you posted a few links
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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

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ORIGINAL: SUBMALEUK11

You wouldn't understand about men because your a lesbian[:(]
quote:

ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

But if you were a weal and twue sadist.......said ball sack would be locked up and NEVER EVER (my best evil Disney character voice) get emptied.......Muah ha ha ha haaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa!



Reading my post history would cure you of your misconceptions in this regard. Unless of course, you are too lazy of a submissive to do the work.......when gratification of your dick is not involved.





VideoAdminTheta -> RE: Do any men still feel submissive when your balls have been emptied? (7/28/2011 11:09:15 AM)

Please keep on topic and do not bring the politics forum to General BDSM. While I clean up the thread, please be sure to refrain from making personal attacks.

Thank you




Arpig -> RE: Do any men still feel submissive when your balls have been emptied? (7/28/2011 11:11:06 AM)

In Hannah's own words: Buh bye




mnottertail -> RE: Do any men still feel submissive when your balls have been emptied? (7/28/2011 11:13:16 AM)

I don't feel submissive before or after my nutdrink is expended.  I just don't feel like killin anybody anymore, for awhile at least... 




Rochsub2009 -> RE: Do any men still feel submissive when your balls have been emptied? (7/28/2011 11:17:58 AM)

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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

Every time this question does come up, I think about the times that I've been laying in bed and told clip to do something.  It never even occurs to Me that he would say, "sorry, Mistress, I just had an orgasm".  Having an orgasm doesn't change his nature.



Exactly!.  The idea of saying "no" merely because I've experienced an orgasm would never even occur to me.  It would be like Santa abusing a child; totally out of character.

BTW, I've had the sundae request.  That one is much harder at 2:00am than the simple ice cream request.  Especially if she wants a soft serve sundae. 




Arpig -> RE: Do any men still feel submissive when your balls have been emptied? (7/28/2011 11:19:35 AM)

Don't worry about it, you've just orgasmed, so you can't be expected to figure it out.




SUBMALEUK11 -> RE: Do any men still feel submissive when your balls have been emptied? (7/28/2011 11:23:29 AM)


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ORIGINAL: Arpig

Don't worry about it, you've just orgasmed, so you can't be expected to figure it out.


If Id just orgasmed I'd go for a lie down




Arpig -> RE: Do any men still feel submissive when your balls have been emptied? (7/28/2011 11:24:09 AM)

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BTW, I've had the sundae request. That one is much harder at 2:00am than the simple ice cream request. Especially if she wants a soft serve sundae.
Well Roch, since you're such a nice guy and all, I thought I'd help you out a little. Keep this page handy for future quick reference.






LadyPact -> RE: Do any men still feel submissive when your balls have been emptied? (7/28/2011 11:26:24 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Rochsub2009
Exactly!.  The idea of saying "no" merely because I've experienced an orgasm would never even occur to me.  It would be like Santa abusing a child; totally out of character.

BTW, I've had the sundae request.  That one is much harder at 2:00am than the simple ice cream request.  Especially if she wants a soft serve sundae. 


Fix it like this.  Get the regular vanilla, but pop that into the microwave for about twenty seconds.  Makes the ice cream soft, but not melted.  You can get hot fudge, caramel, and other flavors for the topping that go in the microwave, too.  (I forget who makes them, but they look like a smucker's jelly jar.)  You can pick those up at most grocery (not convenience stores) that are open 24 hours. 




Rochsub2009 -> RE: Do any men still feel submissive when your balls have been emptied? (7/28/2011 11:26:45 AM)

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ORIGINAL: SUBMALEUK11

you wouldn't have typed that if you went aroused though, I honestly don't believe you would.



Actually, I wasn't the least bit aroused when I typed it.

It's okay that you are the way that you are.  But it's wrong to assume that all men are just like you are.

Some men are vanilla and only enjoy the missionary position.  Some are gay.  Some are dominant.  Some are submissive.  Some enjoy cross-dressing.  Some enjoy bestiality.  Some enjoy scat.  Some enjoy CBT.  Some enjoy bondage.  Some enjoy S&M.  Just because I don't fall into one of those categories, that doesn't mean that others don't.  Yet, that is exactly the logic you are using.  You're saying that since you are not a certain way, then nobody else can be either.  That makes absolutely no sense.  Particularly since I have already told you that I am that way.

It's okay that you're not the same as me.  But at least accept that I am how I am.  You are apparently ruled by your level of arousal.  I am not.




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