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RE: Master Is Bored With Me - 8/15/2011 6:36:32 PM

Firebirdseeking

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Mercy:

I have very traditional views of relationships, and it doesnt matter to me whether it is M/s, D/s or vanilla. Which is as follows: a man who is real, in other words, interested in a real time relationship, does not stay on line. He moves from on line, to the phone, rather quickly, because on line could mean he is a 15 year old boy or whoever. If you have been camming with him - I hope you have not done the nudity thing because that reduces his credibility - and yours - even further. If he is really interested in you, he should be meeting you face to face. And, although I know others will disagree with me, I believe HE comes to YOU, or HE sends YOU a ticket. And it is not, at that point, about a "fuck fest". Its about finding out who you are as people. Those who are interested in a real relationship will not stay on line, or put you off. He will give you his phone number and say "You can call me any time", and mean it. Meaning: there is no wife or g/f here, I am interested in building your trust, and this is how I am doing it.

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RE: Master Is Bored With Me - 8/16/2011 5:44:25 PM

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ORIGINAL: DesFIP

Really. If he wasn't, then why wouldn't he jump at the chance for you to come to him and have wild crazy monkey sex?

He's hiding something....most likely a wife/sub/gf or something else that's major.

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RE: Master Is Bored With Me - 10/21/2011 9:11:35 AM

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I've always been sceptical of the online thing. For me i couldn't possibly submit to a man I had never met. And I would question closely why he would refuse to meet me. Yes I've had it explained several times exactly why online can be the real thing, but I've yet to remain convinced. You can't possibly truly trust or fully believe someone you've only spoken to online. (and again this is just my opinion). If you can't trust someone then you can't fully submit to them as I believe trust is one of the most important things in a relationship (d/s or vanilla, it doesn't matter). I think he's married or in a relationship with someone else, possibly has a string of women on the go, each believing that they're "the one". If you're voicing these doubts then you already have your answer

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RE: Master Is Bored With Me - 10/22/2011 5:12:00 PM

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Necro Thread. She asked in August, all the replies are from then, she hasn't been back...you get the picture.

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RE: Master Is Bored With Me - 10/22/2011 6:17:16 PM

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Don't feel foolish, even the best of us can get taken. Put it behind you sweetie and move on. wishing you the best.

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RE: Master Is Bored With Me - 10/22/2011 6:34:05 PM

LafayetteLady

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ORIGINAL: Delilya

Don't feel foolish, even the best of us can get taken. Put it behind you sweetie and move on. wishing you the best.

She moved on in August. She has NO profile. Is it really that difficult to read the date of the last post?

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RE: Master Is Bored With Me - 10/26/2011 5:30:02 PM

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been there......

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RE: Master Is Bored With Me - 10/31/2011 2:36:28 AM

mons

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I am sorry but i feel he is married too or in a relationship , he has something
to hide!!!!! I am sorry your hurt when you first start out it is so real , but that '
person does not see it the same way! Move on , i wish you the best !!!!!

mons/jane

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