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DarkSteven -> RE: Collarme Mistresses (8/11/2011 4:28:50 AM)
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ORIGINAL: NothingWithoutYo
Could an experienced collarme user please tell is it normal that a mistress ask for money like in the first 2/3 messages of a conversation? I am not a gullable person and I am refusing to send money without so much of a photo of them to verify who they are. It would be stupid of me to do so. They say they need it to show I am for real, then why not a phone conversation?
Fella, your entire profile reads like a bad wanker fantasy. You'll attract the scammers and spammers like flies, and drive away the genuine Dommes.
Picture yourself walking into a cocktail party. All the cool kids are talking amongst themselves. If you walk up to folks and introduce yourself, telling your name and what you do for a living, you may not score that night, but you'll likely leave with a phone number or two. If you walk up to people and tell them you're a worthless worm, they'll ignore you.
The lifestyle Dommes here want relationships with sub men. Let them know what you have to offer - what kind of hobbies, if you have a quick wit, will you cook for them, that sort of thing. You want your profile to paint a picture of you as a person and a man to the extent that they could read it and envision a relationship with you. Mention your humiliation fetish, but as a side meal, not the main course.
Rewrite your profile.
Edited to add: Also, hang around the forums and interact with Dommes. As well as subs, slaves, and Doms. See what makes us tick.
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