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qqqq7077 -> RE: Collarme Mistresses (8/20/2011 2:25:18 PM)

true (:, but maybe on a message board you should not be so nasty, but I know what your saying ....rather nicely



LadyAngelika -> RE: Collarme Mistresses (8/20/2011 2:28:56 PM)

Gosh, out of all the things that worry me in life, the way people act, especially when it doesn't really impact my life, are at the bottom of the list. I've grown thick skin and have learned to just let it all roll off me like water on a duck's back ;-)



qqqq7077 -> RE: Collarme Mistresses (8/20/2011 2:35:57 PM)

You have quite the way of sorting things out, Im afraid I dont, I believe in being polite maybe to a  fault, you strike me as a well educated lovely lady , Im glad you crossed my path 



Lockit -> RE: Collarme Mistresses (8/20/2011 2:40:52 PM)

ROFL... some of the nastiest people I have known were very educated.

Look qqqq... I bet you have an education and yet look what you pulled off here. You were rather rude, trying to cross a dominant's path and talk about what turned her on or how much.

So much for your polite approach.



qqqq7077 -> RE: Collarme Mistresses (8/20/2011 2:48:03 PM)

funny how the several times you've posted it always has a negative twist, Im sorry you feel that way....but you are entitled to your form of expression.... 



Lockit -> RE: Collarme Mistresses (8/20/2011 3:01:15 PM)

You admitted that you could have thought it out better and presented yourself differently once it was pointed out to you.

Now you say you are polite to a fault.

Which is it? Is it polite to enter an area where women are and ask to find someone to talk to about whether dominant women get turned on by whatever? What negative slant have I imposed upon you and your words that wasn't seen by many others in the same light I saw it in? Stand by your words... whichever you choose to stand by, but pick some.



qqqq7077 -> RE: Collarme Mistresses (8/20/2011 3:10:03 PM)

I really don't see that as being impolite, I could have said several things in a better way , but that happens when you dont fully understand something, thats why I posted to start with

Some how you feel offended, it wasn't my intention



Lockit -> RE: Collarme Mistresses (8/20/2011 3:12:37 PM)

One doesn't need to feel offended, to know when someone is being offensive and is brushing it off.

Now.. I am done with you. Until better times. [;)]



MistressDarkArt -> RE: Collarme Mistresses (8/20/2011 3:22:16 PM)

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ORIGINAL: LadyAngelika


Actually, I disagree. When I care for a man, I do care what does it for him. I don't equate being a dominant woman with being a selfish bitch. That said, I don't care what does it for a random stranger, that's for certain.


Thanks, Angelika. That better states the point I was trying to make, especially the part in red. I forgot some people seem to need every single little thing spelled out every single time or they're clueless about context. I'm following qqqq on another thread here and hoped he got properly sorted out. Looks like...not... [sm=Groaner.gif]



LadyPact -> RE: Collarme Mistresses (8/20/2011 3:23:46 PM)

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ORIGINAL: LadyAngelika


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ORIGINAL: MistressDarkArt

Dude, have you not figured out yet we don't care 'what really does it for you?' We d o m i n a n t women want to know what you bring to the table. There continues to be a serious disconnect between your fantasy world and the lifestyle reality.


Actually, I disagree. When I care for a man, I do care what does it for him. I don't equate being a dominant woman with being a selfish bitch. That said, I don't care what does it for a random stranger, that's for certain.

From where I'm sitting, you're both right. 

Random guy on the internet?  Not going to care.

Somebody that is important in My life?  I am going to care.

In My opinion, that's why the OP isn't succeeding with what he wants.  There's no real vested interest in him (sorry, tom) so a random stranger (meaning the Dominant women) aren't real jazzed up about the idea.




LadyAngelika -> RE: Collarme Mistresses (8/20/2011 3:27:18 PM)


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ORIGINAL: LadyPact
In My opinion, that's why the OP isn't succeeding with what he wants. There's no real vested interest in him (sorry, tom) so a random stranger (meaning the Dominant women) aren't real jazzed up about the idea.




Well yes, there is no effort. We aren't going to care about what some random stranger's fantasy is. What men forget is that they have to stop thinking like men and start thinking about what women want. And that said, not all women want the same things, but there are some pretty standard well known psychological differences.



MistressDarkArt -> RE: Collarme Mistresses (8/20/2011 3:36:48 PM)


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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyAngelika


quote:

ORIGINAL: MistressDarkArt

Dude, have you not figured out yet we don't care 'what really does it for you?' We d o m i n a n t women want to know what you bring to the table. There continues to be a serious disconnect between your fantasy world and the lifestyle reality.


Actually, I disagree. When I care for a man, I do care what does it for him. I don't equate being a dominant woman with being a selfish bitch. That said, I don't care what does it for a random stranger, that's for certain.

From where I'm sitting, you're both right. 

Random guy on the internet?  Not going to care.

Somebody that is important in My life?  I am going to care.

In My opinion, that's why the OP isn't succeeding with what he wants.  There's no real vested interest in him (sorry, tom) so a random stranger (meaning the Dominant women) aren't real jazzed up about the idea.





This. As to my part of the post above, "we don't care what does it for 'you' (meaning Tom)" being the operative concept. Thanks for backing that up, LP.



LadyAngelika -> RE: Collarme Mistresses (8/20/2011 4:14:58 PM)

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ORIGINAL: MistressDarkArt

quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyAngelika


Actually, I disagree. When I care for a man, I do care what does it for him. I don't equate being a dominant woman with being a selfish bitch. That said, I don't care what does it for a random stranger, that's for certain.


Thanks, Angelika. That better states the point I was trying to make, especially the part in red. I forgot some people seem to need every single little thing spelled out every single time or they're clueless about context. I'm following qqqq on another thread here and hoped he got properly sorted out. Looks like...not... [sm=Groaner.gif]



No problem. Actually, the only reason I find it important to spell every little thing out is because unfortunately, there is a very negative image of dominant women as cold hearted selfish bitches. Some of us might contribute to this, but I think the large part of it via the porn and the scammers that want to extort men for money. Sometimes I think it's important to take the time to explain to men that we aren't all like that, especially to new comers.

That said, regardless of whether or not a woman is dominant, submissive or vanilla, I know few women who are preoccupied by the masturbatory musings of a total stranger (unless of course 1)she is looking for a quick hook-up, which I'm going to guess is much more rare than 2) she wants to make quick cash). Men who approach women with this tactic clearly don't understand women at all, and on this, I revert back to my reply to LP.



HannahLynHeather -> RE: Collarme Mistresses (8/20/2011 6:32:29 PM)

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I believe in being polite maybe to a fault
bull fucking shit! you're a rude little ingrate.

on the thread you started you said over and over you wanted to talk to a dominant woman because you had questions. i offered to answer your questions nearly 8 hours ago. nobody else did, they all told you to go fuck yourself. now not only didn't you take me up on my generous offer, you didn't even acknowledge it, let alone thank me for it.

polite to a fault? i don't fucking think so! i'm hurt, i tell you, you've cut me to the quick!



MistressDarkArt -> RE: Collarme Mistresses (8/21/2011 12:17:52 AM)

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ORIGINAL: LadyAngelika

Well yes, there is no effort. We aren't going to care about what some random stranger's fantasy is. What men forget is that they have to stop thinking like men and start thinking about what women want. And that said, not all women want the same things, but there are some pretty standard well known psychological differences.


regardless of whether or not a woman is dominant, submissive or vanilla, I know few women who are preoccupied by the masturbatory musings of a total stranger. Men who approach women with this tactic clearly don't understand women at all, and on this, I revert back to my reply to LP.


Here here. Hear hear, Tom-boy. Are you listening? And Hannah is still waiting to be thanked, as am I for responding when you wanted to know my wishes.

I see a pattern here with the OP. I'm pretty sure it's going to lead to quite an intimate relationship...with his dominant hand [:D]



qqqq7077 -> RE: Collarme Mistresses (8/21/2011 3:30:34 AM)

Hello
Im sorry, I had no idea I was going to get so many emails, most were nice, but the volume became so great I just stopped answering my apologies



LadyAngelika -> RE: Collarme Mistresses (8/21/2011 9:04:19 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: qqqq7077

Hello
Im sorry, I had no idea I was going to get so many emails, most were nice, but the volume became so great I just stopped answering my apologies



Just a precision. When you get responses on a message board, they are not emails, they are simply message board responses, which is what I believe you are referring to.

Emails are what you get when someone write you from their email account to your email address.



qqqq7077 -> RE: Collarme Mistresses (8/21/2011 9:13:37 AM)

Thank you for that  tip, I'll have to remember that,being new Im learning a lot, nice picture,thanks for taking thetime



LadyAngelika -> RE: Collarme Mistresses (8/21/2011 9:25:17 AM)

You are welcome. Just try to be a little more laid back and observe. Don't be so eager and get to know people. The last thing you want, is to be *that guy*, you know, the one that acts like a little dog humping women's legs? ;-) Contrary to what most men believe, it's a total turn off for women. All women, not just the dominant ones.

If you are patient and engage people on a respectful and personalized level, it might end up working for you.



cloudboy -> RE: Collarme Mistresses (8/21/2011 9:34:42 AM)


There must be something to Domiguy's love of fetlife.......



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