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qqqq7077 -> RE: Collarme Mistresses (8/21/2011 9:36:26 AM)

Thanks again, can always use info like that...just a side note , really didnt expect the volume of replys I got , some ladies polite like yourself contacted me privately on the site

found there conversations more relaxed open since they were not open to public scrutiny , really that was the only draw back some folks got nasty for some reason

thanks

Tom



LadyAngelika -> RE: Collarme Mistresses (8/21/2011 9:47:10 AM)

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ORIGINAL: qqqq7077

Thanks again, can always use info like that...just a side note , really didnt expect the volume of replys I got , some ladies polite like yourself contacted me privately on the site


I never contacted you privately. I rarely like taking public conversations private, especially with people I don't know.

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found there conversations more relaxed open since they were not open to public scrutiny , really that was the only draw back some folks got nasty for some reason


Most of the women who post here regularly aren't worried about public scrutiny here. I think you are reading into this something that there is no. Maybe the reason other women contacted you privately was because they wanted to help and figured a one on one discussion might be more effective. I highly doubt it was for fear of saying what they thought in public. Then again, I could be wrong, but I highly doubt it in this case.



qqqq7077 -> RE: Collarme Mistresses (8/21/2011 10:02:56 AM)

actually most of the replys were civil , some rude or at least I thought so.....but your much more experienced then me so your probably right, plus Im not as jaded as some of the folks Ive heard from

the private reply's were very informative and actually [the info] what I was looking for, some have written several times in a matter hat Im used to

Thanks

Tom



MistressDarkArt -> RE: Collarme Mistresses (8/21/2011 11:14:59 AM)

Tom, I see you perved my profile. Did you actually read the narrative? It succinctly answers the question 'Why Domination' explaining what I get out of it, 'What I Offer Besides Kink' to let folks know that both in and out of my lifestyle proclivities I am a person first. It lists my values and outlook, and explicit qualities I value in a submissive partner. It asks, "Why Submission?" because I want to know why the dynamic is important to you. It asks "What Do You Offer Besides Kink" so I can discover if you are a well-balanced person beyond the lifestyle. It is extremely comprehensive, should answer most questions folks might have, and provide a good base to begin further discussion simply by someone answering the questions posed there.

Or did you just look at the pictures?

My point here is that if you wish to succeed in actually connecting with someone, delve into her profile and if you still have questions that haven't been answered contact her privately. The 'send up a flare in the dark' method you tried doesn't endear you to anyone and thus...you got what you got.



qqqq7077 -> RE: Collarme Mistresses (8/21/2011 11:35:43 AM)

Thank you for sharing that with me, I will keep it in mind, got way more replys then I could answer mostly nice and willing to offer advice like yourself

Thank you

Tom



MistressDarkArt -> RE: Collarme Mistresses (8/21/2011 11:46:54 AM)

So this might be a good opportunity for you to redeem yourself. Since you made a public post calling all Mistresses, how about you answer this question here so we might all benefit and you only have to type one time?

What do you offer besides kink?



qqqq7077 -> RE: Collarme Mistresses (8/21/2011 11:58:33 AM)

actually Imso new the question was sincere , wasnt aware some thought I was offering kink, just curiou



MistressDarkArt -> RE: Collarme Mistresses (8/21/2011 12:21:56 PM)

Which still begs the question...

quote:

What do you offer besides kink?


Try to keep up.

If you walked into a match.com speed dating event and had 5 minutes to present yourself to a woman there, what would you want her to know about you? The guidelines on CM are no different just because this population participates in the lifestyle.



qqqq7077 -> RE: Collarme Mistresses (8/21/2011 12:31:05 PM)

Will do, thanks



GreedyTop -> RE: Collarme Mistresses (8/21/2011 1:40:20 PM)

:: head desk ::



LadyConstanze -> RE: Collarme Mistresses (8/21/2011 1:52:06 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: qqqq7077

Thanks again, can always use info like that...just a side note , really didnt expect the volume of replys I got , some ladies polite like yourself contacted me privately on the site

found there conversations more relaxed open since they were not open to public scrutiny , really that was the only draw back some folks got nasty for some reason

thanks

Tom




Tom do you have a bridge in Brooklyn for sale, and does it come with snake oil?



MistressDarkArt -> RE: Collarme Mistresses (8/21/2011 2:12:55 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: MistressDarkArt

Which still begs the question...

quote:

What do you offer besides kink?


Try to keep up.

If you walked into a match.com speed dating event and had 5 minutes to present yourself to a woman there, what would you want her to know about you? The guidelines on CM are no different just because this population participates in the lifestyle.


quote:

ORIGINAL: qqqq7077

Will do, thanks


Still waiting...
Oh, never mind. Can't get blood out of a turnip. Buh-bye now.[sm=horse.gif]



lobodomslavery -> RE: Collarme Mistresses (8/23/2011 9:14:14 AM)

All I can say is that thanks be to Jesus there are Dommes on this site who actually have on their PROFILE, not interested in Your money, I have my own, and do not associate the word male sub automatically with ATM or how much money can I bleed this guy, thanks be to Jesus there are Dommes who do not have as their first thought to clean out a male sub financially
My faith is restored in this site
Thanks be to Jesus
kevin



GreedyTop -> RE: Collarme Mistresses (8/23/2011 9:15:14 AM)

damn.

oh well.



lobodomslavery -> RE: Collarme Mistresses (8/23/2011 9:17:06 AM)

Like I say thanks be to Jesus
Alleluia, finally , Dommes are not thinking of a sub's wallet, there are actually some who think about drawing out the person behind the wallet not drawing out the person's cash
kevin



HannahLynHeather -> RE: Collarme Mistresses (8/23/2011 10:08:26 PM)

fuck off kevin. there have always been plenty of dommes on here interested in the man not his wallet. it's just that none of them are interested in whiny obsequious little fucks like you.



CynthiaWVirginia -> RE: Collarme Mistresses (8/23/2011 11:58:49 PM)

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ORIGINAL: HannahLynHeather

fuck off kevin. there have always been plenty of dommes on here interested in the man not his wallet. it's just that none of them are interested in whiny obsequious little fucks like you.


kevin, since you are going all faux Christian on us in your last posts...I will respond to Hannah's post with...

Amen.  [:D]

I don't want to be mean and hurt your feelings and all that, but damn.  kevin...all that shiite really gets old after a while.

You got fleeced in the past because you keep sniffing around fin dommes and scammers.  Use the block and delete, and then buy a book on vanilla dating.  There will be a section on cheap but fun dates.  Read this and stay within your budget. 

If you want to be the old fashioned girl in this, so that the Domme pays for all your dates and brings you flowers and chocolates...good luck with that.  Maybe you will get lucky and she will find you.  

I am so grateful I found Bo here at CollarMe.  Gags will be for fun...and not to prevent him from embarrassing himself around other people.



HannahLynHeather -> RE: Collarme Mistresses (8/24/2011 12:51:08 AM)

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Gags will be for fun...and not to prevent him from embarrassing himself around other people.
oh i like that one. i just fucking know i am going to use that some day. thanks cyn.



lobodomslavery -> RE: Collarme Mistresses (8/24/2011 6:23:39 AM)

. Am I not entitled to express my opinion. Anyway what is your favourite ice cream flavour?
kevin



tiggerspoohbear -> RE: Collarme Mistresses (8/24/2011 6:28:19 AM)

This question being asked on different threads is not funny kevin, in fact it's boring and useless.  Why don't you just get off the computer and go for a walk and let the adults talk.  You'd be doing us a great favor, and get some exercise at the same time.  



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