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DecadentDesire -> RE: how much does the physical matter? (8/18/2011 10:46:04 AM)
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ORIGINAL: Nineviles
Your attitude reminds of those women who say "size doesn't matter". Yeah, it's only because they are with men with small dicks.
Question: are you a half way descent young woman? If not, you may not like it that other, more younger women prefer to fuck men with hard young bodies over older men with soft muscles and tushes, aging sperm, etc. Look I get that the rules are different for women who likely can't seem to attract a young hot man which could be where your attitude is coming from.
I'm just talking about sexual attraction and/or mating. Fucking a soft, older man with aging sperm and a squishy ass isn't as appealing as fucking a young man with hard muscles and hard asses to young women. Deny it all you want. LOL.
We are all sexually attracted to healthy, young meat for a reason whether or not that disturbs you.
And of course women are seduced by brainy things too. Like I said the aging man may be more interesting and emotionally mature (if he's not a big baby or a tool) but he isn't as sexually enticing as the young stud with a tight ass and firm abs.
Or...or....
There is the third option.
Everything you have said is ignorant and inaccurate.
Seriously, your viewpoints resemble those of someone who has very little experience playing the dating game. As far as generalizations go, I think it's completely off the mark.
Physical attraction is more important to men then women. To suggest that, as a generalization, it is the other way around is silly. If it was, the video pornography industry would NOT have an overwhelming majority of male clients. Men are stimulated visually while women typically are not.
As far as looks go, men are actually really fortunate, because physical attraction typically comes secondary to things like being well groomed, possessing self-confidence, the ability to set and accomplish life goals and being able to exert mental strength. When it comes to the women I have dated, particularly women who are attracted to dominant men, I find they are looking for a man who can make them feel safe, secure, and comfortable. They want to wrap their arms around a man and feel like everything is going to be fine and taken care of. A man who can make a woman feel this way will have no trouble attracting beautiful women.
Men, on the other hand, are attracted by physical beauty. Why do you think the industry of women's fashion and beauty products nearly doubles it's male counterpart? Because men are attracted by beauty and women know this and strive to be beautiful in order to attract men. Beauty is almost always the deciding factor in whether or not we approach, even in cases when we approach someone who is not the most beautiful woman in the room. Men who are intimidated by the "10" will go after the less threatening "7". It's where that whole saying of "marrying the ugly women" comes from. Most men are actually intimidated completely by female beauty and will purposefully target less attractive women who don't make them feel small.
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