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RE: how much does the physical matter? - 8/18/2011 8:58:51 AM   
MyVision


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that is the only fact ;)

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RE: how much does the physical matter? - 8/18/2011 9:00:34 AM   
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RE: how much does the physical matter? - 8/18/2011 9:28:53 AM   
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If young women had the choice between a hard bodied young man, or an older,
aging man with aging sperm, they would pick the young man to fuck.
If I'm looking to establish a relationship with a man, he is going to have to possess alot more than hard abs and a hard dick. What you may have yet to learn in your youth is that women are seduced more between the ears than between the legs.

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Maybe they would like to have conversations with the aging man but he's not as sexually appealing as a young man with a hard ass. There's a reason why soft asses, sagging skin and aging sperm doesn't excite women and it's because that stuff isn't good quality breeding material. Don't take it personally.
Are you a cow farmer by any chance? Why are you so focussed on breeding when discussing a relationship?
And if breeding is your main focus, what will you, with your hard ass and hard body, do for the remaining 23.5 hours of the day?

I've posted this before, but it seems appropriate to post again.
(My apologies to those young men that are very rare exceptions)

Older men drive better.
They shift smoothly,
hug curves,
take the long way home.
Younger men get excited
revving their own engines.
Afraid you’ll change your mind
if they don’t drive fast enough


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RE: how much does the physical matter? - 8/18/2011 9:56:00 AM   
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No, in My experience, they look for a non-hormonally ruled man with a brain.

Someone who is established and not expecting a chick to fuck him on the first date "cuz I got a cool car with 20 inch rims and 1000 watts of boom in da back baby"

Someone who knows what is truly good versus what is trendy.

Someone who will talk to their face instead of their tits.

Someone who will introduce them to a neat microbrew from Oregon they discovered instead of saying "yo, I got some heinies".

Women tend to look for maturity as long as the package isnt too damaged instead of a pretty wrapper surrounding an 'empty box'.

If you ever get past that 'empty box' stage, you might learn that in a few decades.


YEP!!!




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RE: how much does the physical matter? - 8/18/2011 9:57:06 AM   
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Thank goodness eh Vision?


for sure ;)
one loves fresh sperm..the other creamy cheesy old sperm..lol



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RE: how much does the physical matter? - 8/18/2011 10:08:30 AM   
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Status: offline 		Your attitude reminds of those women who say "size doesn't matter". Yeah, it's only because they are with men with small dicks.

Question: are you a half way descent young woman? If not, you may not like it that other, more younger women prefer to fuck men with hard young bodies over older men with soft muscles and tushes, aging sperm, etc. Look I get that the rules are different for women who likely can't seem to attract a young hot man which could be where your attitude is coming from.

I'm just talking about sexual attraction and/or mating. Fucking a soft, older man with aging sperm and a squishy ass isn't as appealing as fucking a young man with hard muscles and hard asses to young women. Deny it all you want. LOL.

We are all sexually attracted to healthy, young meat for a reason whether or not that disturbs you.

And of course women are seduced by brainy things too. Like I said the aging man may be more interesting and emotionally mature (if he's not a big baby or a tool) but he isn't as sexually enticing as the young stud with a tight ass and firm abs.



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RE: how much does the physical matter? - 8/18/2011 10:14:37 AM   
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Your attitude reminds of those women who say "size doesn't matter". Yeah, it's only because they are with men with small dicks.

Question: are you a half way descent young woman? If not, you may not like it that other, more younger women prefer to fuck men with hard young bodies over older men with soft muscles and tushes, aging sperm, etc. Look I get that the rules are different for women who likely can't seem to attract a young hot man which could be where your attitude is coming from.

I'm just talking about sexual attraction and/or mating. Fucking a soft, older man with aging sperm and a squishy ass isn't as appealing as fucking a young man with hard muscles and hard asses to young women. Deny it all you want. LOL.

We are all sexually attracted to healthy, young meat for a reason whether or not that disturbs you.

And of course women are seduced by brainy things too. Like I said the aging man may be more interesting and emotionally mature (if he's not a big baby or a tool) but he isn't as sexually enticing as the young stud with a tight ass and firm abs.





I know you are talking about younger women, but I'm surrounded, literally, with young dumb, full of cum guys with hard abs and harder heads (both literally and figuratively) and I'd rather operate on myself with a dinner fork than fuck any of them.  Give me a nice squishy older man my age or older, any day...as long as he has a jeep.

WinD

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RE: how much does the physical matter? - 8/18/2011 10:15:34 AM   
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Your attitude reminds of those women who say "size doesn't matter". Yeah, it's only because they are with men with small dicks.


or the girl is not as tight anymore as she used to be

http://drmatlock.com/

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RE: how much does the physical matter? - 8/18/2011 10:22:51 AM   
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As somebody mentioned the pill, years ago when I had an IUD fitted, the thing the OB Gyn told me was "If you aren't 100% happy with your partner, you'll stray" and explained how the pill suppresses the female sex drive AND the sense of smell, which would make sense as the pill makes your body believe that you are already pregnant... Btw I didn't stray - I ditched him!


I find that statement made by your Gyn absolutely fascinating.  But I wanted to clarify, it didn't have to do with the IUD (which do contain hormones), it had to do with the fact you were going of the pill, right?


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RE: how much does the physical matter? - 8/18/2011 10:25:37 AM   
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Your attitude reminds of those women who say "size doesn't matter". Yeah, it's only because they are with men with small dicks.


or the girl is not as tight anymore as she used to be

http://drmatlock.com/

They're ALL tight to me

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RE: how much does the physical matter? - 8/18/2011 10:27:37 AM   
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I better keep my thoughts to myself

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RE: how much does the physical matter? - 8/18/2011 10:28:30 AM   
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RE: how much does the physical matter? - 8/18/2011 10:42:51 AM   
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Does anyone else think nineviles is really similar to a certain boy with long hair that used to troll these boards?



My douche-fu is not good enough to tell one sock from another...

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RE: how much does the physical matter? - 8/18/2011 10:43:05 AM   
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Your attitude reminds of those women who say "size doesn't matter".

Yes, I definately agree size matters... I wanna know what size a guy is cuz i am not into porn star sized guys cuz I'm not into pain at all! I have turned guys down cuz of that (7 inches is max and even then can be too much). The poor dears, they think bigger is better for all women. They even brag about "it", another unappealing trait...

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RE: how much does the physical matter? - 8/18/2011 10:46:04 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Nineviles
Your attitude reminds of those women who say "size doesn't matter". Yeah, it's only because they are with men with small dicks.

Question: are you a half way descent young woman? If not, you may not like it that other, more younger women prefer to fuck men with hard young bodies over older men with soft muscles and tushes, aging sperm, etc. Look I get that the rules are different for women who likely can't seem to attract a young hot man which could be where your attitude is coming from.

I'm just talking about sexual attraction and/or mating. Fucking a soft, older man with aging sperm and a squishy ass isn't as appealing as fucking a young man with hard muscles and hard asses to young women. Deny it all you want. LOL.

We are all sexually attracted to healthy, young meat for a reason whether or not that disturbs you.

And of course women are seduced by brainy things too. Like I said the aging man may be more interesting and emotionally mature (if he's not a big baby or a tool) but he isn't as sexually enticing as the young stud with a tight ass and firm abs.


Or...or....

There is the third option.

Everything you have said is ignorant and inaccurate.

Seriously, your viewpoints resemble those of someone who has very little experience playing the dating game. As far as generalizations go, I think it's completely off the mark.

Physical attraction is more important to men then women. To suggest that, as a generalization, it is the other way around is silly. If it was, the video pornography industry would NOT have an overwhelming majority of male clients. Men are stimulated visually while women typically are not.

As far as looks go, men are actually really fortunate, because physical attraction typically comes secondary to things like being well groomed, possessing self-confidence, the ability to set and accomplish life goals and being able to exert mental strength. When it comes to the women I have dated, particularly women who are attracted to dominant men, I find they are looking for a man who can make them feel safe, secure, and comfortable. They want to wrap their arms around a man and feel like everything is going to be fine and taken care of. A man who can make a woman feel this way will have no trouble attracting beautiful women.

Men, on the other hand, are attracted by physical beauty. Why do you think the industry of women's fashion and beauty products nearly doubles it's male counterpart? Because men are attracted by beauty and women know this and strive to be beautiful in order to attract men. Beauty is almost always the deciding factor in whether or not we approach, even in cases when we approach someone who is not the most beautiful woman in the room. Men who are intimidated by the "10" will go after the less threatening "7". It's where that whole saying of "marrying the ugly women" comes from. Most men are actually intimidated completely by female beauty and will purposefully target less attractive women who don't make them feel small.



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RE: how much does the physical matter? - 8/18/2011 10:46:17 AM   
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RE: how much does the physical matter? - 8/18/2011 10:58:38 AM   
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Status: offline 		i don't think Nineviles is related to "that other person;" i don't remember "that other person" having such an obsession with aging sperm (i mean, how many times do you have to use the same phrase? seriously?) =p

most of the men i know care a heck of a lot more about appearance than most of the women i know. were it not for that, a lot of those men would be pretty unfortunately single. not saying "all" because there are people of each gender who are different, but basic male psychology notes that they are far more visually oriented than women. so to say men don't care about appearance is pretty silly. =p

and really, what is a "decent, young female?" i can only imagine what Nineviles's particular definition is, but i also know many men who don't share it. so is it possible that there are also women who don't think the way Nineviles assumes we all do?

and evolutionarily speaking, "healthy, young meat" doesn't always equal "most suitable mate." even in nature. if an older male lion successfully fends off younger males who want to breed in the pride, he is still seen as a suitable mate by the females. the older animals are proven, have battle scars, and a track record of success that female animals respond to.

there is no "one true way," not even in nature. it's really silly to spout off as if there is, especially in regards to humans, who are about as fickle as it gets.

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RE: how much does the physical matter? - 8/18/2011 12:06:38 PM   
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Gee, I must have hit a nerve on you, lol. Predictable. You will know about my sex life and what I am or am not getting if you ask like a polite boy.

Now, can you stay on track, huh?

If young women had the choice between a hard bodied young man, or an older, aging man with aging sperm, they would pick the young man to fuck. Maybe they would like to have conversations with the aging man but he's not as sexually appealing as a young man with a hard ass. There's a reason why soft asses, sagging skin and aging sperm doesn't excite women and it's because that stuff isn't good quality breeding material. Don't take it personally.


No offense, but your understanding of evolutionary biology (which is what I presume you're basing your argument on) is quite crude. In some cases (I'm thinking across species here), it may make logical sense for a female to choose an older male to mate with because, obviously, he has proven himself able to survive into old age. Assuming it is his genes which gave him that survival ability, she may benefit her offspring by endowing them with the same genes. I say "may" because it's possible that the reason the male survived into old age is that he is not a risk taker. If he's a survivor because he's risk-averse--say he was never inclined to fight other males for the chance to mate--the female may actually be doing her offspring a disservice by giving them the genes that caused that behavior. But let that pass. The point is that it does not hold water to say that a female can't be attracted to an older male on a biological level just because he's old.

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RE: how much does the physical matter? - 8/18/2011 12:20:29 PM   
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Question: are you a half way descent young woman?



Is a "half way descent" woman someone who's in purgatory rather than hell?

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RE: how much does the physical matter? - 8/18/2011 12:42:13 PM   
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Status: offline 		Even in the gay community you see older men finding it hard to get a young stud unless he himself has money. They sit by the bar all night, alone. It's a rather lonely world for older men with soft asses, saggy skin and aging sperm. Yep, but like I said the young meat, hard abs and tight firm asses will always get more pussy easily than a man with a soft ass, chubby belly, etc. Young and hard is sexier than aging soft muscles and a dick that doesn't work like it used to isn't.  Did you know that after 40 , 50% of men start to suffer from impotence? My sex drive declined in my 40s and thank fucking god bc now I can concentrate on a sub's inner qualities and wisdom instead of being wrapped up in her pussy.

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