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RE: how much does the physical matter? - 8/18/2011 12:43:12 PM   
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Question: are you a half way descent young woman?



Is a "half way descent" woman someone who's in purgatory rather than hell?


I'll take a "fully descent" woman, please.

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RE: how much does the physical matter? - 8/18/2011 12:45:08 PM   
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*crosses tj off My list *

dont you have a cute little redhead sub half your age looking for ya?

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RE: how much does the physical matter? - 8/18/2011 1:04:50 PM   
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*crosses tj off My list *

dont you have a cute little redhead sub half your age looking for ya?



Spending the weekend together.


Ya silly brat.

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RE: how much does the physical matter? - 8/18/2011 1:26:46 PM   
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Your attitude reminds of those women who say "size doesn't matter".
Yeah, it's only because they are with men with small dicks. .


And men who think that all a woman needs is a big dick sound like...well, big dicks.

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Everything you have said is ignorant and inaccurate! Being a hot young
stud myself, I've been chasing after poise for months!


Ahhhh, there's one of those rare exceptions I mentioned earlier.

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RE: how much does the physical matter? - 8/18/2011 2:18:49 PM   
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Gee, I must have hit a nerve on you, lol. Predictable. You will know about my sex life and what I am or am not getting if you ask like a polite boy.

Now, can you stay on track, huh?

If young women had the choice between a hard bodied young man, or an older, aging man with aging sperm, they would pick the young man to fuck. Maybe they would like to have conversations with the aging man but he's not as sexually appealing as a young man with a hard ass. There's a reason why soft asses, sagging skin and aging sperm doesn't excite women and it's because that stuff isn't good quality breeding material. Don't take it personally.


Actually, I don't want to breed so the age of the sperm doesn't matter. Now a young hard bodied guy might be nice to look at, when he opens his mouth and - I am keeping with your farming theme - manure comes out, I'm so turned off.

In short, would I even consider breeding, I would pick Hilly over you anytime, because I don't think it would be fair to burden a child with your genetic material or worry that mentally it comes after the father. Don't take it personally, but you just ruined my libido for tonight, bet you hear that often!

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RE: how much does the physical matter? - 8/18/2011 4:19:11 PM   
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Status: offline 		Physical matters until I get to know someone.  Then, I tend to appreciate those traits that are unique to my partner.

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RE: how much does the physical matter? - 8/18/2011 5:32:19 PM   
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ORIGINAL: DecadentDesire


Everything you have said is ignorant and inaccurate! Being a hot young
stud myself, I've been chasing after poise for months!


Ahhhh, there's one of those rare exceptions I mentioned earlier.


And if you think catching someone in their 20s is hard, wait til you go after someone 99.

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RE: how much does the physical matter? - 8/19/2011 2:25:18 AM   
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Status: offline 		Screw the physical. Well OK, screwing a physically attractive woman is fun.

I like geeky. Geeky and obedient.

Damn, but that's a hard combination to find.

In real life, I've mostly dated women who were 5'8" or taller. Not by choice per se, simply because they were the ones who found me.

Geek chicks are generally outside of the standard mold called "fashion." They also tend towards being more sexually adventurous.

I don't care about height or weight. Give me a geeky brain to plunder and I'm happy.

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RE: how much does the physical matter? - 8/19/2011 4:22:49 AM   
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Status: offline 		this really isn't an appearance thread, and there was a pretty nifty conversation going on before Nineviles showed up. can we ignore him? =p




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RE: how much does the physical matter? - 8/19/2011 7:27:21 AM   
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Status: offline 		Maybe I'm wired strange, but I have never met anyone I considered sexy without getting to know them first. I need that mental connection before there is any attraction. Similary, I am not one of those who ever drooled over actors. I've never seen one I consider handsome or sexy. Guess it's because I have never met any.

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RE: how much does the physical matter? - 8/19/2011 7:49:16 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Nineviles

Oh yeah baby. Women look for chubbier, older men with soft and undefined muscles and aging sperm because it screams GREAT fucking breeding genes. Yeah.


Hmmm....when I was young, younger than I'm allowed to state here due to TOS, I was HOT, I made a lot of money as a stripper as I put myself through school.

I was collared to a man 33 years my senior, yup, he was older than my father. Silver hair, crinkled eyes, and to me he was just beautiful. It was his inside I loved though honestly his outside was hot to me as well. And, yes, we had ums together too.

He SMELLED right too.

I still prefer the silver haired gent, to me it is very attractive. Come on, Shaun Connery is smokin.

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RE: how much does the physical matter? - 8/19/2011 7:56:01 AM   
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Status: offline 		re: actors, you know i don't normally find jake gyllenhaal attractive at all.
but in prince of persia, the scruffiness definitely worked to his favor.

i think i'm going to do a personal experiment and see if this tendency does in fact go up for me when i'm ovulating. =p hahaha

what i notice has basically remained the same, but i wonder if the frequency of noticing does go up? after reading through more of the links, i also think that the "teeny bopper heart throb" craze is because a lot of that type of entertainment isn't being marketed to adults anymore. it's being marketed to tweens and teens, so it's more important for the stars to look like they're young and boyish to appeal to the 13-year-old-girl market -- it's a big market! just look at justin beiber and the others who've managed to capitalize on it.

most of the adult women i personally know don't go for zac efrons and justin beibers, but their tween daughters do.
but i also think communities that tend to cling to their past or present rural identity have less of a tendency to embrace those kinds of guys because they look unfamiliar, or like they couldn't put their day's work in on a farm. =p hahaha
there's a lot of very "traditional" thinking at work sometimes.
while i've had some city, inner-city, and straight-up-ghetto life experiences, the bulk of it has been rural, and i've never really noticed a massive amount of fawning over pretty boys by the people around me, except kids, or transplants from bigger cities.


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RE: how much does the physical matter? - 8/19/2011 10:56:16 AM   
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Status: offline 		Here is the most interesting scientific paper on human sexual attraction I've ever read. If any man reading this post happens to be the kind of guy described in the paper as being attractive to fertile women--tall, deep-voiced, competitive, masculine-faced, symmetrical, talented--I advise you to find a sharp pin before you settle in to read. You'll need it to fit your symmetrical-but-now-bloated head through the door when you're done. (I myself was trapped in the kitchen with my laptop for three days. Lacking a pin, and quickly running out of food, I was eventually forced to turn to humiliatrix.com for my salvation. The first thing "Mistress Cassandra" said when she saw me on webcam was, "Uh-oh--looks like we've got another one who read the Gangestad paper.")

http://www.psychologicalscience.org/pdf/onlyhuman/sleeping_enemy.pdf


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RE: how much does the physical matter? - 8/19/2011 10:58:09 AM   
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I don't tend to go for women with squidgy arses or melons, but will do if they're OK to talk to and can crank up a sense of humour. A few women are able to achieve the latter, I've discovered recently. And that's to their credit.

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RE: how much does the physical matter? - 8/19/2011 12:01:29 PM   
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A few women are able to achieve the latter, I've discovered recently.


...only 'recently', hmmmm? *taps foot*

For me, the women and the men I am attracted to are hilariously varied. A type, I do not have one.

The women I actually end up with tend to be about as varied as the ones I'm vaguely attracted to, but I think that's because I tend to actively hit on women.

If you crunch the numbers a definite type of man comes up, though. But because I'm not particularly active in pursuing men, I'd say there's a specific type of guy who's attracted to me. They tend to be stupidly athletic (bearing in mind that I consider all athleticism kind of stupid (sorry, Peon)) - like multiple serious gym sessions a week/marathon runner/iron man competitor levels of stupidity. Until November of last year I'd never had sexual intercourse with a man who didn't have a six pack. True story.

That was not a deliberate trend - I've got to say I really, really love the absence of a six pack just as much as I think six packs are kind of cool. SOFT BELLY YAY. It just...happened that way. I kind of suspect that men who work really hard on their bodies secretly want to be told that they're stupid for spending all that time on it and that it's ok to just have a cookie with me instead.

(I didn't intend the phrase 'have a cookie' in that sentence to be a euphemism, but now I wish it was a commonly recognised one.)

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RE: how much does the physical matter? - 8/19/2011 12:06:02 PM   
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RE: how much does the physical matter? - 8/19/2011 12:08:36 PM   
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RE: how much does the physical matter? - 8/19/2011 12:13:57 PM   
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Status: offline 		Le sigh. Tempted by women five time zones away... (and did you know that metro Detroit is packed with hot chicks? Mens, not so much)

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RE: how much does the physical matter? - 8/19/2011 12:31:30 PM   
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RE: how much does the physical matter? - 8/19/2011 5:28:50 PM   
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Status: offline 		interesting post, VC -- i never really thought about the type that's generally attracted to me, other than the fact that they tend to be ginormous. they're usually 10in. to a foot taller than me. i think that's mostly why i've ended up with tall guys, because i'm usually too shy to approach people myself unless they're riding a unicycle, holding sparklers in their teeth, and carrying a sign that says "i'm interested!!!". =p

so while i may be attracted to a shorter guy, it hasn't been my experience that they're particularly attracted to me, or that they approach me. they don't usually. some have, but were unsuitable for reasons beyond height, like personality conflict, or something else more important.

as far as six-pack abs go, i don't really care about them, either. a soft tummy or a paunch is just fine for me. i don't really care too much about muscle definition; a hint of a muscle is usually actually more intriguing to me. =p like the forearms of a guitar player. *swoon* a guy who's muscular can be attractive to me, but i'm mostly looking at shoulders and arms; abs are kinda secondary. i've had sex with one guy who had defined abs, while the others did not.

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ORIGINAL: NiceGuyNihilist
http://www.psychologicalscience.org/pdf/onlyhuman/sleeping_enemy.pdf


that is an interesting study; thanks for the link! (and thanks for your horn-tooting humorous post. haha ^_^) i like that the conclusion was just another barrage of questions; maybe they'll do more studies with those questions in mind? i think it's interesting that people report more attraction to smells and faces during these times which seem totally under the radar; like you don't assume a guy "knows" when you're ovulating, but maybe they do. maybe they don't know that they do, either. =p hahaha

looking at the calendar, i'm wondering if that's what brought this whole topic on? hahaha



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