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RE: Sex vs Fetish - 8/20/2011 12:38:35 PM

tj444

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If you had to spend the rest of your life only doing your fetish, or being able to have sex. But you could not do both...which would you pick.

sex,.. sex,.. and more.. S E X !!!!

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RE: Sex vs Fetish - 8/20/2011 12:39:16 PM

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all of my fetishes include sex

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RE: Sex vs Fetish - 8/20/2011 12:47:17 PM

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To answer the hypothetical: Kink or sex? Sex without kink is booooooring (tried it, didn't work out), but a celibate hejira does not a happy home make. So, I guess I'd find a way to have orgasms somehow with vanilla sex.

But, in real life, I'm selfish.

I will settle for no less than kink, sex and love.

Oh, wait. I didn't have to.

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RE: Sex vs Fetish - 8/20/2011 4:02:10 PM

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My fetish/paraphilia is S&M and power play. If I could only have one, if i had to be a submissive forever with no sex or masochism I would still give up sex. If all ability to feel pain was taking away from me except for my pinky toe, and the only mechanism I had to hurt someone was a single fingernail, I would still give up sex.

Sex without fetish isn't anything to me. I'm not into sex for sex's sake it feels hollow, plain, mundane, and kinda dumb without my kinks.

A good scene is better than sex, bruises last far longer than an orgasm, and scars are forever >:)

I also can't really fall or stay in love without my partner also having my fetish. The act of sharing pain and struggling for control, sharing that sacred part of me, and experiencing that part in someone else goes a long way to bond me to my partner.

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RE: Sex vs Fetish - 8/21/2011 6:34:42 AM

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Again........what Sunny said.

Seriously, I control my urges. I feel sorry for anyone that doesn't.

Not much of a defense in court........."Yeah your Honor, I just had the urge to kill the motherfucker and since I cannot control my urges, I killed him!" Or........"Yeah your Honor, I had the urge I just wanted to fuck that hot little chick so I grabbed her ass and drug her into my car, took her home and fucked her silly! Just an urge so I had to do it!"

Can you possibly exaggerate any more?

Just because you don't seem to like sex doesn't mean that the rest of us are out of control because we do.

Why yes........I could exaggerate a great deal more.

If you wish to be ruled by your urges.......my sympathies. I prefer to use my human brain and while I acknowledge my urges I do not want them making my life decisions for me.

If this is a difficult concept for you to understand please, feel free to stay far away from me and mine. I've no patience for idiocity.

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RE: Sex vs Fetish - 8/21/2011 12:49:57 PM

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Not sure if you would call the daddy/little girl or daughter a fetish or not but if I had a choice between regular vanilla sex and my kink, It would definitely be my kink.....

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RE: Sex vs Fetish - 8/22/2011 2:06:37 PM

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If you had to spend the rest of your life only doing your fetish, or being able to have sex. But you could not do both...which would you pick.

Why, you thinking of getting married?

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RE: Sex vs Fetish - 8/24/2011 1:32:16 PM

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If you had to spend the rest of your life only doing your fetish, or being able to have sex. But you could not do both...which would you pick.

Oh you are good cornergirl. I tip my hat to you. But regretably I can't decide.

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