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LaTigresse -> RE: Random viewings - what to do? (8/20/2011 7:37:39 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Dreaddom Probably a storm-in-a-teacup, Probably??? Quite the little drama llama aren't you. Get over yourself. Now THAT is me being rude.

rulemylife -> RE: Random viewings - what to do? (8/20/2011 7:40:19 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sexyred1 I see. Should I be concerned? Yes, I'm a stalker. [:D]

tj444 -> RE: Random viewings - what to do? (8/20/2011 7:50:32 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: HannahLynHeather quote: It is the man that picks the girl, the girl does not pick the man [sm=rofl.gif][sm=rofl.gif][sm=rofl.gif] you're so full of shit, how many times have you written that you do just the fucking opposite. come on, a woman gets at least 10 offers every day, i got 4 doing the groceries yesterday. and guess what, while all 4 of them "picked" me - i didn't pick any of them, so they went home and jerked off. men are like a shotgun, make enough passes at enough women, and one will say yes. for the initial email, yes. I never said I picked them back.. sure, they make passes at lots of women but they have to be women the guys are attracted to in the first place.. I have never found me making the first move ever worked.. never.. [:(]

HannahLynHeather -> RE: Random viewings - what to do? (8/20/2011 8:03:49 AM)
quote: but they have to be women the guys are attracted to in the first place.. no they don't. they only have to be alive. and that's not even always a requirement.

tj444 -> RE: Random viewings - what to do? (8/20/2011 8:09:35 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: HannahLynHeather quote: but they have to be women the guys are attracted to in the first place.. no they don't. they only have to be alive. and that's not even always a requirement. if that was the case then when i make the initial move i would have been hitting 100%.

HannahLynHeather -> RE: Random viewings - what to do? (8/20/2011 8:22:10 AM)
have it your way. we both know it's just a fucking bullshit rule with no basis in reality, but i don't feel like getting into a spat over it, we have the op's idiocy to squabble about. now let's view each other's profile and not write, so we can obsess and naval gaze for days, pacing the floor wondering why and if we should write to ask why we didn't write each other.

LillyBoPeep -> RE: Random viewings - what to do? (8/20/2011 8:30:39 AM)
i poke around profiles sometimes because there's an interesting picture, or someone said something really thought-provoking and i want a little bit of insight into who that person is. looking at a profile, or even writing a message, does not guarantee that the person is interested in a romantic relationship with you. maybe they're just nosy.

tj444 -> RE: Random viewings - what to do? (8/20/2011 8:49:21 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: HannahLynHeather have it your way. we both know it's just a fucking bullshit rule with no basis in reality, but i don't feel like getting into a spat over it, we have the op's idiocy to squabble about. now let's view each other's profile and not write, so we can obsess and naval gaze for days, pacing the floor wondering why and if we should write to ask why we didn't write each other. lol No spatting.. [;)] well, i have tried emailing initially before but the guys seemed disinterested so now i just wait for them to email me. But i am not looking right now so no pics on my profile, they have to go by what i say, the photos come later if there is some level of compatibility. I do have some possibles tho and do keep in touch with them, hope to meet them after I leave WA state if they are still available. I do feel I have learned from my past experiences so hope that i find someone much more compatible next time.. but, i dont decide anything until meeting in person (and both wanting to move forward), all this online stuff,.. half the time you cant believe what people say anyway.. I am guessing that you didnt meet Heather online?

impishlilhellcat -> RE: Random viewings - what to do? (8/20/2011 8:51:39 AM)
I like to view profiles when I'm curious as to where someone is coming from. Sometimes reading someone's profile gives me a better understanding of where someone is coming from. In addition, I'm a visual person I like having a visual (if they have pictures) of the person who is writing. Just a personal preference on my part. It doesn't mean that I want to have a conversation with that person or even that I want to be romantic with that person it just simply means I'm curious.

BonesFromAsh -> RE: Random viewings - what to do? (8/20/2011 9:02:23 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Dreaddom Just a bit of feedback too, if you are interested, but the first two replies I found really abrupt (to the point of being rude) As one of those first two repliers...meh. What you call abrupt, I call being direct. Ironic, really, given that I tend to ramble, but your question really didn't seem to require a disertation or sociological analysis on why people chose to view your profile...once, twice or numerous times.

HannahLynHeather -> RE: Random viewings - what to do? (8/20/2011 9:05:59 AM)
quote: I am guessing that you didnt meet Heather online? bingo

Epytropos -> RE: Random viewings - what to do? (8/20/2011 9:07:51 AM)
I occasionally message one if she visits over and over again. Usually they just turn out to be interested but shy. For the most part I figure people are browsing and after reading my full profile figure I'm not for them, unless they come back over n over. It's not something I dedicate a lot of thought to, tbh.

tj444 -> RE: Random viewings - what to do? (8/20/2011 9:13:31 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: HannahLynHeather quote: I am guessing that you didnt meet Heather online? bingo sigh.. its a lot harder online, its all backwards. You dont find out if there is any real attraction until you meet in person. Oh well.. Lucky you (all 4 of you). [:)]

txurinal -> RE: Random viewings - what to do? (8/20/2011 10:09:29 AM)
i look at the profiles of someone who posted so that i can see who they are and what interests them. As a gay submissive, i do not think females or straight males may necessarily want me contacted them

HannahLynHeather -> RE: Random viewings - what to do? (8/20/2011 11:01:38 AM)
quote: its a lot harder online, its all backwards. You dont find out if there is any real attraction until you meet in person. which is why i don't do it online. as fucking usual, it really is very simple. online is for making online friends. offline is for making offline friends. it's when you get these concepts mixed up that shit gets messy.

MasterSlaveLA -> RE: Random viewings - what to do? (8/20/2011 12:19:35 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Dreaddom I have noticed... many submissives and switches are viewing my profile without actually contacting me They're obviously "window shopping", but clearly aren't interested in "buying" what you're "selling" -- sucks to be you.

tj444 -> RE: Random viewings - what to do? (8/20/2011 12:19:36 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: HannahLynHeather quote: its a lot harder online, its all backwards. You dont find out if there is any real attraction until you meet in person. which is why i don't do it online. as fucking usual, it really is very simple. online is for making online friends. offline is for making offline friends. it's when you get these concepts mixed up that shit gets messy. sure.. but my lifestyle is different, I dont go to bars or clubs, I dont go to munches and meeting someone in a bookstore or grocery store is pretty remote... the gym? naw, I'm all sweaty, icky and look like a drowned rat.. lol When i get back down to SoCal in a couple of months I will go to some meet-ups, who knows, I might find someone at one of those.. I am hoping one of my possibles pans out tho.. we'll see.. [:)]

MissImmortalPain -> RE: Random viewings - what to do? (8/20/2011 1:52:16 PM)
To the OP. Do you write in your journal. I had someone that often shows up on my viewed list email me the other day(though he never had before) to tell me he missed my journal posts. To what is being said in the below statement. Yes online is odd but it doesn't mean you can't meet someone online. I meet the sub that has been living with me for the last five years online. Of course I talked to him for around seven years before I ever met him in the real world so yes it can be a long road, but it can happen. quote: ORIGINAL: HannahLynHeather quote: its a lot harder online, its all backwards. You dont find out if there is any real attraction until you meet in person. which is why i don't do it online. as fucking usual, it really is very simple. online is for making online friends. offline is for making offline friends. it's when you get these concepts mixed up that shit gets messy.

MissToYouRedux -> RE: Random viewings - what to do? (8/20/2011 2:42:27 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MissImmortalPain ... Yes online is odd but it doesn't mean you can't meet someone online... Or more than one someone for real-time multi-year relationships... [:)]

peppermint -> RE: Random viewings - what to do? (8/20/2011 3:20:32 PM)
I had one of those return regularly viewers of my profile. I got tired of seeing their name come up. I hid and blocked them. Don't know if they have returned to read the profile as I will never ever see them on Collarme again.

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