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tj444 -> RE: Random viewings - what to do? (8/21/2011 7:34:14 AM)
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ORIGINAL: DesFIP
Considering Hannah truly believes every man out there is a rapist and would willingly engage in necrophilia, I don't think any attention should be paid to her views on male/female relationships.
I also prefer that the man makes the approach. Because I'm afraid of rejection. I also prefer a confidant man, who isn't afraid of rejection. What that meant was I let guys write me, not me write them. I got one decent email and responded. We struck up a conversation, a friendship, fell in love. And then we met. Not the usual way to do it, but it worked. We're still together 8 years later, btw.
Well, I dont think Hannah believes that exactly, she doesnt trust men and I understand that cuz except for a select few that I have come to trust, I dont trust them either and havent since I was 13 and figured out what the score was with them. And even tho becoming a lesbian has crossed my mind a few times cuz it seems much easier some how, I am just not wired that way, so i am pretty much stuck trying to find the needle in the haystack..
I do think many people have found someone special to them online, just as people have found their special person meeting in real life.. Both ways are still difficult for me, just because i see a guy that attracts me in a bookstore makes him no more right for me than someone online, not until i find out where we are compatible and where we diverge and if i can accept those incompatibilities or not.. There are pros and cons to both methods... makes me almost wish there was an app for that.. [:D]
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